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    How many girlfriends/boyfriends have you had? If you've had/have one, how do you think you treated the person?

    I've only had one boyfriend, lol. I guess it comes down to the fact that I'm not attracted to many people, I have high standards and I don't want to waste time with someone who I don't feel I could pursue a real relationship with. That doesn't mean to say I don't flirt with every hot guy within a 40 mile radius, though. Plus, I'm one of those people who has trust issues so it takes a lot for me to want to pursue a relationship with that person. I'm afraid that they'll leave me for the next person they see, and while this isn't a rational fear I have (I wish to overcome it), it dominates my life nevertheless. So...I guess I treated my boyfriend as well as I could, even though we had fights (usually because of my emotional issues). I think I gave him the love and respect he deserved and even though we've ended, I hope he knows that I did my best.
     
    I read that as if you actually are Harley Quinn and it made it even cuter.
    I'd honestly be shocked if I heard someone say they've been with their first partner for a long amount of time, it's like we need a trial session so we can learn how to not be **** mess up.

    Anyway I've had three serious ones.
    One was great at the start, then got bad, and ended really bad. I tried my best, but it was hard and we both ****ed up.
    Second got way more than she deserved and she's a total ***** and I hope she overdoses. I never treated her bad, she treated me like ****.
    No problems whatsoever with the third. Wonderful.
     
    Three people. First relationship was with my first ever crush, it didn't last long, we just didn't see each other much. Second was with one of the most amazing person I've ever met in my life, it started out with her telling me she had a crush on me, we went out together for a few weeks but it just didn't go well, that way, we didn't really like each other in that way, we'd turned out to just be best friends, and we had so much in common. Though last year she had to move due to her dad getting a job in a different country, before she left me and a few friends took her out on her birthday and had a party on her b-day and few days before she left, I really miss her but we're still in contact. Third was with this really cool guy (I'm a very open person, don't judge me), I'd known him for a long time due to him being a close friend of my sisters, that didn't go too well either, we didn't want to go into a further relationship, and we've stayed friends. I've never been in a very serious relationship to be honest.
     
    I've had 4 girlfriends (2 serious, 2nd one is current) and 0 boyfriends. I've also had a few other relationships I don't know how to classify where there were mutually awkward and confused feelings involved.

    For the most part my relationships ended amicably, if sometimes tearfully so I suppose I wasn't too much of a jerk. I think I mostly acted as appropriately and considerately as I could have given the situations and how mature I was at the time, but I still did and said plenty of things worth regretting because, well, I make mistakes.

    I think (hope) I'm being a good person in my current relationship.
     
    How many girlfriends/boyfriends have you had? If you've had/have one, how do you think you treated the person?

    I haven't really counted. However, at an educated guess, meaningful relationships, I would say 3. I don't do relationships really, they are too troublesome in my eyes and I prefer not to be in them.​
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    How many girlfriends/boyfriends have you had? If you've had/have one, how do you think you treated the person?
     I've had like, 3 or 4 real girlfriends. No boyfriends. I treated them very good, I guess. I like being nice and fun to her, and stuff like that. I was never rude until we broke up.
     
    [SIZE="a"]I have never had a girlfrenid, and I don't really plan on having one for quite a long time. Perhaps when I'm older.[/SIZE]
     
    I've had one real boyfriend, and zero girlfriends!:O What can I say...? Boys are sexy ;3

    It takes two for a relationship to exist. We both made our mistakes, and we both had the times when we loved each other exactly the way we should. I don't fall for someone easily, it takes a lot for someone to actually, truly mean something for me. So far, 1 person(excluding family) has ever made it to that last, and it was him. He was top of the list, I cared about him most. I was ready to give him the world on a silver platter, and maybe I would have. But no one can really say. Things didn't work out because are odd ends were too different to fit together, but yeah. We both made mistakes, we both did things we shouldn't have, so we both were drawn apart. But the good news? I am about 100% happier.
     
