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So, I was cruising various forums, looking to expand my horizon, when I came across one that had this thing called an "Adopt a Newb" thread.
Here's the concept:
Older members "adopt" new members to show them the ropes, befriend them, guide them, and etcetera.
Here's how the thread worked, bare bones:
New member that wants to be adopted posts saying so.
Older members that volunteer to adopt people check in regularly and see a new member has posted.
New member gets offer(s) and if more than one gets to choose.
You could add more structure to the thread by recording who is adopted by who, or by having the adopter or adoptee say when they've adopted/been adopted and or stopped adopting a newbie who may be ready to not need that sort of thing anymore.
In my opinion, if both are willing they should be able to stay adopted as long as wanted.
Requirements: Just a simple thread with some guidelines and rules, stickied, and a community full of kind people willing to make friends and help newbs out (Something we have, imo)
What this benefits: When I saw this adopt a newb place in the other forum, I squee'd. All my shyness and indecisiveness was gone. Totally instantly my favorite feature of that particular forum. It encouraged me to stay there, to get to know people, etc. It was so.... so easy for me compared to throwing myself out there and posting right away. It helps people make friends, and helps break the ice for some when joining a new forum.
On other notes, you could put minimum requirements for someone to officially be an adopter. Post count for instance.
Basically, I saw this, LOVED it, and thought... "PC should have something like this"
I mean heck it's usually the other way around where I think other forums should have something PC does, but not this particular time.
I sure know I'd be signing up to be an adopter right away.
Here's the concept:
Older members "adopt" new members to show them the ropes, befriend them, guide them, and etcetera.
Here's how the thread worked, bare bones:
New member that wants to be adopted posts saying so.
Older members that volunteer to adopt people check in regularly and see a new member has posted.
New member gets offer(s) and if more than one gets to choose.
You could add more structure to the thread by recording who is adopted by who, or by having the adopter or adoptee say when they've adopted/been adopted and or stopped adopting a newbie who may be ready to not need that sort of thing anymore.
In my opinion, if both are willing they should be able to stay adopted as long as wanted.
Requirements: Just a simple thread with some guidelines and rules, stickied, and a community full of kind people willing to make friends and help newbs out (Something we have, imo)
What this benefits: When I saw this adopt a newb place in the other forum, I squee'd. All my shyness and indecisiveness was gone. Totally instantly my favorite feature of that particular forum. It encouraged me to stay there, to get to know people, etc. It was so.... so easy for me compared to throwing myself out there and posting right away. It helps people make friends, and helps break the ice for some when joining a new forum.
On other notes, you could put minimum requirements for someone to officially be an adopter. Post count for instance.
Basically, I saw this, LOVED it, and thought... "PC should have something like this"
I mean heck it's usually the other way around where I think other forums should have something PC does, but not this particular time.
I sure know I'd be signing up to be an adopter right away.