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Look at it this way: You aren't exactly in the most jolliest mood ever, so no one can say that you're happy. :\ This thread has seen quite enough bad times and I don't think it has enough good ones without someone complaining and feeling sad over something they shouldn't feel sad about.
I don't mean to come off as emotionless, or as an ass or anything, but be honest with yourself Nica, is the msn convo really that important enough to stress out about, that you have to feel "invisible" after like, no more than literally five seconds of being in the convo? To me, that seems sorta silly, but okay.
I personally know the feeling of being invisible, but hey. No need to make a scene for it, yeah?