I concur, cookie. I definitely feel like I could never live up to the person my dad is (his sister was the passed aunt) and I definitely know I'll never be the person my aunt was.
From a Christian view she was probably the best Christian I've ever known, and probably ever will know. But from a "not"-Christian view, she was also the best person I ever knew. It hurts me to know she's gone but the legacy encourages me to be the better person she was.
But, like cookie said, that's very pressuring as today is very demanding. T___T" But I'll still work as hard as I can to be the best person I can. ^^"
My kids will probably hate their lives. XD I'm gonna be just as hardcore as my dad was with bringing me up. I cannot STAND parents who let their "children" (like, infant to 10 years old) get away with bloody murder. I see it all the time and, holy crap, if my kid acted like that they'd know the feel of my hand before they knew the sight of it. T__T