Woo … this is going to be a loooong post. Mostly about 'love'… >_>
But first, Naminé, I'm afraid that Roxas is not in the running. It's either, Roy, G-Man or yours truly. Hell, let's throw in Dactylus and Karasuma too. But no one else; and you can only choose one of us. Try again. And PLEASE don't ignore this question like you always ignore me (you didn't tell me what organ you were talking about >_>) or give us some 'smart' answer like you cannot possibly choose.
Heh, so Dac is back, remind me to have a little chat with Satan about leaving his gate open. Good day to you too, sir.
Now, for all you people jumping on me for mentioning 'love'… >_>
This whole 'internet love' thing is bugging me. Love is arguably a simple emotion that gets complicated from all these definitions and standards people come up with. While some of the aspects of these definitions can be taken in a general sense, others are formulated from personal experience and cannot simply be employed to everybody's situation.
I believe everybody has their own definition of love that they abide by. So, nobody is in any place to dictate who one can and cannot love except for themselves. Sure, appearance plays an important role in one's admiration for another but that does not go to say that you can't love somebody you haven't seen before, in my opinion. If that was the case then it would undoubtedly mean that any human being unfortunate enough to be blind would be completely incapable of love. A cursed fate indeed.
What I find really funny though is that I could say *pinches Naminé* or *kicks Naminé* or even *stabs Naminé* and get little to no serious response, but as soon as I say "I love Naminé" people are quick to jump on their high horses and tell me that it's impossible to love somebody over the internet. Is it not impossible to stab someone over the internet too? What this tells me is that, to most on PC, the word 'love' has some sort of 'solemn' connotation that would suggest anytime it is mentioned it is to be taken at face value. You can joke about killing people but not about loving them.
The only time I'd see it dangerous to 'joke' about loving someone is if there is a good possibility that they'd take it seriously. Seeing as, for one, this is the internet, I'd think that it is most likely little to no people will take me seriously when I say I love them, especially if I hardly know them on a personal level. So must I always say, "I really like Naminé" or "I like like Naminé" to avoid using the forbidden 'l' word when it's most probable that she'd simply brush off the statement either way? Pssh … no, I won't. Besides, who says love has to be this incredibly deep and profound feeling anyway?
I realize that blurting it out so often and early in any relationship could create much doubt in the other person's mind. Also, it is likely that should by the slimmest of chances I actually happen to feel that way for real, the other person is not going to think much of it because I would have 'overused' it or somehow lessened its influence. But if what you say is true that I cannot love somebody over the internet than should I even be worrying about these things? If it's not ever going to be taken seriously than what's wrong with using in a light-hearted manner?
I love you, Naminé.
And you can take that however you want to. I'm just tired of hearing people telling me I can't love somebody over the internet every time I mention the word. Especially because this is apparently supposed to be common knowledge; not to mention the fact that they don't realize that my definition of love could be different from theirs. My only conclusion is that you people think I'm being serious every time I say this. But if it's impossible for me to be serious when I say it then why re-inform me on this bit of common knowledge? Let's all just have fun pinching, punching, kicking, stabbing, killing, murdering, and loving people. O_O'
For the record, at present I'm not seriously in love and neither have I ever been seriously in love with anyone on this website, or the entire internet for that matter. And I may never be, because text messages on a computer screen may not be enough interaction to influence me in that manner. So no, I don't really love anyone. Not even the fair Naminé, yet. But I'm sure she knows this already as do all the other hundreds of girls on PC I've told XD .
Hope that clarifies things a little. I guess what will make things really easier though is if we all stopped using the 'l' word unless we really meant it ( probably never xD ) seeing as we can't predict how seriously the other person will take it. It's too much of a taboo issue to be alive in common chit chat. Wait a minute, is that what everyone else was doing already? XD
All those paragraphs for nothing. XD
Anyway, how has Naminé been? ^^
