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I'll try to help, too. First off, Erimgald gave very solid advice advice. That said, you must be careful with your own emotions. Trust me when I say confusion doesn't help. Keep cool & rational.

That said, do you REALLY like him?

Don't be swayed by fancy words. You must be careful with those types. Don't get caught up and do something you may regret. I say once a cheater, always a cheater. If you really feel he deserves asecond chance...well, thats up to you. However, don't be so quick to trust.

I hope I helped. I am fairly good with advice, seeing as how I had to help various family members with similar situations. Seriously, why do they all come to me? I'm the youngest.
 
That's a good point you're making, Erimgard, thanks. Thing is, he's not a jerk, he's actually highly intelligent. You could say he's a genius. He doesn't normally get that drunk, in fact he hardly ever gets drunk at all. You know what? He hasn't touched any alcohol at all since that day, which was a month ago. Nope, not even one glass.

But yeah, your point about whether he'll make the same mistake over again is very important. And yours is too, sims: "I say once a cheater, always a cheater" yeah I've always said the same too. But he's really sweet and he cares about me a lot. I swear, he would do anything if I asked him to! He's a blackbelt yet he's so gentle and he has a great sense of humour. He's just a really nice guy overall.

You ask if I really like him. Well yeah, I love him. But whether I love him in "that way" I don't know any more, I'm a bit confused in that area at the moment. I was really happy with him anyway.

Hmmm well I suppose once might be a one-off, twice might be a coincidence and three times definitely isn't a coincidence. Shall I give him another chance? :\ *bites nails* I might.

Thanks for the advice anyway, it's all quality advice ^_^
 
? Twice a coincidence? Don't be too leneant.

I know your smart, Miss Nicole, so we can only trust your judgement of the guy. But I've seen my sisters (and cousins)-who are ALL at least four years older than I-go though the same thing. They were hopelessly in love, yet I had to talk to them to think rationally and get their thoughts together.

So before you do ANYTHING, promise you'll think it over.
 
Yeah, don't worry, I will think it over thoroughly ^_^
I know you're right about thinking rationally, I just need to do some serious thinking.

Thanks again :)

EDIT: I was just playing Chopin's Ballade no.3 (best way to think rationally lol) and I came to a conclusion: I'm not going to get back together with him. I'm moving to Australia next year for uni and he's going back to Japan for uni. I think it's better if we split up now rather than later, I mean we'll have to split up later on anyway. I think it's better to do it now because later it might be more painful if we get even closer. I think he already knows that but I'll talk to him about it again. We can still be really close friends though, the only difference is he won't be allowed in my bed XD
 
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Lady Nicole said:
Yeah, don't worry, I will think it over thoroughly ^_^
I know you're right about thinking rationally, I just need to do some serious thinking.

Thanks again :)

EDIT: I was just playing Chopin's Ballade no.3 (best way to think rationally lol) and I came to a conclusion: I'm not going to get back together with him. I'm moving to Australia next year for uni and he's going back to Japan for uni. I think it's better if we split up now rather than later, I mean we'll have to split up later on anyway. I think it's better to do it now because later it might be more painful if we get even closer. I think he already knows that but I'll talk to him about it again. We can still be really close friends though, the only difference is he won't be allowed in my bed XD
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Just a little note when you come to Australia, nice relaxing clothes for summer since it gets incredibly hot during summer, our spring is like a mini summer

any how onto my problem, I like like this girl and me and her have had a good and bad friendship throughout grade 10 and 11 and sometimes she kinda shows something towards me but I'm not sure if she does like like me, she has at one point but I'm not sure now and I don't want to tell her my feelings for her since I don't want her to hate me or anything like that. So what should I do?
 
Alright well this isnt serious matter but I just felt like saying it, nowadays Ive been kinda depressed lately, I have no problems in RL I dont have any financial, friends, life, education whatsoever problems my life is cool, but I felt like theres like a "gap" somewhere in my life, I can't really recall what I've done wrong the past days/weeks/years, and its like "Im missing something"..Im guessing its just me?..
 
Lumine, if you feel like there is a gap in your life, find what you've always wanted to do and do it.

I have a couple problems.

Well, this really isn't a problem...But I consider it one! Just today I got a boyfriend [Craig] who is also my best guyfriend...Akward, huh? Well that's not the problem though. Okay I've had a boyfriend before so why this is suddenly happening I have no idea..But it's happening: I'm so akward around him now. It's like I don't know what to say anymore but I really don't want to bore him, since I want us to last a long time..Any tips for good conversation-making?!?

Okay, so next 'problem'. This Friday I'm going to the movies with Craig, my best friend, my best friend's boyfriend Ben, and Craig's friend Bryce. We're going to see Saw 4. SAW 4!!! He asks me out and of course I say yes, totally disregarding the movie itself.. Those of you that are familiar with the Saw series know that it can be quite the thriller..Well, after reviewing a few trailers and peeking at a few screenshots of the movie, I was terrified. I don't know if Craig will even do anything, should I become frightened, but if he doesnt do anything...Is there any method I could use to control my terror during the movie?
 
