What do you find ATTRACTIVE on the opposite sex?

This might sound cliche, but I sometimes find girls' personalities attractive. I mean I fall head over heels if a girl is intelligent, witty, smart-mouth, feisty, and can hold her own in a discussion of any nature, with a hint of vulnerability. Oh and sarcastic, to an extent.

But as I am a guy, I have to say physically I'm attracted to great smile, athletic build, yet still has meat on her bones, blue eyes if she's a blonde, brown eyes if she's a brunette, cute as a button, and generally shorter than i am (as I'm about 6'4").
 
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For me, I basically have to be able to talk with the person and have a really good time with them. I don't really care about their hair color or height or whatever. I'm a pretty simple person with this kind of stuff. Looks aren't that important but I'd be foolish to say that I ignore them totally. I'm really not very picky since I'm more of a personality person.

As for weird stuff, I usually like girls that have totally different tastes of music than me. I would consider my narrow-mindedness about musical tastes a weakness of mine, so having somebody to counteract that a bit is really nice.

Also, smoking is a huge turn-off. It's not common since I'm younger than most of you (freshman gooooo) but I can only wonder how long that will last. Drugs and that kind of thing...no.

Yeah, I really kind of get along with everybody so it's not something I think about much. I have a lot of girls who are my friends so I kind of prefer to keep it that way. I wouldn't mind having a girlfriend or whatever but eh, it's not something I lose sleep over. That's pretty much what I care about though. I'm a pretty simple person lol

EDIT: I really don't care about the intelligence level either as long as the girl isn't totally brain dead. Some people are born smart and some aren't, so I try not to be too judgmental about that. If the person is lazy, that's another story, but whatever lol
 
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For men:
I like them to be taller than me, and I like semi long hair... However I do not like hair past the shoulders XD But it can be no higher than the chin.... Yes I am very picky C:
Personality is obviously needed, and I have a real thing about eyes... So if they have eyes I am about to get lost in I probably will not notice a lot else... As for hair colour and eye colour and stuff XD I don't really care C:

As for women:
Same height or a little shorter or a little taller... I don't like people being way shorter or taller than me... Soo 5'5-9" is good XD I love dark hair, and like it either short, or very long XD I loveeeeee femme butch women, so it really states my type there. I love eyes, and on women I like them dark like their hair... Although you can not go wrong with green or hazel :P
 
I like guys that wear pink. It shows they are bold.
 
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Well, I suppose they have to look half decent. And smell nice. XD
And the eyes are a big plus. Nice eyes of an unusual color. Green is great :3
Must love music, and not mind the fact that I'm no tough-guy ;D

But personality is really what I go for ;D
They have to be kind and caring. That's a must. In fact, this is what turned me off of my most recent interest...
No laughing at other people's expense, y'dig? XD

Other then that, there are a few random personality traits I look for. Smarty-ness, creativity, an intelligent sense of humor, quick minded, clever and charming ;D
Being weird {like me} is also great XP

One more thing, I'm a shy person. I have to be able to talk openly to said person without questioning myself. They would have to love me for who I am 8D


And that's it :D
 
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I like guys with good personalities. and they have to look nice (shower, take care of their hair, etc.) and eyes is a big thing for me, too. Not that I've seen ugly eyes, but I like to look in someone's eyes and see happiness. XD sounds cheesy.

and emo guys are hot ^_^;;
 
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