Alone...

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    hey people, whats up? ive been thinking lately... have you ever felt like your only fate is to end up alone?

    like you know, those men or women(in women i think its more rare to happen but im not sexist, so what not?) who are 40 or 50 and they are alone :P how would you feel about it? honestly, I wouldn't care since i know i'll face that road. I'm 19 and the only girlfriend i had was miles and miles ago who obviously, never cared.
     
    Just because they aren't married, doesn't mean they are alone. Just because you aren't in a relationship doesn't mean you aren't alone. So, don't think that you are.

    Some people are just very independent, and I am one of them. I don't like having clingy people around or girlfriends, since I like to do my own thing and not have to report back to someone. (Previous experience).

    There is no reason why you should be alone in later life and you most likely won't be.​
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    I'm never going to be alone. Never.
    Unless, of course, I end up being a bad guy. Then, people will hate me and leave me alone. That will be sad. :(

    Those people who are alone, I'm sad for them. Being alone for such a long time without being loved might make you think that no one really loves you. Love and affection should be given to those who live alone. Being alone is hard, especially of you're old and sick.

    If you've been with someone and you love each other so much and end up being married, don't screw it up. That way you won't be alone. That way you will have someone that can accompany you through your life.

    This also reminds me of that movie called 'Alone'.
     
    What Cap'n Fabio said - except that once you meet someone that you earnestly love and look forward to coming home to every day, sacrificing some independence is trivial. And on that note, it becomes a simple matter of balancing needs to keep it working. Previous experience on that one.. hindsight's 20/20.

    As a counterpoint to Zeffy's post - some people draw strength from solitude, some from social interaction. So what may be unimaginable for you might be a pleasant opportunity for another.
     
    I don't want to be alone either. It would be a hard life.
     
    I'm probably already the loneliest guy around, so whatever, I'm used to it.
     
    Sometimes i feel like Misuzu from Air TV, i feel lonely like i have no one to support me just myself. When i am older, i dont think i will be alone because i am finally starting to make more friends that i think i will always stay friends with.
     
    While I do have a fair amount of friends, the majority of them are online. Seriously, I probably only got a couple friends IRL, one I never see anymore though... and I live with the other. This doesn't really bother me too much though, a friend is a friend and I'm alright with what I got for now.

    However in the sense of a relationship, I do feel like there is a pattern leading up to me being alone for a long time. Just don't seem cross paths with anyone that struck up that kinda spark, you know?
    If I was to end up at the age 40 or 50 like the people you speak of and still be alone in a relational point of view, it would be eating away at me to a insane degree. I would truly hate it and it would effect me and my life negatively on large scale

    I'm a very affectionate person in the matters of love, I enjoy having someone to romance. Having someone you can hold through the night as you sleep is one of the most wonderful experience I have ever experienced. Having someone who could return this kinda feelings to me would be great, the clingier the better even XD so long as they were able to get along with and merge into my group of friends well so no tensions or problems could arise there.

    Ah well anyways, you should get the point. Valentines day is going to suck. Granted its just some hallmark BS, but it still going to be a constantly remind I am single and I hate it.
     
    I doubt I'll ever be on my own completely. I'm very reliant on people. I don't often lose friends.

    Perhaps my love life could be improved significantly, but I've never been all that bothered about love anyway, sweet as it can be.
     
    I can't ever be alone! I need people too much, even if it's just to have someone around me. I don't like being alone for long periods to time; I go crazy. :(

    Even now that all my friends and I have started university and we've all split up, we still keep in close contact so I haven't really lost any of them. I've made sure that I don't end up alone. People in my life mean a lot to me.
     
    I can end up crying because I can't find an intimate partner (female) but I can only guess it's strange teenage hormones. Who knows.
     
    Well, at college I definitely wasn't alone - I had lots of friends. But at home it's a different story, as there's really nobody to talk with or hang out with. I just hope none of my friends from college end up forgetting me.
     
    Until a few months ago, I used to feel really separate and alone, despite being part of the largest group of friends in my school. I didn't mind this too much at the time, I quite liked it, but in retrospect it's rather sad. People thought of me as some kind of lurid, outgoing eccentric.

    Then I finally nabbed a guy, and I've slowly felt more loved, even by people who aren't him. Don't get me wrong, I'm still quite an independent person, as is Jake; I'd find it really uncomfortable to be all touch-feely and excessively open with everyone I meet, but it's good to have someone to talk about everything with.
     
    It wasn't really a feeling I could have agreed with having until recently, since last month my girlfriend of two years ended it with me for no real reason. It was mortifying, really, especially when she insisted I did nothing wrong. Since then, a loneliness has manifested itself in my heart, and I can honestly say I couldn't deal with it my entire life. It's nice to have that special someone there for you.
     
    I think after living alone for a certain amount of time you just learn to deal with it; or some people are just naturally suited to being that way anyway. It might feel bad at times, but I am sure there are many people out there that are alone and still manage to find some sort of enjoyment in life.

    I don't think I will end up being alone; but I wouldn't be devastated if I did.
     
    Just because someone isn't in a relationship now or their later year's doesn't mean they are completly alone. They have their friends and family to support and guide them along the way.

    I, on the other hand will be fine if I end up being alone and not be in a relationship. I am pretty independant and isn't all that clingy actually. I don't mind being independant because that's just my nature. And knowing I can't alway rely on other people, I learned to become even more independant when I am on my own and be more capable of handling things alone, rather than alway relying on other's for help.
     
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    There are so many interesting people to meet and befriend. I would hate to be alone, I hope I never have to be.
     
    Anyone that puts enough effort into it can find someone. The only reason I haven't is because I haven't tried hard enough (and I always get "friend-zoned," as they call it).
     
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