Well, you are speaking to a gay man now. And I hope our interactions are respectful, even if we might disagree on certain things. There are some in the LGBT community, I agree, who are overly aggressive, and seem to rub people the wrong way by getting in their faces. I try not to be one of those. I am slightly effeminate, I admit, but I don't go about announcing my sexual orientation to the world, and only talk about it when asked, or when something I think is important comes up.
I am the reverse of you. I find the thought of having sex with someone of the opposite sex more than just a little disturbing. Although, probably, unlike you, I have actually been with someone of the opposite sex intimately. It wasn't for me. See, I'm not a person who just asks others to try and broaden their horizons. I try to do it myself.
I hope we can continue to engage in some interesting, and sometimes spirited, conversations in the future.