Daily Chit-Chat -- Autumn and/or Spring Edition

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I seem to have me some mood swings. I'm sometimes sad when my best friend on here is gone, but as long as I know she's having a good time I'm happy for her :3 And then when she gets on I'm just as happy if not happier~

I'll probably have more friends on here than in real life forever.
 
Kura said:
True, because you don't necessarily NEED to socialize with people.. but for ANY job you do from now on.. you DO need to have contact with people, clients, and people in general @_@ Even if you stay at home doing websites for clients :C you need people-skills in order to deliver something that the clients really want.. :C The people who are successful are generally the ones who know how to keep good relationships with people.. because a lot has to do with networking, too..

:C So just because it works for you now, doesn't mean it'll always work for you. But hey! It just might work out fine, but I just think you just need a bit of a heads-up about how much a successful career actually relies on people-skills ._.
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Then I guess along with being inhuman, I am also going to fail in life.
 
Abbadon said:
Then I guess along with being inhuman, I am also going to fail in life.
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Honey, I never said you were inhuman :C.. I just wanted to give you a heads up on being able to balance your antisocial activity with still being able to properly converse with people.
:C Like, are you accusing me of calling you inhuman and failing in life? That's no good, hun :C.. Try not to take things negatively and maybe that will help with social skills :3 Since I'm only trying to inform you.
 
Abbadon said:
Then I guess along with being inhuman, I am also going to fail in life.
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She's doing this because she actually *gasp* cares, despite not knowing who you are. I suggest you actually take her advice, she's usually right.
 
Kura said:
Honey, I never said you were inhuman :C.. I just wanted to give you a heads up on being able to balance your antisocial activity with still being able to properly converse with people.
:C Like, are you accusing me of calling you inhuman and failing in life? That's no good, hun :C.. Try not to take things negatively and maybe that will help with social skills :3 Since I'm only trying to inform you.
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No, no, someone else said that being social is a part of being human. I am not social, and I guess that makes me inhuman.

T'was not you.
 
Luck said:
She's doing this because she actually *gasp* cares, despite not knowing who you are. I suggest you actually take her advice, she's usually right.
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Hahaha.. I'm so surprised you said this. :C So many people hate my advice and say "KURA YOU'RE BEING A TROLL."
:C I even got called a racist recently for loving classic african-american style but hating "black-gangsta" style.. it's ridiculous. :C
I think it's because people read like this:
Black people don't know how to properly speak English when they're 1 years old and not from an English-speaking country.
:/ And like they zoom into the bolded bit and forget about the rest of the sentence... lol...
Those damn Black people can't read if they're legitimately illiterate or have bad dyslexia.

Hahaha...

Abbadon said:
No, no, someone else said that being social is a part of being human. I am not social, and I guess that makes me inhuman.

T'was not you.
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:/ Yeah but you shouldn't take what other people say so literally.. :/ Maybe you do take it to heart a lot because you haven't been able to interact with people often, like you said.. and don't know what to do in situations like these.. but that also goes back to learning HOW you can balance YOUR want for solitude and a good level of understanding with how to handle communication with others.

Does this make sense? :C I know you don't sound stupid, but I want to make sure you're interpreting what I say accurately.
 
Abbadon said:
Credit given.

*gives bag full of Credits*
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Thank you.

Just saying, even if it is online, that's still being social. Don't think you're unsocial just because you don't talk that much in real life. Solitary confinement is a horrid punishment, and they even have a show as a social experiment to show how crazy some people will be without socialising with other living beings.

Don't believe me? Just look at this.

Kura said:
Hahaha.. I'm so surprised you said this. :C So many people hate my advice and say "KURA YOU'RE BEING A TROLL."
:C I even got called a racist recently for loving classic african-american style but hating "black-gangsta" style.. it's ridiculous. :C
I think it's because people read like this:
Black people don't know how to properly speak English when they're 1 years old and not from an English-speaking country.
:/ And like they zoom into the bolded bit and forget about the rest of the sentence... lol...
Those damn Black people can't read if they're legitimately illiterate or have bad dyslexia.

Hahaha...
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No matter how you say something, I know it's with good intention. You just seem like the kind of person who sincerely wants to help others, regardless of your personal experience with them.
 
Kura said:
:/ Yeah but you shouldn't take what other people say so literally.. :/ Maybe you do take it to heart a lot because you haven't been able to interact with people often, like you said.. and don't know what to do in situations like these.. but that also goes back to learning HOW you can balance YOUR want for solitude and a good level of understanding with how to handle communication with others.

Does this make sense? :C I know you don't sound stupid, but I want to make sure you're interpreting what I say accurately.
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*gigglefit*

Pffffft...

Sorry, but do you know how many people have said almost the exact same thing? And yes, I do understand what you are saying.

