Yeah and it sucks, in all of my past relationships I've been cheated on or taken advantage of because of my kindness. It's mostly my fault because I get attached too easily and I let people take my kindness for weakness when I shouldn't. Now It's hard for me to trust other people, I trust my current boyfriend but since we're in a long distance relationship it makes it harder for me because trust is key in those kind of relationships since you're barely seeing each other, I try to make it work though. If this one ends bad it'll be another heartbreak for me and I'm just gonna stop trusting people altogether.