I don't think it's so much that other people likes the phoning in approach, but just that to others there's way more subjects than just chemistry that they have zero interest in and only wants it to pass :x
Do remember that university isn't so much like school that they are institutes that focus on research and got forced by the government to pass on blocks of knowledge to other people. Even when you go to Japan, it's pretty much a toss up of a coin on part of the prof if the prof will do "relevant things" or if it's those evil freaks who briefly teach stuff then test stuff that's soooo out there... and if stuff that's being taught will even be relevant or practical (especially for a language.)
So it's more like going to Japan on student visa and not so much 'moving there' then? Pricy stuff =( but if you have someone who can take care of you on day to day stuff within campus and share the costs on some stuff, it'll certainly be handy. It's rare enough there's another person who wants to go to the same country for the same program on student visa, so I will say that now isn't a good time to be picky on who to go with if you are seriously going.
Guess you are trying to go next April then? If I remember correctly, a japanese term begins with April or so? Besides your rigorous degree completion and school, what else is up lately?
*typing this using free computer/internet at HK airport while waiting for plane back to Canada!*