Lumine, don't worry its just part of being a teenager, I've been in that gap thing like 3 times in my teen life so far, I'm not sure what really causes it but its just some random thing
 
Im hoping that way Terry, I mean my lifes all balanced and going really well, hopefully I'll get over it by tomorrow or something
 
And you never found out what was actually wrong? hmm Im just trying and hoping it wont be so serious
 
Don't worry, Lumine. I get randomly depressed sometimes but I always thought that was a girl thing XD
 
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Just a little note when you come to Australia, nice relaxing clothes for summer since it gets incredibly hot during summer, our spring is like a mini summer

any how onto my problem, I like like this girl and me and her have had a good and bad friendship throughout grade 10 and 11 and sometimes she kinda shows something towards me but I'm not sure if she does like like me, she has at one point but I'm not sure now and I don't want to tell her my feelings for her since I don't want her to hate me or anything like that. So what should I do?
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I think that you should tell her. It will just be better for you to say them instead of hiding it. I doubt she will hate you for it.

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Lumine, if you feel like there is a gap in your life, find what you've always wanted to do and do it.

I have a couple problems.

Well, this really isn't a problem...But I consider it one! Just today I got a boyfriend [Craig] who is also my best guyfriend...Akward, huh? Well that's not the problem though. Okay I've had a boyfriend before so why this is suddenly happening I have no idea..But it's happening: I'm so akward around him now. It's like I don't know what to say anymore but I really don't want to bore him, since I want us to last a long time..Any tips for good conversation-making?!?

Okay, so next 'problem'. This Friday I'm going to the movies with Craig, my best friend, my best friend's boyfriend Ben, and Craig's friend Bryce. We're going to see Saw 4. SAW 4!!! He asks me out and of course I say yes, totally disregarding the movie itself.. Those of you that are familiar with the Saw series know that it can be quite the thriller..Well, after reviewing a few trailers and peeking at a few screenshots of the movie, I was terrified. I don't know if Craig will even do anything, should I become frightened, but if he doesnt do anything...Is there any method I could use to control my terror during the movie?
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Problem 1: It is more awkward because you have to stop seeing him as just a friend now. But care on acting the same way. Try and just talk the same as you always do or it will always remain awkward.

Problem 2: There isn't a way you can not get frightened. You can try to hide it though. I think he will do something if your scared though. Doesn't every guy or is that just me. XD
 
Stardust-Kumo said:
Lumine, if you feel like there is a gap in your life, find what you've always wanted to do and do it.

I have a couple problems.

Well, this really isn't a problem...But I consider it one! Just today I got a boyfriend [Craig] who is also my best guyfriend...Akward, huh? Well that's not the problem though. Okay I've had a boyfriend before so why this is suddenly happening I have no idea..But it's happening: I'm so akward around him now. It's like I don't know what to say anymore but I really don't want to bore him, since I want us to last a long time..Any tips for good conversation-making?!?

Okay, so next 'problem'. This Friday I'm going to the movies with Craig, my best friend, my best friend's boyfriend Ben, and Craig's friend Bryce. We're going to see Saw 4. SAW 4!!! He asks me out and of course I say yes, totally disregarding the movie itself.. Those of you that are familiar with the Saw series know that it can be quite the thriller..Well, after reviewing a few trailers and peeking at a few screenshots of the movie, I was terrified. I don't know if Craig will even do anything, should I become frightened, but if he doesnt do anything...Is there any method I could use to control my terror during the movie?
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well maybe u should "prepare" urself by watching other scary movies- alone. its might help.
 
Lumine said:
Alright well this isnt serious matter but I just felt like saying it, nowadays Ive been kinda depressed lately, I have no problems in RL I dont have any financial, friends, life, education whatsoever problems my life is cool, but I felt like theres like a "gap" somewhere in my life, I can't really recall what I've done wrong the past days/weeks/years, and its like "Im missing something"..Im guessing its just me?..
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Meh

happens to me all the time, thats all i ever feel.

meh

thats mayby why i say meh all the time give me sumet to say

meh

It might go away
it might not
prob will for you

meh
 
zanacross said:
Meh

happens to me all the time, thats all i ever feel.

meh

thats mayby why i say meh all the time give me sumet to say

meh

It might go away
it might not
prob will for you

meh
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Awww :( don't worry, I'm sure you'll feel better in the end. Just find something you really enjoy doing and you'll feel happier, trust me :) I usually feel like that around once a month but that doesn't really apply here...

Danny, are you feeling any better now? :)

EDIT: I'm in a really weird mood today, so sorry about my behaviour in all parts of the forum.
 
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Lumine said:
Alright well this isnt serious matter but I just felt like saying it, nowadays Ive been kinda depressed lately, I have no problems in RL I dont have any financial, friends, life, education whatsoever problems my life is cool, but I felt like theres like a "gap" somewhere in my life, I can't really recall what I've done wrong the past days/weeks/years, and its like "Im missing something"..Im guessing its just me?..
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this happens 2 me all the time. its practically my life. just tell sum1 and it mite get better.
 
My problem......Snapped my ankle in half doing the MoonWalk after work drunk. Any help you could give me apart from a cast and sum frozen peas because the frozen food aint getting rid of the pain, neither does Ibruprofein or my painkillers.
 
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