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What do you judge other people for?

If I've just been falling for troll bait all evening, I'm going to be very, very frustrated. >.<
 
i judge ppl who judge




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Moral consistency. If you say "blah blah blah" and it can be replaced by something that directly going against your own philosophy, I am endlessly irritated by that. Of course, apologizes upon realizing one's fault usually recovers this - we all make mistakes and showing humility makes it clear that you aim to better yourself from them.
 
I judge people who display blatant ignorance (sexism, racism, homophobia, general closed-mindedness etc) coupled with a refusal to listen to adjust their views when slammed with logic and human decency. Sexist behaviour I tend to judge more harshly, because hooray patriarchy look at that my wage is lower than yours forever just 'cause you have man-bits. Also, sexism is generally disguised or invalidated so easily, with the whole "lololol i wuz just joking/u so overeacting/lol ur being dramatic/u on ur period or something hur hur hur" reply whenever the topic of someone else's sexist rubbish behaviour comes up, which is extra frustrating, because it's still damaging.

That said, I also judge people who don't wet the tooth brush before applying the toothpaste. So. Make of that what you will.
 
Sodom said:
Everybody's deep on the internet. I was expecting things like "wearing uggs in public" lol
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  • not using an indicator on a roundabout when you really should be using an indicator, also I HAVE RIGHT OF WAY HERE PLEASE STOP RANDOM CITIZEN oh okay
  • wearing crocs
  • reading the terms and conditions in detail
  • leaving the ketchup/tomato sauce in the cupboard instead of the fridge
  • professors who reply with "k see u there - gerald" to a carefully written, well thought out and structured academic-worthy email that you, as a 2nd year uni student, spent 20 minutes writing so they don't think you're incapable of proper university level communication. (I am eternally bitter about this.)
  • not using you're and your properly
  • txt tlk
  • leaving the volume of the TV/Radio/Other on an uneven number
Stuff like that? Because I feel those things, too.
 
I judge people for their ignorance.

I judge people for being in a relationship before the age of 13. No, relationships that the old folks used to have doesn't count. Time changes.

And I judge people for using excessive exclamation marks in chat messages!!!
Also, for using text talk in a post, unless you're instant-messaging or texting me.
 
I used to judge people a lot more in the past, but not so much now

I still judge arrogance and sass
Also, I judge blind ignorance
 
I'm often judging people who park in handicap spots with placards/plates. I don't mean to offend anyone but... it's a little hard to believe some of these people who park there and they just walk right into a store with nothing wrong. I do realize that conditions are often invisible, especially since mine are very invisible as well. However, parking in a handicap spot usually means you have a physical condition or something I guess.

I've always been sort of judgmental of these people because if you can simply walk into a store without any struggle... why are you even there? It makes it hard for people, like my dad especially, who really need those spots when we go places. It seems like everyone has a handicap placard/plate.
 
I judge people for:

- How they behave towards their parents / partner, teachers, etc.
- How they dress, as for me it's a direct representation of self-respect
- Their priorities. If makeup is more important than getting to class on time, that's pretty silly (as a nicer word)
- Promiscuity. I'm an old-fashioned monogamist, "find someone you'll marry" kind of person

I think that's about it. I don't care for religions, skin colour, if people have tats or piercings, etc. I tend to shun people in typical who behave ill towards their parents, dress in so little you question why they bothered putting clothes on to begin with i.e. mini-skirts, tube tops, short-shorts (a lot of these show your bum, and that's wtf) etc, don't take education seriously (this is probably tied at #1 quite honestly) or who have a promiscuous lifestyle (tied at #1). I have a lot of strong ethics related to that last one, and I'm sure they'll find people who won't judge 'em for it (or anything else mentioend). I don't affront people about it though or expect life changes lol

We won't get into that, though. Last time it was brought up on PC, people took it personally and somewhat out-of-context :P