@Luck: BWAH. I have no need for socialising, it just wastes my time. Online socialising is better because then there are no actual people physically here near me, so I don't have to go meet people. Saves time.
 
jigglyppuff8 said:
A 14 year old thinks he understands how the world works. Yes, I am probably trolling.
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I do not understand how the world works. I know this. I do know how I work, however.
 
Abbadon said:
*gigglefit*

Pffffft...

Sorry, but do you know how many people have said almost the exact same thing? And yes, I do understand what you are saying.
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Okay, well in that case.. maybe it's because it's true? ._. And you should take it more seriously. In the meantime, :C I hope you're not mocking me.

But hey! I'm not your mother. I said what I felt like I should said, and I'm not gonna baby you into playing with a group of friends :C You're 14 years old and soon enough, I think you will be able to figure it out for yourself. I can voice a bit of concern but I'm not going to care about someone who doesn't want to give two shits about their situation especially if they're perfectly content with their situation :333
 
Abbadon said:
I do not understand how the world works. I know this. I do know how I work, however.
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Happy 100th post.

Ugh, this weekend's been awful. Today was the worst i've felt in a while, but meh. Tomorrow's another day and all that jazz.
 
Kura said:
Okay, well in that case.. maybe it's because it's true? ._. And you should take it more seriously. In the meantime, :C I hope you're not mocking me.

But hey! I'm not your mother. I said what I felt like I should said, and I'm not gonna baby you into playing with a group of friends :C You're 14 years old and soon enough, I think you will be able to figure it out for yourself. I can voice a bit of concern but I'm not going to care about someone who doesn't want to give two shits about their situation especially if they're perfectly content with their situation :333
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I'm not mocking you. I don't know you well enough to try. I have attempted to fix this problem of mine, and it ended in disaster. It's mainly just me giving up and sulking, I guess. I am not fine with being practically unable to socialise, but I just can't do it.

@Limey-chan: Thanks.
 
Abbadon said:
I'm not mocking you. I don't know you well enough to try. I have attempted to fix this problem of mine, and it ended in disaster. It's mainly just me giving up and sulking, I guess. I am not fine with being practically unable to socialise, but I just can't do it.

@Limey-chan: Thanks.
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Well think of it this way.. a lot of people try many times to quit smoking.. and it might backfire on them a lot of times.. but the ones that keep trying and eventually succeed are the admirable ones.

If you're not happy with how you are, then you should try and change it. If you're happy the way you are now, you should just at least have the knowledge on-hand so you can use it in a certain situation (for example, an interview) so you can be financially successful, along with being socially content with your solitude. So if you're not, bring it up with a therapist (there are free school therapists) to help ease you into a more sociable world. (Therapists are different than psychologists and psychiatrists.. they are more like councellors with a PHD) hahaha..
 
Kura said:
Well think of it this way.. a lot of people try many times to quit smoking.. and it might backfire on them a lot of times.. but the ones that keep trying and eventually succeed are the admirable ones.

If you're not happy with how you are, then you should try and change it. If you're happy the way you are now, you should just at least have the knowledge on-hand so you can use it in a certain situation (for example, an interview) so you can be financially successful, along with being socially content with your solitude. So if you're not, bring it up with a therapist (there are free school therapists) to help ease you into a more sociable world. (Therapists are different than psychologists and psychiatrists.. they are more like councellors with a PHD) hahaha..
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I'm not happy with how I am, I've just given up and accepted it. And last time I went to a therapist, I put a chair through the window because they just piss me off to no end.
 
I used to live on the computer all day every day from 13yrs old to about 18yrs, I had hardly any friends, I hated people and I didn't want to go out anywhere. Then I got a job and grew up. Now i am fine with people (actually I still hate most people but not as bad as I used to), I still don't have that many friends but the friends i do have are awesome and we make sure to go out and do things a couple of times a week.

Anyway, what I am saying, Abbadon, is you'll eventually grow out of this feeling (Well... hopefully anyway) Maybe you should enjoy how you are for now make the most of it because everyone changes as they grow older and I am sure you're no different in that regard either.
 
Abbadon said:
I'm not happy with how I am, I've just given up and accepted it. And last time I went to a therapist, I put a chair through the window because they just piss me off to no end.
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They didn't do it TO piss you off. They did it because it evoked that response within you. You got pissed off because you couldn't HANDLE their point of view. That's the problem. If you're not going to learn how to have patience and TRY to see another person's perspective, then this problem isn't going to change.

But hey; give it a bit of time, and try it again. Perhaps next time you can find a therapist that you can tolerate and you'll get better results.
It's the same way with teachers. Some you get along with and others you end up hating. Usually the ones you get along with are the ones you learn the most with.

:/ Also.. putting a chair through the window isn't going to get you progress, if anything, it doesn't even show frustration, it just shows immaturity.. so next time, just stand up and say you need a washroom break or a glass of water to calm you down. :/ Cause let's put it this way, if you were a boss and one of your employees threw a chair through the window, wouldn't you fire them on the spot? I know I would because I don't like to see that sort of violence or a CHANCE of the violence in the workplace.
 
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