She ignored me the WHOLE TIME

This has definitely happened to me before lol - I actually don't find it all that awkward, and sort of prefer it if nobody talks to me because I'm shy around people I don't know and would rather not have to come up with something to say. So I say hello and then I just shut up and watch politely as they talk. I don't look around and pretend I'm interested in something else; I'm clearly there and there's no point in pretending otherwise. So I watch them talk and laugh if they say something funny but I don't contribute to the conversation.
 
I'm very shy, but I don't like being awkward. I like "hey man your friend here is p awesome" so I'd try to come into convo when I can. lol If that fails, I'll just stop and look around and grab my friend's hand to make them feel awkward and see how they like it. :3c
 
I'm not in this situation often, but I am in it enough to know that I don't really like it. It's one of those situations where I get really uncomfortable and somewhat awkward (and not the kind of awkward I find interesting). I'll say hi and introduce myself and probably explain my relations to my friend I'm with and ask everyone else's name. I wouldn't be interested in having a long discussion with them. In situations like that, I develop a mindset that I'm there with my friend and if it starts going on for too long, I get really annoyed with my friend. Most of the time, during their conversation, I'll stare at someone in the group (I have no problem looking at people in the eyes) or the surroundings and blurt random things out every now and then during the conversation. If I get too annoyed with my friend for it going on too long, I'll ask them if they're ready. Luckily they always say yes and we leave if it gets that far. But I'm usually a little *****y for a short while after that with them.
 
That would never happen, for a number of reasons, the main one being you need friends for this situation to occur.
 
I'd just walk around and look at stuff. I don't have enough courage to try to get into the conversation. :p
 
I'd introduce myself since my friend didn't take the liberty to do it; and then if the conversation is boring for waayy too long or they are blatantly ignoring/ being rude to me; and my friend doesn't seem to want to leave then I would excuse myself and say "I gotta run, I have to pick up something" tap my friend on the shoulder and say discreetly "call me when you're ready to go home" and leave.
 
That happened to me quite a few times :/ Usually I just get my phone and start playing games so I don't look like a loner or join in their conversation or tell my friend I need to go to a store (and possibly get her to come along too) or do something to get their attention eg calling another friend and talk until they notice me xD;;
 
Wait a few minutes. If they still ignore me, then it's off to the video game store, the bookstore, and the food court for me, and I'll have to meet up with them later. And of course my friend will have a bit of explaining to do when I'm finally able to speak with them again.
 
I'll walk away and wander around like there's no tomorrow or until I get bored and leave.
 
I have had this happen, lol. But not in a mall situation...>__>

Anyways, I would either introduce myself at a good time, stick around and chat with them, or at a point where I can, I will say something like "Hey, I'll see you in a bit, I wanna go look at this stuff over here. Nice to meet you all!" Though, I have
 
It's happened to me a good number of times before with one friend, aka my crush for 2 years. Everytime it would happen, I'd just pretend to get interested in completely random things, mostly cause I don't feel like interrupting. I'm happy to say, though, that this was common a year ago. Nowadays, she doesn't get into conversations with strangers much. ^^
 
Well I ain't the shy type of folk so I make a nice little introduction ya know?
 
One of my friends does this ALL the time, so generally I end up talking to one of the other people in the group she's ignoring me for. She likes being the center of attention between her groups of friends, so once she sees me getting along fine with someone else and not needing her constant attention, she tends to jump in and stop ignoring me hahaha. Ohhhh, I feel bad for manipulating the situation, but i've been friends with her long enough to know how to get her attention back.

So yeah, I just meet the other people and talk to them. If she's ignoring me, there's no need for me to ignore the other people too.
 
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