Why would having a girlfriend be a surprise just because the attitude I have towards a job. When you have a income of 5,000 dollars a month and can pay all your bills, put food on the table and still have plenty of money to have fun without working I don't see a issue. I don't think any women wouldn't want to be with a man just because they don't work. Its about being able to support yourself and your family. Also the statement about being a kid. How is 20 being a kid? I turn 21 next month as well. I have a child on the way in February. I don't see the sense in trying to develop a career or get even a part time job when I am already covered for life. If someone can tell me a reason why anyone would want to work 8 hours a day, 5 days a week when they already have enough of a income and plenty left over each month I would be glad to hear it. Most people I have known hate working and only work because they need the income to support their self. It's not about making yourself feel like you have a purpose or filling in free time. I don't know one person who would rather work 8 hours a day then play video games 8 hours or even spend 8 hours doing other things at home/hobbies.
To go back onto subject though. I think I feel like Pokemon is my Life. I spend most my time awake playing Pokemon. As far as PC I get on daily but I am not as active as I wish I could be with my 10-12 hours free time daily, hopefully this will change in the next week or two. In the end though if I am not playing Pokemon or on PC then the only other possible thing I could be doing is spending time with my family. Overall I am happy with not needing balance and my life though. I have been this way for years now and I am not ever going to change except maybe for the first few months after my baby is born but even then I will be active daily.