Cutting friendships, and how it feels.

I don't cut friendships unless as an absolute last resort, though it's good to say I've never had an experience like that and hopefully I don't experience that in the future.

I've had many friendships end, though, for the reasons out of my control, such as moving away.
 
If you've have to cut out a friend, then likely they were no longer your friend.
 
Well I've never actually had a real friendship at all, sure I'd talk here and there at school and work but I never really fit in. It doesn't bother me at all though. Thankfully I like being alone or else I'd probably be depressed.
 
I really, really hate cutting friendships and it's pretty major when I do. The person has to have done something I find very unnacceptable or things or do certain things over and over until I can't take it or be really rude or something. Or if the person completely ignores me I feel no need to be friends any longer.
 
cutting friendships is especially hard for me because of how loyal i am to the people im close to. since i choose to have only a couple close friends (meaning i can count them on one hand) and thousands of acquaintances, it's typically hard for me to let go of a friendship because to me, friendship shows the utmost trust, and if i get rid of that, then what would they think of me later on?

the only reason i would ever push someone out of my life is if they went to lengths to betray me or otherwise started to ignore me and got into things i didn't want them to get into.

ive recently been going through some friendship trouble with a girl at my school. she's just ignored me and has begun to only care for herself and her boyfriend (who is a total jerk, mind you). she's blown off me and other friends of hers so i started to ignore her as well. if she doesn't notice, then she doesnt notice and she becomes the rest of the ones who leave my life. if she does notice, we'll talk about it and i'll try my hardest to set things right.
 
Ugh lord I can never truly cut a friendship. I've tried so hard so many times. Every time, it's always, "What did I do wrong?" "What did that ***** do wrong?" "Did I say something?" "Did that ***** say something?" "Why couldn't it work out?" and then we both end up apologizing and everything's fine.

If I ever had to cut a friendship, it'd be for the reason that they're complete *******s. I rarely see any of my friends as that, because somehow they always have good qualities that outshine the bad ones.
 
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