That's true. I'll word it less like plot advice and more like how they could deal with major problems in their characters.
The problem is now I'm stuck on one of Goemon's character flaws. Basically, he thinks of romance like it is in fairy tales, where a prince gives a gentle, kind, young princess her handkerchief and they ride off into the sunset (hence why Goemon is so easily manipulated by women). So Goemon is extraordinarily oblivious about recognizing love, either when he's in love with somebody, or when somebody else is in love with him. I don't know how to handle this. :/
I wish I could ask the me in the future what advice I gave about this XD