You're Awesome. <3

Regarding negative things, I wouldn't really bother with telling them since they probably aren't worth my time (to make me feel negative towards them in the first place). If I feel my close friends are doing something I'm not "okay" with, I'd tell them my opinion and how I feel.

Regarding positive things, I have gotten better at letting them know. Though, I'm the type that would rather keep silent and show you how I feel about you rather than tell you how I feel about you.
 
It's really hard for me to come out with feelings towards people. I don't mind friends, because I actually appreciate them no matter what, but when it comes to people I don't know as much...especially crushes, that's a whole 'nother ball game.

For my current boyfriend, I was really, really, really shy and nervous to show him how I feel towards him, but he liked me and played it casually...so I decided to follow. When I finally warmed up towards him, I told him that I really liked him, and I wasn't afraid to show him my feelings of love anymore. No longer shy. :3
 
I make compliments a lot. But when I don't like someone, I usually don't tell them.
 
Often the truth is irrelevant or disconnected from the discussion so I just tell them what I think they want to hear. I can be the kind of person who can tell if a person is insecure and needs a lie or serious and needs an answer.

Not that I'm a people-pleaser. If someone pisses me off, well in 9 out of 10 cases, I ask them to stop or I pretend they're a figment of my imagination.
 
I'm the type of person who will tell someone they are awesome or beautiful no matter what. I do this to make them feel good about themselves. A lot of people are really hard on themselves when it comes to appearance. So, the worst thing they want to hear is how ugly or awful they look. That's why I figure it's best to be somewhat supportive of the person rather than just being honest. Honesty can hurt a lot, and it hurts much more than people think it does.
 
I actually have a hard time saying anything like that. Whether it's to the person, or to other people, I just...am not really good at giving out compliments like that, regardless of how I feel about somebody. Now, if I feel really strongly about a person, that will increase the chance of a compliment, but even then it's not going to be something I just come out with normally. Maybe during a fit of emotion or something. I just have a really hard time expressing such things through words.

Probably makes me seem like a huge jerk or something, I realize. :(
 
Of course. Being nice is...well, cool, and complimenting people will 100% make them feel special so, like, why not?

But...if I find them annoying or stupid, I really don't want to hurt their feelings even if I do hate them so instead I try to say something nicer or better than just insults :p
 
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