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um i hav a question
i hav like this girl since september 2006 n i still like here! i can't get over her shes the only reason y i'm still single cuz i think about her a lot i always think that shes the 1! n i know she still likes me!
so is this love, obsessed, etc
 
First you know ask if she wants to hang out you know, or get lots of friends to go to the movies and invite her. ( Don't say my other friend couldn't come can you come instead) Just play it cool build up your confidence and be yourself!
 
I don't want to seem a downer, but it's most likely not love, but I also don't think you're obsessed, since you know she feels the same way. I mean, most teenage affairs don't last and many turn out to be just wonderful/horrible experiences, but they're experiences nonetheless, quite important.

That's not to say of course, that teen lovers never stay together and grow up to get married, etc., it's just unlikely, well at least in my opinion. I mean, I was head over heels for a girl in primary and even through high school, but I quickly got over it after I asked her out and got rejected, heh.

But, ~Pur3viL's right, try to socialise with her more on a friendly basis. Maybe get a group together first and then when your comfortable, just ask her out by yourself and see where that goes.
 
My problem is that my family despises me b/c of the way I dress, the things I do, etc. and they want me to be the daddy's little boy who bounced off the walls again when I held back my emotions and I'm not going to change into something I hate being for the people I could barely care less about and I can never find a way to tell them that I'm who I am and nothing can change that. I just think it's their problem and they got me involved in it but now it's my problem b/c they've tried to force me to change.
 
Well try talking to your parents, tell them this is the way you want to be and this is the way you want to dress. Life is all about free will and no matter how many times a parent says they hate you, they never do.
 
Pureevil is right, calmly talking through stuff is pretty much the best way to get disputes settled... (With the exception maybe of violence.. but there´s all sorts of ramifications and consequences... Yeah go with the talking :P )
 
I've got a problem, my girlfriend seemed depressed lately I don't know what causes it but every time it happens I always want to try and make her feel more comfortable and happy, I've done or said nothing bad (or I hope), I care and love her so much and I just can't get her out of my mind, now I'm worried dead.. I've asked her countless times about what causes it or whats bugging her, but all I get is a straight and simple "no I'm fine" all the time..I don't know what to do..I love her so much I'll do anything in the world for her.
 
Is she only sad around you? or all the time?
Have you tried asking her best friend or someone close to her if something is wrong with her?
 
Lumine said:
I've got a problem, my girlfriend seemed depressed lately I don't know what causes it but every time it happens I always want to try and make her feel more comfortable and happy, I've done or said nothing bad (or I hope), I care and love her so much and I just can't get her out of my mind, now I'm worried dead.. I've asked her countless times about what causes it or whats bugging her, but all I get is a straight and simple "no I'm fine" all the time..I don't know what to do..I love her so much I'll do anything in the world for her.
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Aww... I'm sorry I made you so depressed, Danny :( I felt really bad: bad about what was upsetting me and bad because I was upsetting you. I love you, and I know how much you love me. Now you know what the problem was and everything's OK. That's like... the source of what's making me feel depressed recently. I'm glad it's over. I'd like to thank _Prince_ for helping :)

Well we've sorted it out now.
 
Craig² said:
Uhkays.

I'm going to an entirely new school next year with a lot of people I don't know. Most of my friends have filtered out into the nearby schools. I really need tips on making new buddies as that's what I'll need to do. I've been stuck with my old friends for so long that I've forgotten how to make friends.
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When I started a new school, all I had to do was be myself. Just make sure you don't hang out with he wrong crowd.
 
My Chef always yells at me to hurry up in class. 8D

Naw. I'm pretty lonely since I've got very little money to spend on friendly outings like movies and dinner after expenses. Any ideas for cheap fun? I live in Minnesota, so outdoor activities are a bum until about April.
 
Ouch. I don't start kitchen classes until next month. I'm in the Culinary Institute. It''s borig up here, after comming from Brooklyn, to the quiet mountains. Good thing I love Video games, or I'd go crazy from boredom. Or sleep the whole time. Or worst, actually DO the work XD
 
Thisis kind of wierd but it's a long lasting problem that is starting to get on my nerves

My dad is after me ALL THE TIME saying:
Cut ye friggin hair will ya!? Next time i see you can't comb your self in the morn, i'll give you a buzz cut or send you to military school so they'll give it. If you don't comb or cut that hair properly, i swear by californian curses that a bird will land on that nest and we're having eggs for dinner! and bla bla bla
*all quotes translated from spanish*

My dad complains that my hair is too long, but it barely even surpases the 1/4 neck point! I keep saying it's just volume and i just need one of the special volume loss haircuts they give at, well... kind of embarrasing so don't click if you know you'll flame/make fun of me

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At this point, my dad is starting to take his warnings seriously and i don't know anymore working back fires, any ideas so i keep my hair lenght to 3/4 neck with low volume and with a dad that doesn't, like, go dad.
 
Jeez I go for a day and look what happens ^_^

@Arrmegeddenmon What is you hate about school? Have you tried talking to your home school support worker?

@Taffeh Bowling is cheap ^^ Seriously though if you don't have the money why don't you ask one of your friends to pay for once?

@^VAdvancedK9^ Talk to your mum thats what I did. If that dosen't work then just sit down and tell him that you like your hair the way it its, and you get all the girls with it ^_^ But if that dosen't work then screw him, he loves you dosen't he? The he won't send you to Millitary School


Untill next time! ^_^
 
I dunno what to get my girlfriend for Valentines Day D: I've asked a lot of people but they tell me that their not so sure ._. She lives far away, so I can't take her anywhere.. And her mom can't know that we are going out.. She didn't like it when we told her before so.. What should I do? D:

And, lately I have been getting really jealous when she is with her friends. Is that bad? ._. I am extremly happy that she has friends, but at the same time I am upset and really jealous.

So help would be nice? XD Thank you for your time ^^
 
Ok well first of all, don't get jealous ^^ It's a fact that most people get jealous when there GF/BF hangs out with other people, but just relax and calm down, she hasn't forgotton about you! About Valentines day, why not the movies? Just say your going as friends.

PS: Chocolates taste nice and are a good prezzie ^_!
 
Heres a problem of mine..

Well.. Here we go.
My life sucks.
Everybody at my school calls me gay, anoys me or doesn't leave me alone. I ask the teachers to stop them but do nothing. I want to punch everybody who calls me gay but i don't wanna get in trouble. I'm crap at sport and i'm a geek.
 
@Mismaguis: Wow, I had the same problem when I was your age. I am going to take a guess that since you are 13, you are in 7th grade? Correct me if I am wrong.

But, that is only natural in 7th grade. So, do what I did. Though, there are multiple options.

Thins you DON'T want to do that I did:
-"Missed" the school bus.
-Got myself suspended.

Things you SHOULD do that I did:
-Go to the principal/assistant principal and talk about the problem.
-Talk to a counselor.
-Ignore them to the point where they want to punch you. If they do so, they will get in trouble for assault, and for the abuse.

I hope my advice was at least half way good. I am only speaking from experience, so..
 
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