a good heart these days is hard to find

honey said:
yeah, i've noticed how unsuccessful it's been in the past lmao. don't get me wrong, i've been in relationships, i've just never been the one to initiate them. what would you suggest that i do?
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ime you just gotta take a leap of faith and face the possibility of rejection, the worst that happens is you boost some dudes ego. obviously far easier said than done but, yeah, being direct helps haha
 
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Imafroggy said:
Well yeah, I don't date guys.
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...Touché.

Imafroggy said:
but i'm not wrong when I say that talking and dating doesn't necessarily mean that you're exclusive. You have to make sure to communicate properly to see where the relationship stands and where you both stand. I'm not bothering to be in a relationship because I know i'll cheat and that's not fair for the other person.
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Not that I condone cheating... but if there were a guy who could be incredibly honest with the way he operates with girls, you'd be him. XDDDDD I don't think I'm suited for your style, nor do I care to try it; but I'll admit that you have quite the valid points, and happen to be incredibly aware of them. My point is valid too, but either side is equally host for room in which error can breathe in. So I guess either way is fine, and all it depends on is whether or not those in question are fine with it. X3
 
The past several times that I've actually liked someone enough to try and have a romantic relationship with them, I was the one that initiated it. In recent times, though, I've decided to remove that stress from my life, and I now would rather see where things go naturally. There's a whole lot less worrying about what the other person means by what they say or how they act. This means that I can spend more of my mental energy just enjoying being in the other person's company.
 
In the past I've used online mediums such as this very forum hahaha in pursuing objects of desires. I haven't been in hunting mode for a while now though, so I guess I just chill. But yeah I generally prefer to try and get to know a person and assess them against some general criteria. So not the type to hit the club for pot luck.
 
Taro Tanaka said:
...Touché.



Not that I condone cheating... but if there were a guy who could be incredibly honest with the way he operates with girls, you'd be him. XDDDDD I don't think I'm suited for your style, nor do I care to try it; but I'll admit that you have quite the valid points, and happen to be incredibly aware of them. My point is valid too, but either side is equally host for room in which error can breathe in. So I guess either way is fine, and all it depends on is whether or not those in question are fine with it. X3
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I suppose. But i'm neither right or wrong.
I don't condone cheating and I think it's terrible. Which is why I wouldn't get in a relationship. :)
 
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