Actually, there should be a third option. That a god exists, but none of the current religions have an accurate grasp on his nature. And not all religions show equality. Women in Saudi Arabia are forced to wear tents. If they don't, they are basically saying they want to get raped. Fundamentalist Islam anyways, most Muslims I know don't enforce such barbaric beliefs. That being said, I don't care if a person believes in a god(s), but when you deny so much science just to latch on to your beliefs(6,000 year old universe, giant flood depositing the sediments in an impossible method,etc.)then I have a problem.