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Regumika

So Graceful
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    Regarding negative things, I wouldn't really bother with telling them since they probably aren't worth my time (to make me feel negative towards them in the first place). If I feel my close friends are doing something I'm not "okay" with, I'd tell them my opinion and how I feel.

    Regarding positive things, I have gotten better at letting them know. Though, I'm the type that would rather keep silent and show you how I feel about you rather than tell you how I feel about you.
     

    Meganium

    [i]memento mori[/i]
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    It's really hard for me to come out with feelings towards people. I don't mind friends, because I actually appreciate them no matter what, but when it comes to people I don't know as much...especially crushes, that's a whole 'nother ball game.

    For my current boyfriend, I was really, really, really shy and nervous to show him how I feel towards him, but he liked me and played it casually...so I decided to follow. When I finally warmed up towards him, I told him that I really liked him, and I wasn't afraid to show him my feelings of love anymore. No longer shy. :3
     

    The Void

    hiiiii
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    Often the truth is irrelevant or disconnected from the discussion so I just tell them what I think they want to hear. I can be the kind of person who can tell if a person is insecure and needs a lie or serious and needs an answer.

    Not that I'm a people-pleaser. If someone pisses me off, well in 9 out of 10 cases, I ask them to stop or I pretend they're a figment of my imagination.
     

    starseed galaxy auticorn

    [font=Finger Paint][COLOR=#DCA6F3][i]PC's Resident
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    I'm the type of person who will tell someone they are awesome or beautiful no matter what. I do this to make them feel good about themselves. A lot of people are really hard on themselves when it comes to appearance. So, the worst thing they want to hear is how ugly or awful they look. That's why I figure it's best to be somewhat supportive of the person rather than just being honest. Honesty can hurt a lot, and it hurts much more than people think it does.
     
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    I actually have a hard time saying anything like that. Whether it's to the person, or to other people, I just...am not really good at giving out compliments like that, regardless of how I feel about somebody. Now, if I feel really strongly about a person, that will increase the chance of a compliment, but even then it's not going to be something I just come out with normally. Maybe during a fit of emotion or something. I just have a really hard time expressing such things through words.

    Probably makes me seem like a huge jerk or something, I realize. :(
     

    Cariad

    world.search(you);
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    Um, I usually compliment people in front of others or tell them how I feel about them around others, but on 1-on-1 conversation I find complimenting people and being straight with them pretty hard. I'm pretty direct when it comes to telling someone I dislike them, though.
     

    Seth Rollins

    Holding on to You |-/
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    Of course. Being nice is...well, cool, and complimenting people will 100% make them feel special so, like, why not?

    But...if I find them annoying or stupid, I really don't want to hurt their feelings even if I do hate them so instead I try to say something nicer or better than just insults :p
     
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    I'm a very quite person so I usually don't tell people to often how I feel about them unless I'm having a problem with them but that's very rare.
     
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