My BF said this suit ugly, really???!!!

Status
Not open for further replies.

tonyar109

Banned
    • 37
    Posts
    15
    Years
    • Seen Nov 10, 2010
    Hi buddies! My bf got a new job and work from next Monday! I got this
    [PokeCommunity.com] My BF said this suit ugly, really???!!!
    men's suit online andwant to give him a surprise! But he said it is ugly that he won't wear it at all!I was hurt and how do you think about it?Is it really ugly???
     
    Last edited by a moderator:
    to tell you the truth I dont wear suits anyway. But doesnt look too bad to me.Looks the same as most other suits.
     
    I swear, wasn't there a thread about shoes similar to this one a few months back?

    I think it looks fine. Most people look great in suits ^_^.. because, its a suit after all :P
     
    Awesome suite. Ungrateful boyfriend.
    Don't you want to break up with him and give me the suite? I would thank you very much :D
     
    Every one of this person's most recent posts is linked to some product.

    EmeraldSerenade was right about there being a similar post like this linking to a pair of shoes, and surprise surprise it was by the same member.
     
    It looks nice. Why would he say it looks ugly? Someone needs to knock some sense into him :/
     
    That suit not ugly. However, I'd have to see it on you to know if it was ugly on you. xP
    Perhaps your boyfriend has some sort of agenda in telling you it's ugly... I don't know him, so please don't take it personal.
     
    The suit looks fine. He's probably just being an ungrateful douche.
     
    First question: Did you ask him how the suit looked noncontextually, like this: "Hey, what do you think of this suit?" If that's the case, and he doesn't actually know that you want to give it to him as a gift, then I can hardly blame him for anything besides not recognizing a sharp suit when he sees one.

    There's also the possibility that his particular job doesn't call for a suit. I even worked in an office last summer, but I was expected to wear a simple button-down shirt and tie. Give him another chance, and maybe he'll accept it anyway but instead use it for other occasions. Just, for heaven's sake, don't jeopardize your relationship over something that could just be an honest mistake. Tell him how you feel if you have to. Give him a chance to apologize for hurting your feelings. I'd bet money that he didn't mean it.
     
    It's a nice suit.
    Still, it doesn't necessarily make him ungrateful xD if he doesn't want it, try not to get upset over it. At least he's being honest, right?
     
    EpsilonE said:
    maybe the opinion of some people on a pokemon forum will change his mind?
    Click to expand...

    I don't get it... What's wrong with asking people for their opinion?

    @tonyar109 - I like the suit, it just looks like a normal suit. Maybe he is just not a "suit" person.
    Did you show him the suit online before you showed him that you had got him it?
     
    That's a terrible suit. He's right to not like it. Try to return it, and get one a little less ugly. If I wore that to one of my buiness meetings, I'd be laughed out of the room, shunned by my peers, and put on force lay.
     
    A generic looking suit is ugly? Weird. A bit uncalled for given they're often expensive. Maybe you should just get him a highlighter pink on instead with yellow and purple poka-dots.
     
    Maybe he just doesn't like suits, I know I don't. I think they all look stupid, they're far from comfortable either. It seems everyone in this thread is making an unreasonable lunge at the notion of the guy being some arsehole when there's no real insinuation that he is. Men are sometimes particularly blunt, and can come across more severe than they intend to, I really doubt your boyfriend meant anything much. And you as the female partner I expect are instinctively looking for something to fret over.

    So, tonyar109, focus on something positive, don't put yourself... or him or anything down; it wouldn't do either of you any good to do so. There's no real reason I see to feel hurt, after all you had it for him as a surprise, and surprises are by their nature always risky, so what can you surely expect while staging one.
    As has been said, tell him how you feel if it bothers you so.
     
    Status
    Not open for further replies.
    Back
    Top