I'm often judging people who park in handicap spots with placards/plates. I don't mean to offend anyone but... it's a little hard to believe some of these people who park there and they just walk right into a store with nothing wrong. I do realize that conditions are often invisible, especially since mine are very invisible as well. However, parking in a handicap spot usually means you have a physical condition or something I guess.
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I judge this, too, but mostly when people take those spots and aren't handicapped i.e. with a blue handicap plate. My dad is handicapped - his arthritis is so severe it's deformed the bones in his body, esp. his feet and hands, so walking is more like limping - but he has better days and parks a bit further away when he's not in too much pain. When he's unable to move his wrists at all or he's quite literally limping the entire way from his car to the store, it's quite disheartening to see that some people (I've watched them get out of their cars, so I know) just take that spot even on days where they're fully able, and my limping father has to take 10min to make his way across the parking lot instead. But that's not even the worst scenario: some people take their parents' or grandparents' plates and use them for themselves! So inconsiderate lol
 
Oh another thing. I judge people who generalize genders.

"All men do this, all women do that."

I hate that b.s. mindset.
 
Belldandy said:
I judge this, too, but mostly when people take those spots and aren't handicapped i.e. with a blue handicap plate. My dad is handicapped - his arthritis is so severe it's deformed the bones in his body, esp. his feet and hands, so walking is more like limping - but he has better days and parks a bit further away when he's not in too much pain. When he's unable to move his wrists at all or he's quite literally limping the entire way from his car to the store, it's quite disheartening to see that some people (I've watched them get out of their cars, so I know) just take that spot even on days where they're fully able, and my limping father has to take 10min to make his way across the parking lot instead. But that's not even the worst scenario: some people take their parents' or grandparents' plates and use them for themselves! So inconsiderate lol
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That's how my dad is. He doesn't have it as bad as yours, but he does have good days and bad days though. He also has tendonitis as well. Most of his problems are his legs, and you can tell by the way he walks sometimes too. He has the plates, but still. I do have to wonder about the amount of people 'claiming' to be disabled enough for a handicap spot. You're right. It's so easy to drive a car with the plates or steal a family/friend's placards and use them for yourself. The problem is that you can't report them because they'll most likely make some excuse to why they need it when they really don't.

I do know you can get them for having a heart defect. Most people with bad enough heart defects can't walk long distances because it could be challenging for their heart, which THAT I understand... I just feel bad about judging some people because most disabilities are invisible, and you can't really judge that person by how they walk. It could be some other invisible reason why they park there... or there couldn't be any reason for it at all.
 
LokiofSassgard said:
That's how my dad is. He doesn't have it as bad as yours, but he does have good days and bad days though. He also has tendonitis as well. Most of his problems are his legs, and you can tell by the way he walks sometimes too. He has the plates, but still. I do have to wonder about the amount of people 'claiming' to be disabled enough for a handicap spot. You're right. It's so easy to drive a car with the plates or steal a family/friend's placards and use them for yourself. The problem is that you can't report them because they'll most likely make some excuse to why they need it when they really don't.

I do know you can get them for having a heart defect. Most people with bad enough heart defects can't walk long distances because it could be challenging for their heart, which THAT I understand... I just feel bad about judging some people because most disabilities are invisible, and you can't really judge that person by how they walk. It could be some other invisible reason why they park there... or there couldn't be any reason for it at all.
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Yeah, for me, it's another case of one rotten apple spoiling the bunch.

It's the exact same way I feel about giving money to "homeless" people. Are they really homeless, or is this their part-time job? I've actually seen someone begging for money on a corner and six hours later, at that same corner wearing an Ecko sweater and nice pants, etc. hanging out with his buddies. These kinds of individuals (i.e. people who use others' handicap plates) spoil it for the rest who actually need that spot or the money but don't appear as if they do i.e. heart conditions, as you mentioned. They get badly judged because of the other people who look healthy who borrow the plate, and that's just wrong :(
 
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