I am sorry to say, but I am against abortion. If she didn't want the child then give him/her for adoption. Or try to raise the baby on your own.
Even if she did get raped and got pregnant. I still say give the baby away for adoption. Killing a life...it just not right.
I pretty much agree with this, unless the birth of the baby will have an adverse effect on the mother, then that is really the only time I would agree to an abortion.
Now I do understand that there are situations such as rape, but I still don't agree with it then, the child could just as easily be put up for adoption and the mother can receive counseling and support from a myriad of people that want to help her.
Alter Ego said:
Well, following the 'potential life' argument...has it occured to you how many 'potential people' are 'murdered' on a daily basis by teenagers (and adults) engaging in 'exploring' their own bodies? The amount of wasted sperm cells (potential fetuses and thus potential people) far exceeds the amount of abortions made, but I have yet to see people walking around with plaques reading 'Masturbation is murder'. In fact, drawing the potential thing to its extreme, every time you choose not to have sexual intercourse you are denying the potential fetus its right to come into existence, and thus - by the same logic - we're all murderers, so where do you draw the line? My personal opinion is that you can't murder something that hasn't been born yet (That's a contradiction in terms) and in my opinion birth occurs when the child-to-be is separated from the mother's body and changes from fetus to baby. You are quite free to disagree with me on this, but I choose this distinction because it's a clear and definite line that doesn't turn the countless people jacking off or choosing not to seek hired company at the moment into mass-murderers.
That doesn't exactly work, you need both sperm and an egg to create human life, masturbation and things like periods don't kill off something that has the full potential to become a human. On its own, an egg or sperm will never come to form a body or become truly sentient, and I doubt they can feel much of anything in the way of pain. True, a person is not completely born until they are removed from their mother, but they can still feel pain and they are very much so capable of death, so in my eyes, yes, it is a murder.
As for the actual issue...I'm for abortion. On account of my gender, I have not - and will never be able to - truly understand what being pregnant and giving birth feel like, and as such I don't see myself in any position to tell a woman that she has to do it. I also strongly disagree with some of the tactics employed by anti-abortionists (Particularly harassing women on the way to the abortion clinic and committing violence to and threatening the doctors performing the abortions.) as well as the rather short-sighted agendas I've seen them promote. Sure, they're all for getting the birthgiving done, but how many really give a rat's arse about what happens to that precious little baby after it has been born? Life saved, good job, never mind the fact that this child's family may disown him/her (and possibly his/her immidiate relatives as well) completely and the child may end up hated and mistreated for the - probably short - extent of his/her miserable life. I also find it disturbing how the majority of anti-abortion material there focuses on how awful abortion is rather than on the joys of being a parent, how to raise a child etc. I'm probably going to get some really snappy retorts for this post, but to me that sounds like seriously messed up priorities. xP
Okay, I agree that a lot of the time, anti-abortion groups are far too pushy, but I have seen many church groups and such that will try to keep up with a person after the birth of an unplanned child, and I personally know someone who went through an unplanned pregnancy and got a lot of support after the birth of her child. So, a good majority of the people that are against abortion will help out the person if they decide to give birth.
Two, just because it looks like and is shaped like a human body it doesn't mean that it's a sentient being capable of feeling pain or posessing emotions. By that logic, a child breaking a human-shaped doll is committing assault. This all comes down to whether or not fetuses can be considered to think and feel, something which - unfortunately - we don't have an answer to at the moment.
In situations such as abortion and dealing with the potential to take a life, it's always best to assume something such as a fetus can feel pain. Your analogy about the human shaped doll doesn't make much sense either, a doll is made up of fabrics and cotton, a fetus has the potential to become a living, breathing human being, they develop organs, the human senses, now last I checked, there aren't many dolls that can claim to do be able to do any of those things.
Three, wake up and smell the daisies. We kill living beings for our own comfort all the time. Unless you're a full vegan, then I have to ask: "what do you think you've been eating this past week?". Animals are living organisms just like humans are, so every time you swat a fly you are - by this logic - committing murder. You can argue that killing someone of your own species or something with a 'soul' is a different matter, but this is a question of personal conviction (which varies between people) so there's no universal truth, only a common agreement at best.
Okay, first of all, don't confuse having to kill an animal for the necessity of food with killing one for sport or killing another person just for the Hell of it. Second, it's the natural food chain, we should feel no guilt for having to do what we do to obtain food. I wouldn't pose anything like a vegan or strictly vegetarian diet on a young child or infant, so if it means that they get the nutritional value that they need to eventually grow into a healthy person, then I see nothing wrong with it. Animals do it all the time, they have for millions and millions of years and will continue to do so long after we're gone. That is what nature is, not taking a life before it's born and has the chance to experience life just because the would-be parent doesn't want to do it.
Killer-Swift said:
Also... the "baby" is in the women's body. Therefor, she at that moment owns it. Technically, that life is still a part of her life, so she has the right to kill it off or not. I don't see how you people can disagree.
See, to me, this doesn't make any sense whatsoever. You have two scenarios to look at this through, the first, someone stupid had sex when she wasn't ready. Okay, that right there tells me that that person is nowhere near mature enough to make any decision on what to do with another life. The second scenario, the child is a product of rape, again, I know someone like this personally, someone pretty close to me actually. You would think that having just gone through a rape, once they're treated and can think rationally, the person would want no harm to come to another life (well, maybe except the person that did it), if the baby feels like such a shame to her or is too painful to live with because of the memories, she can give it up for adoption. I've seen various other outcomes and none of them ever end well for anyone. The mother is usually scared with the guilt of having just ended a life and never really gets over it.
And also, no one shuld be throwing around crap like "but we're killing off life!", well gee, that happens millions of times every single day.
Those lives can defend themselves, what can a freaking fetus do? Absolutely nothing.
Plus... we need to kill off people... this place is too over crowded, there are too high of unemployment rates, not enough food for everyone etc etc etc. WE NEED LESS PEOPLE. Abortions help with this.
This is just ridiculous. There is usually enough food for people in the world, where the problem lays is that the governments don't usually do a great job of getting it to the people that need them the most and often times, in poor countries, things like war ruin any land that can be used for growing crops and keeping livestock. Jobs I'll give you, but killing people off is no way to go about solving the problem.