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The Post Your Problems Thread

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Mr.Roserade

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    Dude its not that Im person with no morales, i just party alot....but i understand what its like to be in love with your best friend, it happened to me, we dated for like almost a year and broke up.....just remember sometimes its just better to stay friends...
     
    txteclipse

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    Well, do you want her to like you? If the answer is "no", then don't worry about it. If the answer is "yes", then just ask her about it. Be like "hey, you know the other day when you kissed me? Should I read into that?" or something along those lines.

    Actually, you may just want to ask her either way. It will probably feel awkward, but if she's that close of a friend I can guarantee that it will be fine. In any case, you'll feel more confident in what you should be thinking about the situation once you really know what's going on.
     

    Chibi-chan

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    Dawg 2005 said:
    Okaaay. So in the last thread, I had a love thing going on.
    Click to get the story.

    Okay, so yesterday, we went for a walk around the lake by her house. We joked around, and we sat down on some rocks and talked for a long time. We started walking back to her house, and about half way there (still around the lake), we stopped. We talked about how she thinks I should cut my hair, and then she said, "...If I do something, will you promise to not tell anyone?"
    "Of course, yeah."

    Then there was a long pause.

    "What would you do if I just kissed you?"

    wtf.

    "Uh, I don't know..." (At this point, I couldn't look at her, I was shocked as a mofo.)

    "Would you let me?"

    "...Yeah... I guess."

    Then she walked forward, put her arms around me, and kissed me (not open-mouth kthx, which lasted about 3-5 seconds).

    "...Okay then."
    I had no idea what to say. Seriously.
    And that was my first kiss. D: (I'm lame like that)

    We walked back to her house, chilled, and her sister gave me a ride back home.

    Okay, this may sound really "aww" to a lot of you, but...
    she doesn't like me.

    This is the part that's hard to explain. Which I totally don't know how.

    Honestly, can something really happen? I'm confused beyond belief.
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    You need a female's opinion on this topic! >;
    Well, if I had done this, this would mean that I'd have to have a loooooot of trust in you. And yeah, she does like you. That's a given. The thing is is that she doesn't want other people to know that she likes you...could there be a reason for that?
     

    Dawg 2005

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    Chibi-chan said:
    You need a female's opinion on this topic! >;
    Well, if I had done this, this would mean that I'd have to have a loooooot of trust in you. And yeah, she does like you. That's a given. The thing is is that she doesn't want other people to know that she likes you...could there be a reason for that?
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    The trust thing makes sense, since we both trust each other with our lives, pretty much.

    I can't think of anything. I'm sure I've done nothing wrong.
    If she liked me, then why wouldn't she just say?
     

    Chibi-chan

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    Dawg 2005 said:
    The trust thing makes sense, since we both trust each other with our lives, pretty much.

    I can't think of anything. I'm sure I've done nothing wrong.
    If she liked me, then why wouldn't she just say?
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    Because she doesn't want anyone else knowing or she thinks you'll make a big deal about it.
    I'm sure she doesn't want to risk you changing because of it so...she won't openly say it.
     
    Shiny

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    Oh wow, I can't belive my thread was actually stickied ^^;;. Well some she may have a hard time expressing her emotions?
     

    Dawg 2005

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    Chibi-chan said:
    Because she doesn't want anyone else knowing or she thinks you'll make a big deal about it.
    I'm sure she doesn't want to risk you changing because of it so...she won't openly say it.
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    No disrespect to you, but I think you might be wrong.

    I asked her if that kiss meant anything, and she said she'll tell me later; on myspace.

    Spoiler:
    The question was, "Will you give me another chance? Not to screw up?"

    Of course, I said yeah.

    "so that's what you needed to ask me?"

    "sort of. yeah."

    "sort of? there's more to it?"

    "yeah.but not now."

    Then we dropped that conversation.

    Wtf.
     

    Gummy

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    Dawg 2005: I've been in a situation like that before, but my advice to you is to let fate take its course and don't try to force anything.
     
    txteclipse

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    That's...pretty general, I guess, so...well...I got next to nothing DX

    There could be a wide spectrum of things going on, everything from her needing to confide in you about something to her just needing to reassure herself that she has a really good friend.

    For the second one I have an example: there was a fire near our house, and a family we kinda know had to evacuate. We basically took them in, and they have a daughter around my age. Anyways, this woman was like clinging to me and hugging me and stuff. I truly didn't know her that well at all, and it was awkward. Looking back, however, I think she just really needed to be certain that there was a person that cared for her and was sympathetic to her condition.

    So I guess your friend could be doing something like that with you, except you know each other a lot better and it's kissing instead of hugging. I wouldn't go out and ask her what's wrong, however, because that's just a hunch. When she's ready to tell you what's up, I think she will, if there's even anything wrong in the first place.

    Or maybe she won't. I don't know...I'm not a girl...she might be expecting you to pursue the conversation and get to the root of things. Opposite-gender types would probably be better at answering that, though.
     

    Mr.Roserade

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    Alright I have a BIGGGG problem, what if you know something that you know will hurt a friend and possibly cause you to lose one too??? Yeah it involves a girl and I dont know if I should keep muh mouthshut or just tell my friend??
     

    Razer302

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    It depends what the problem is. If it is that she is cheating on him then I always think they should be told. It is worse if they eventually find out that she has and discover you knew but didn't tell them. They will blame you for being hurt and will probably never talk to you again.
     

    Dawg 2005

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    Mr.Roserade said:
    Alright I have a BIGGGG problem, what if you know something that you know will hurt a friend and possibly cause you to lose one too??? Yeah it involves a girl and I dont know if I should keep muh mouthshut or just tell my friend??
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    We need some more detail...
     

    Mr.Roserade

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    Well two of my better friends go out, and the girl cheated on him with another one of are close friends =/
     

    Anxiety.

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    It's not my problem really, but I am concerned for my friend who may have SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder) and I want to know if there is another cure other than the light box as it costs a lot of money. Or if there is anything I, as a friend whom does NOT live with her, can do to help.

    Thanks a billion xD
     

    Zanacross

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    You do realize that you can report it to an administrator?
    And this isn't the place to post this problem.
     

    Unlimited NiGHTS

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    Zanacross said:
    You do realize that you can report it to an administrator?
    And this isn't the place to post this problem.
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    1. I believe this is the "post your problems" thread. Therefore, it's the perfect place to post this, because it is a problem.

    2. I already have, but it's likely that Rukario will just side with mewthree w/armor, declare him innocent, and not believe anything a lowly supporter has to say.
     
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