OOC - I'm calm my friend, im chilled, im cool XD
Ok, now I can understand why you would think what you think, and in a way you are right that a little bit of bunnying is neccecary, for example if your character was having a pokemon battle with another character, and you wanted to declare an attack such as a seismic toss, then the small bit of bunnying that would be allowed would be for example to do something like this
'' ''Nidoking!'' Flash cried with all his might ''Use seismic Toss!''
The ground pokemon let out a mighty roar and immediately charged at the seemingly helpless Golem, and took hold of him with his two huge arms. With total elegance, yet demmanding power The Nidoking leapt high into the air, the rock type held firmly in his grasp.
This is it! Flash thought, unable to keep a smile off of his face I'm going to win!
he watched on as his prized pokemon reached as high as it could, Flash was filled with a mighty adrenaline rush
''NOW!!'' ''
You see what I done there, i done a slight bit of bunnying like you mentioned, in the sense of taking another characters pokemon and bringing it into the air without the permission of the opposing characters owner, however i stopped the RP at the point where the Nidoking was just about to throw the Golem down to the floor. Therefore giving the creative control of wether or not the attack worked or not, TO the other RP'er. You will find that it will be the better RP'ers among people that would actually allow the attack to continue, or they will make a good RP post about how the Golem was to evade the situation. A bad RP'er would be someone who done something like this.
''Michael watchd as the opposing Nidoking took hold of his Golem, and launched himself into the air while holding it.
The young blonde smirked, this Flash trainer was a fool, this was no ordinary Golem, it's power was it's 2nd best feature only to it's lightning speed
''Golem!'' Michael called confidently ''Get out of there!''
The Golem smiled and with absolute ease, escaped the Nidokings grip and grabbed hold of it's horn,
''Use a REAL seismic Toss!'' ''
see what I mean, maming the pokemon and trainer perfect, never a sign indicating an enjoyable RP, the good part of RP'ing is giving yourself flaws aswell as good features, gives your character the ability to be more believeable, and entertaining to use. In this case, in response to my original example, a good RP'er would choose wether he was going to let the attack work or not, to let your character lose to another persons shows signs of dignity and respect, putting in the effort to make it seem more real, and to realistically lose. This is the sort of thing I would put if i was responding to my own 1st example
'' Michael raised his right forearm to his head and wiped it across his sweaty skin to sweat...this wasn't good. Tjis was one of the toughest battles he had fought in his life, not that he expected anything less from the pokemon leage itself. He turned his head to teh side, hundreds, thousands, millions perhaps, of people all in the barricades watching every move he made....but he had dealt with pressure before, and some minor set backs weren't going to make him give up....
He watched with a confident face, masking a lot of panic as the opposing Nidoking began to fall back down to earth at a great accelerating speed, holding the scared Golem below him....
Michael had to wait, wait for exactly the right moment......but he knew what had to be done....
''...........Golem! Switch Now!!''
he cried with all his might, instantly, the Rock pokemon soaked up every particle of energy left in it's tired body, and grabbed hold of the huge foot of the ground type, swinging it down to an equal level with itself.
Michael cringed as the two pokemon hit the hard groun at the same time with a huge crash.
''Golem!'' Michael cried with concern. Thick Sand from the field had risen and was shielding the two pokemon from view, which one had come off the worst?!..... ''
and there you go, that puts the original RP'er BACK in control, and it also manages to make a lengthy enough post for the battle to continue at a good enough speed.
You see what i mean? trust and respect are important attriutes in RP'ing, if you grant your fellow RP'ers and their characters those things, then they will show it back to you and grant you the same privelages, making your character looking good aswell. In your situation, I would have done something like, show your characters shock and anger at being totally disrespected by this arrogant young man, which you did, then RP as you did but only as far as to say that you watched him from out of view, perhaps hiding behind something nearby which you could decide on, being a telephone box, a post box, who knows, anything you like, and just say you watched the trainer walk up to the door.
What you did was go as far as to force my character into a lab, and without knocking. thet puts elements into my character such as ''breaking the law'' (Entering private property without permission) also you made him look like an ideot, from the profile alone you can see that he is a very suspicious guy and for 1: would have proberly looked behind him to see if you were still there (going in with what i said about granting other RP'ers privelages, say if you would have hid somewhere, i would have made my character not see you, it would be a bad RP'er that would have gone ''mwuhahahahar i can see him behind that post box! what a stupid hiding lace (lol) ) and 2: he may have wantd to look at something or witness something, slowly adding to his suspicions of the new place.
I hope you understand all this and that it has helped you, i really do, if theres any other questions you have just ask in an OOC or via PM.
now if you wouldn't mind either editing your previous IC, or deleting it and making a nw one, I would appreciate it XD *gives pie*