My first point is that all privacy and hygiene matters in our society are sex segregated. You can see this now with the whole transgender bathroom debacles, people do NOT want penises near vaginas communally, the military isn't any different. If the military can't even integrate sleeping quarters and hygiene facilities on a base or in training how will it work in the field?
First of all, plenty of people actually don't find it a big deal to share bathrooms with transgender people. We've been sharing bathrooms with trans people for decades, really. Also, a lot of transgender people get bottom surgery, so that point doesn't entirely make sense. But the "bathroom debate" is another story; homophobic and transphobic people will always exist, so using their existence to make a point seems silly to me.
With that out of the way, living on base isn't the same thing as being out in the field. If you're in the field, you're often too occupied to think about having sex, plus going out and acting on it. Still, I'm still not really sure what this proves.
Yes.
http://www.military.com/daily-news/...sailors-at-higher-risk-of-sexual-assault.html
Ahahaha! Does the rape of Nanking, Berlin, R&R in Saigon or General Hookers army mean anything to you? Women around battle weary men separated from their wives are used for sex, whether that's consensual, civilian, comrade or prostitute matters little.
There are
huge differences between raping civilians, buying prostitutes, and having sex with fellow soldiers. Just because it's all "men having sex with women in a military context" does not make it all the same. That you'd equate them boggles my mind.
That said, I have no idea what any of this is in response to. Did I ever say that sexual assault isn't a huge problem in the military? Did I ever say that women in the military don't get a lot of sexual attention from men? You're building straw men out of nothing.
What happened is you gave a very weird example of men and women being stuck in a tank together and implied that men would be turned on by seeing women change their tampons and there'd be a ton of sex as a result. Which is still ridiculous for the reasons I already stated.
Being deployed is not a normal "job" though. Especially in a combat role there is a large risk of dying or returning permanently disabled. Even men get cold feet at this terrifying prospect and desert. If I had to choose between possibly being wiped out of existence forever or raising a child in a safe homeland with no punishment (prison or execution for male deserters though) I would choose the latter.
Okay, so can you provide me with proof that women can and do get pregnant in order to get out of military service? Otherwise you're just saying that because
you would abandon ship, female soldiers probably would too, and it's a shame that you think that way.
No, please educate me more, at least then your women's studies degree won't be completely useless.
I'm sorry you feel the need to resort to what you consider to be insults. The implication that I have a women's studies degree, and that this is a bad thing, is a very interesting thing to bring up out of the blue. Whatever makes you feel better, I guess.
~Psychic