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How do you deal with misbehaving people? And by that I mean, misbehaving "adults" here. (Whom you don't stand a chance of retorting against)
My grandmother is a real baddy in the family. She is the only black Sheep of all the people. She is super young and loves misbehaving with people.
For example, just a few minutes ago- mom cooked two rice plates for me and family. My grandmother had cooked a rice plate too and wanted to feed that to the family instead. So, she rushed into the kitchen, grabbed both of the rice plates that my mom had made, mixed them together in a bowl and gave it off to the night-guard outside. Then, she added, "it's best to feed the poor with this kind of food, not the family."
My grandmom not only destroyed my mom's hard-work, but also insulted her.
(My mom's food is loved across the neighborhood, btw... She is a professional cook/chef and grandmom just insulted her on no grounds of truth)
I wanted to destroy her (grandmom's food) in retort but, I am not evil like her. My mom left the kitchen in silence. (Wow, she must be really heart-broken to have done that. When someone remains silent to something like this and walks away, you know limits have been crossed! WOW!)
So, in such a situation what would you have done?
I write this as I sit completely heart-broken myself...
Edit: Also, any advice for me?
My grandmother is a real baddy in the family. She is the only black Sheep of all the people. She is super young and loves misbehaving with people.
For example, just a few minutes ago- mom cooked two rice plates for me and family. My grandmother had cooked a rice plate too and wanted to feed that to the family instead. So, she rushed into the kitchen, grabbed both of the rice plates that my mom had made, mixed them together in a bowl and gave it off to the night-guard outside. Then, she added, "it's best to feed the poor with this kind of food, not the family."
My grandmom not only destroyed my mom's hard-work, but also insulted her.
(My mom's food is loved across the neighborhood, btw... She is a professional cook/chef and grandmom just insulted her on no grounds of truth)
I wanted to destroy her (grandmom's food) in retort but, I am not evil like her. My mom left the kitchen in silence. (Wow, she must be really heart-broken to have done that. When someone remains silent to something like this and walks away, you know limits have been crossed! WOW!)
So, in such a situation what would you have done?
I write this as I sit completely heart-broken myself...
Edit: Also, any advice for me?
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