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I'm assuming you're referring to the extreme forms of feminism that want women-only societies and that sort of thing. But since that's not what the overwhelming majority of feminists believe of want the criticism isn't all that valid. Almost all want equality.I would personally say feminism is never relevant, because you are merely swapping one form of sexual inequality for another.
But feminism doesn't just focus on women. I know that's sounds contradictory given the name. It's just that lots of unequal things tend to fall harder on women's shoulders and feminists don't want that fact to be glossed over by using a label like "humanism" or whatever.I really dislike feminism, but I dislike the vast majority of movements that focus on one group over others. Feminists can claim whatever they want, but the bottom line is that the very definition of feminism is "the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes."
We're never going to really have real equality when everyone thinks that their inequality is worse or more important than everyone else's. You can't have equality when you focus solely on one group. All these different movements should be working together, instead of shouting over the top of each other. Keeping in mind, this isn't even the radical extremist sides I'm talking about.
But feminism doesn't just focus on women. I know that's sounds contradictory given the name. It's just that lots of unequal things tend to fall harder on women's shoulders and feminists don't want that fact to be glossed over by using a label like "humanism" or whatever.
There have been several waves of feminism which each addressed what the women in those movements cared about in their particular time. (First wavers were mostly well-off white women who wanted votes, for instance.) Today, although you can't lump all people who are feminists under one label, the broadest definition that would be shared by most feminists is that they want equality and fairness and don't want people discriminated against for their sex, gender, race, or anything else.
We're never going to really have real equality when everyone thinks that their inequality is worse or more important than everyone else's. You can't have equality when you focus solely on one group. All these different movements should be working together, instead of shouting over the top of each other. Keeping in mind, this isn't even the radical extremist sides I'm talking about.
It's worth remembering that feminism aims to benefit the largest minority of them all - women. That's half the human population. While it is only one group, it is amazingly vast.
I think feminism will always be necessary as long as patriarchy, wage inequality and the precarious position women in mainstream media must uphold, exist. The trouble is that many people like to enforce their own brand of feminism, since it is such an open-ended movement. They take matters into their own hands and overcompensate, even with violence.
Girls are still being kidnapped by Boko Haram in Nigeria. I'd say feminism is still needed.
If your group consists of half of the planet's population, then you're not a minority. That's like living in Kenya and claiming that black people are a minority.
There is no "Patriarchy" conspiracy where the big evil men are preventing women from having positions of power. There are no laws or large pressure groups standing in the way of women entering politics or obtaining a job higher in the corporate ladder. I won't say that there are no people at all who are biased against women, but implying that we live in some sort of patriarchy is ridiculous and has been for a long time.
The reason women on average earn less than men is because more women typically choose to work in professions that make less money.
I don't believe being part of a minority in this regard is about the exact number of constituents. Whether females make up exactly half of the human population, slightly more, slightly less, isn't terribly important.
What is important is the relationship that that group has to whatever other group (men, patriarchy, call it what you will) sits outside of it. That civilisation is framed to favour men, even today, is undeniable. The asymmetry is clear. If the variable is sex alone, women are the minority and men are the majority of this world. Certainly, great strides have been made to balance things relatively recently, but I don't think that true equality will be struck soon.
I never mentioned a conspiracy, but patriarchy certainly exists all around the world. You can be sure of that. It doesn't require big evil men in suits to do so. Patriarchy exists in the most basic way in English, even. A bride usually adopts the surname of her groom (a global practice). Her maiden name (which isn't hers at all really, but the inherited surname of her father) ceases.
Take the words female, woman, she, her. They all contain the masculine counterpart, while the words male, man, he, his, have no hint of the feminine counterpart. It is as if to say, men can exist without women, but women cannot exist without men.
Whether you consider it a ridiculous claim or not, men take precedence.
Unfortunately there is a point-blank difference between the earning power of women versus men in many industries. Same job, same hours, different salary. There was a figure around 2013 that men earn 18% more money than women in North America (and that disregards the case of show business, where the gap is more of a canyon).
That 18% difference was hypothesised to be due to the fact that men tend to negotiate for higher pay more than women do, but it is also true that women who do attempt to negotiate for more money are far more likely to be penalised for it than men.
A minority will always be about numbers. You can be oppressed or mistreated but that doesn't mean you're a minority. Calling women the "minority" helps paint a picture that isn't there.
You say feminism is great because it aims to help half the planet, I say it's ridiculous because it ignores the other half.
You do realise that the words you're describing are the feminine counterparts, right?
You are essentially suggesting that we completely redevelop a language that took thousands upon thousands of years to develop based on an imagined modern inequality which is possibly the most ridiculous pro-feminist argument I have ever heard. Even if we did choose to do something so outlandish it's not going to happen over night, it would take nearly as long as it took to develop the words we have.
As for marriage, nobody forces the woman to take the man's name now. She has the option to keep her maiden name. The groom has the option to take her name. If she wants a name that belongs to her and not her father she is able to change it to something completely different if she chooses. The woman has a choice. The name argument is irrelevant.