    Errr. Four. Techinically Five but I don't like counting the first one because that one was pretty petty. Three of them stopped because I wasn't really interested anymore for one reason or another, and one of them because my mom told me I couldn't date and I was a good girl and broke up with my boyfriend. In that retrospect, you can say that he wasn't really for me either since I did it quite easily, haha. . .

    I started out the way I usually was with the ones that wasn't dropped due to my mom, but they started going downhill when I found flaws about them that bothered me to no end. I guess you can say I'm a bit shallow or something. D|;
     
    I've had 4 significant others, and one idk what-to-call-it relationship. First one wasn't bad, but the shortest of my relationships. Second lasted a year, and I don't really know how. They had mental issues that made them say/do things they didn't mean, and looking back, I don't know how I tolerated it. Third one scarred me for life (seems like it, since I don't think I've been the same in some regards since then), but also lasted a little over a year. It shouldn't have. Fourth started great, got bad, got better, fell to an all-time low, then ended mutually and, of course, lasted over a year. The not-really-a-relationship one was the best I've ever had.

    I think I treated them all as best as I could. There are things I could improve on, and there always will be. I'm not perfect, neither were they. But a few of them crossed the "you just don't do that" line. That fourth relationship got to the point where I felt I was putting everything and then some into the relationship, while they put nothing in. I guess I care too much.
     
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    Non nip zilch. And I'll keep it that way until College or after. I don't need the distraction of relationships, I don't support teenage relationships as most of them are fashion anyway. But some are good. I've had opportunities mind you ;)
     
    I have been plagued by flings! The history of my love life is pretty much I would like someone and start talking to them often until the feeling was mutual and then something would always happen right when either of us were going to make the move. Usually they would end up doing something really stupid or douchey that just ruined everything. Also I have a knack for taking things extremely slow when it comes to the getting to the official relationship part. Mainly because I hate making the first move and usually after a couple weeks or months I'll stop liking someone depending on what they're like so I like to really get to know them before hand. So most times while I was in the getting to know them part I just would lose feelings for them so I made sure nothing came of it.

    As of now though I'm in a serious relationship and everything has been great so no complaints!
     
    I've never been in a real relationship before, so I've had zero boyfriends. I've done the friends with benefits thing quite a bit and rather successfully, but I've never had a boyfriend. I'm only 20, there's plenty of time for that.
     
    I used to have a girlfriend in elementary school. I wanted to be with her every time, but my teachers eventually grew tired of that.
     
    I have had one serious boyfriend and one potential boyfriend I guess you might say.

    My first relationship was with a bisexual guy, and we had chatted on Skype everyday for a couple months until we met. He did give me my first kiss, but nothing more.During our first and last date he told me that he was dating a girl and that he intended to date both of us. I told him that I don't want to be a third wheel, and that it is unfair to his girlfriend who was uninformed about his sexuality. He was such a good guy, I wish that he would have had his sexuality in line, cause I don't share. I think that I was fair in letting him down.

    My ex boyfriend was very nice when I first met him. He was always attentive and committed to me as a boyfriend. We decided to move in together, and we had a great few months together. Then, we went to visit his family - it's a mess. Long story short, he became addicted to various painkillers that his mom gave him, so that he could be persuaded to stay and "take care" of her. So after going back to our place, he went to visit his mom again and got back into the drugs, and treated me like crap. I finally got him back, and thus the beginning of the worst year of my life. He would scream in my face, sell my things for drugs, not show any affection toward me, and then he cheated multiple times. He, at one point, when I found out about the cheating, wanted me and his little boy toy (who was UGLY) to be a trio together. I refused to. I literally gave this person everything I had and it was not enough for him. I was stupid, naive, and enabling myself to be treated HORRIBLY; he was just using me.

    So, even though I am the one that has broken up my two relationships, I think that they were the ones that broke the commitment between the TWO of us, and that they are the "man-eaters" in the situation.
     
    2, the first one lasted for a week and the second one lasted for..... nearly a year. o.o I broke up with him a few weeks ago so yeah, but I think I've treated him good (before we broke up at least xD;)
     
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