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Relyt said:
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I can, but I really don't know if I want to. I'll just be sitting around throwing stuff at people really. There'll be the "stuff" that we are to "drink", and music, and that's about it. Not much to do. I might just go there for like 20 minutes walk back home and play Wii. xD
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Hmm that doesnt sound to good when you put like "Stuff"
What do you think will happen if you go? Will you get in trouble? Will the cops eventually show up?
 
Xairmo said:
Hmm that doesnt sound to good when you put like "Stuff"
What do you think will happen if you go? Will you get in trouble? Will the cops eventually show up?
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Nothing will happen if I don't go, and nothing will happen if I do. xD I'll get in trouble if I'm caught drinking, and cops won't show up.
 
Relyt said:
Nothing will happen if I don't go, and nothing will happen if I do. xD I'll get in trouble if I'm caught drinking, and cops won't show up.
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Hmm well if you're completely sure that you wont get in trouble (an i mean completely 100% w/out a shadow of a doubt sure) then go! Enjoy yourself, let lose! Rock out! etc. etc.

Just think, What would Renji do? XD
 
I'm sure he has good judgment... Just don't drink anything that doesn't come in a bottle.



************goes to welcome the new year
 
Well, I've been to a lot of parties that have had drinking involved, and I'm only 15. XD; The cops have never showed up to any of them. As long as the party doesn't get too out of hand, I'm sure you'd be fine.

The best thing to do if you don't want to get caught, is just to not drink. Say no. It's simple. You can still have a good time without alcohol. And then if things at the party get too out of hand, or you get bored, just leave. No point being there if you're not going to enjoy it.
 
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Relyt said:
Ah well my friend is having a sort of party thing tonight for New Year's, but I don't know if I want to go. There's definitely drinking and I don't want to get caught IF I even drink. I could just stay home, watch anime, and play mah Wii. But then again, I want to go, yet I don't...
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Huh, well, given the fact that I've been in your situation..so many times before, I think I can probably answer this <_<

Because the legal limit for being "drunk" is so low (It's when your blood-alchohol level is over like, .08%. seriously, that's like 2 beers, and hardly enough to impair your vision), if you get caught, and were actually drinking, even if you're still "all there," you're screwed. My advise is to just go and have fun. Seriously dude, it's new years eve. If you don't want to risk getting into any trouble than just..don't drink. it's not that difficult. Drinking messes with your way of thinking, and makes you smell like a cross between piss and rubbing achohol. Don't fall into "peer pressure," just go show up, and if it gets too intense, leave.
 
Relyt said:
Ah well my friend is having a sort of party thing tonight for New Year's, but I don't know if I want to go. There's definitely drinking and I don't want to get caught IF I even drink. I could just stay home, watch anime, and play mah Wii. But then again, I want to go, yet I don't...
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Hopefully your friend has limited the number of potential guests. It is truly inviting trouble to have a party open to all comers. Personally, I wouldn't make the decision to go if drinking was the main and primary focus of the party. That's boring.
 
Shirosaki said:
Hopefully your friend has limited the number of potential guests. It is truly inviting trouble to have a party open to all comers. Personally, I wouldn't make the decision to go if drinking was the main and primary focus of the party. That's boring.
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There's like 10 people maximum going. Just me and my friends.

My parents are already sort of suspecting something that's going to happen and they don't trust my sister, they trust me, but I can sleepover, they might say no, and be even more suspecting.
 
I would cry for no reason at all and ask myself why.I would think about people dying and I'm talking at there funeral. Is this what you needed ?
 
Maybe you should speak to a doctor or relative about this, I dont want to offend you but it sounds like a possible mental illness.
 
mm.. ok... let's see, how did you get over your first depression?

I would think about people dying and I'm talking at there funeral.
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I didn't understand that, it's ok if you don't want to talk about it though..
 
It's not I think I need a doctor aswell,but oh well not like I'm killing people.

Dark:I almost killed myself.

DarkkChildd said:
mm.. ok... let's see, how did you get over your first depression?


I didn't understand that, it's ok if you don't want to talk about it though..
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Isn't this what this thread for talk about your problems and have people solve them?
 
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oh... have you considered seeing a therapist?
A lot of people get depression because of body transformations, I don't think it's a mental disease, but I'm not really the right person you should be talking to... you know?

This could be a serious problem, suicide isn't something that should be taken lightly. What do you say?
 
DarkkChildd said:
oh... have you considered seeing a therapist?
A lot of people get depression because of body transformations, I don't think it's a mental disease, but I'm not really the right person you should be talking to... you know?

This could be a serious problem, suicide isn't something that should be taken lightly. What do you say?
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I have thought about getting a therapist, I don't think I'm going through a transformation.You gave it your best shot,but only I could solve my problems.I think I have Athazagoraphobia.
 
rellyms said:
I fear that I might be going into my second depression.
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Have you been properly diagnosed by your doctor? If not, I'd seriously suggest it. He/she will tell you where to go from there. It's hard to help if you don't exactly know what's going on.
 
rellyms said:
I have thought about getting a therapist, I don't think I'm going through a transformation.You gave it your best shot,but only I could solve my problems.I think I have Athazagoraphobia.
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Therapy isn't always the best option. Being open to your problem with a therapist could take months or perhaps even years to bring relief, and the results are unpredictable. In the beginning, you will probably feel relief when you are having a discussion about the phobia, however when you finally encounter the situation you fear, it may become clear to you that there still remains no cure.

In the many forms of therapy, you are relying on the insight and experience of the therapist to lead you through what he/she thinks is causing your phobia. The problem is, they don't know.They have no true understanding of the human psyche and personality. What they own are large amounts of data, based on research. They have studied this data, and figured out that psychological symptoms are usually clustered together in common patterns, which they refer to as disorders. This doesn't grant them any real understanding of the human psyche, and as a result they aren't capable of actually curing anyone who has psychological problems. That's not to say that therapy is completely worthless. If you require help in understanding yourself or your actions properly, it would be helpful for you to have someone intelligent to analyze you.

You think you have Athazagoraphobia? As you should know, long-lasting phobias don't usually disappear on their own, and can severely disrupt your life, which means that failing to take action condemns you to the same anxiety, worry and occasional straight-out fears that you experience today. Avoiding the issue indefinitely could mean leaving yourself to be surrounded by fear, missing out on life experiences, and living a life that is merely a shadow of what it will be when the problem disappears. Then again, probably the best way to live with a phobia is to completely ignore it. Yes, I realize that is easier said than done, however, the more thought you put into the fear and anxiety you create, the worse your phobia's outcome will be.
 
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