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It honestly depends. If you've ever heard of the 5 stages of grief, you should know that you shouldn't try to rush getting past the depression stage. If you try to rush it, the person might stay in that stage much longer than they would if they solved their problems by their own. Anyways, as much as I like helping people, I don't help too much because I believe some people should learn to help themselves first and not get too reliant on friends, in the odd chance that they might actually be alone.
Yeah, I'm extremely lazy too, but just ignore that.