What makes you unlikeable?

I'm afraid some people might not think I have a good sense of humour. Also some people might think I'm very judgemental, but in reality I just speak my mind because I tend to formulate an opinion on something very quickly and am not shy to express it. In reality I'm just looking for anyone to combat me and start into a proper discussion.

To sum it up, I think people think I'm too serious. It also helps that I'm not super outgoing, generally quite quiet and reserved. I know this kind of contradicts what I said up earlier, but I usually only speak when spoken to.
 
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Truthfully, there are many different things that people can/do dislike about me. The first thing that comes to me is that I am a serial complainer. I complain about everything. If I don't like it, I'll either try to change it or endlessly complain about it until someone verbally tells me to shut up or physically makes me shut up. Which brings me to another thing; I am a control freak. I want everything to go my way. Sure, I'll let things slide for the good of the situation, but secretly inside I'll be stressed out about the fact that I am not directly responsible for whats going on, that I haven't got control over the situation. Another thing, I get stressed out easily and when I get stressed out, I get bitter. And I mean b i t t e r. I'll get incredibly mean and say things that almost 100% I'll regret and seriously hurt the person or people I'm saying them to. I guess I'm just a mean person.
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All of this is a a prime example of why people tend to dislike me. Yes, even the GIF applies to me.
 
Repeating things other said at my school....They're kind of uneducated when it comes to dealing with others... they act like I'm the one who's messed up when it's them...and the only thing that bugged people was my attitude when I was keeping my frustration bottled up, so jerks who don't quit would leave me alone. I actually don't mind if someone's acting stuck up to cover up insecurity to not push it off onto others... I don't think of myself as conceited, because that's an unrealistic, naive perspective, I mean no offense to that remark, and I couldn't possibly know everyone in the entire world, but I think others are better than them. I can't even see my own reflection in a mirror, and I don't wear contacts. If it wasn't for people making me feel so small compared to them, I would've been myself, and got along better with people. They didn't want to give me a fresh start.
 
I just simply try to make peace with every person I run into. If my dog doesn't trust you or gives a bad vibe I turn the cheek.People don't like that but bout me but last time i had a situation that person robbed 3 people.<now who is the dummy?>
 
I sometimes have this obnoxious attitude which can piss people off. I can be annoying and too loud at times which can cause people to tell me to turn it down a notch. Then there's just people who don't like me just because.
 
Hmmmmmm I guess I might come across as a wet blanket. I don't really ~~~party~~~ like most people my age for personal reasons but when it comes up that "sorry, I don't drink/get high/whatever" I think instead of realizing I have my own issues with it that they assume that i'm saying "NO I DON'T DO SUCH TERRIBLE THINGS, HOW DARE YOU ASK ME, AND FURTHERMORE, HOW. DARE. YOU. DO SUCH THINGS; NOW EXCUSE ME WHILE I JUDGE YOUR LIFE CHOICES HARSHLY OVER THERE IN MY SOBER CORNER."

Which omg I don't want to come across as; I don't give a crap what people do, all I ask is that people don't press me on my not wanting to ~~~party~~~. But again, usually it comes across like i'm being judgmental.

Also, I'm very reserved and don't generally initiate conversation so that could come across as me being cold, but I promise I'm not. I actually enjoy human interaction, I just suck at initiating it.

I'm sure there's more, but those are the main ones I can think of.
 
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One thing that makes me unlikeable is bottled rage, and another thing is probably because I'm too skinny. Probably another thing is because I complain a lot; but it's because people are doing wrong, and not myself, so I'm not liked for following the *band-wagon* >_>
 
One trait I have that I imagine would really annoy people is that when I don't like something, I find it hard to shut up about it. I don't like children, for instance ... and I'm fairly sure everybody in this thread and this whole forum by extension knows because I just talk about it all the time lmao.

So yeah, I am aware of how often I do it, but I can't make myself stop if I see an opportunity. It's like a disease.
 
My very strange appearance (I don't even look like what my name suggests), trouble with social skills in reality, my strange laughter and not tracking time well make me unlikeable. I also get embarrassed easily.

If I were to show you a photo of myself, my face wouldn't look like what you expected it to be...

Yeah, I am basically very strange and unlikeable in reality.
 
I have a really dry sense of humor that not a lot of people get at first, so sometimes I guess I can come across as a dick at times, aha.
 
My impatience, my sarcastic style of humor, and, most noticeably, the constant rash that I have all over my body (including a balding patch on my head) due to my severe allergies.
 
Metatron said:
I have a really dry sense of humor that not a lot of people get at first, so sometimes I guess I can come across as a dick at times, aha.
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OMG THIS THIS SO MUCH THIS.

People who meet me for the first time often don't get my sense of humour. On top of this, I also don't tend to change my personality to suit the occasion. I'm pretty much the same person when I'm talking to my friends than I am when I'm talking to teachers/employers and such.
 
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