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About your school friends, they are kids, and kids tend to be selfish and they don't usually care about hurting other people's feelings.
Unfortunately, I have no idea how to do deal with such bullies who point out other people's problems to hide their own...
I wish I could have been more helpful...

EDIT: about ur brother, is he older or younger? and are u talking about shores ?
 
I'm starting to get hungry...
 
It's not true! get that out of your system!
A mother loves all her children equally, but if she doesn't treat you equally, maybe you should tell her how you feel, she could be doing this subconsciously for some reason..
 
I'm sure if you talk with your mother, she'll understand what's the problem.
Keeping things bottled in won't help you.
This is a heart to heart conversation you should be having with your mother.

Maybe she is unaware of the fact that she is giving you too much chores, that is what I meant by "subconsciously".
 
Sam I'm sorry to say you need counsellor for all your problems. I remember last time you came asking for help it was these problems. The same ones. You need professional help. That's all I can suggest. It will help you a lot more then we can.
 
I have to agree with Zanacross.
You seem to be having problems much too complicated for us to handle.

If you want to feel better, I suggest you seek professional help...
 
We didn't say you were crazy we just said our opinion and these problems seem to go down very deep. Deeper then you can handle. Either that or your just making this up which I hope your not.

Seriously see a counsellor it will help a lot.
 
DarkChild said:
You should let the girl know that you are disappointed with her decision, and that you only want her to be happy, and that you will always be there for her.
Make sure she gets the idea that you love her, but also you shouldn't come out too strong, she might think you're too needy and believe me, girls hate that.
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Most girls LOVE that, actually.

Here's my trivial little problem~

I have horrible self esteem. People always tell me I'm pretty, but guys never ask me out and whenever I look in the mirror I see the negative things about myself.

IRL, people tell me I have a great personality. So that can't be why guys don't like me. I do have short hair, but it's not too short. I've noticed some guys think it's too boyish. I have a real mature figure, which should make them like me, right?

And before you say "lolololol u dont need a bf," I've been in love and it was wonderful. For a year now I've been waiting to find it again.
 
~Koneko, Love takes time. and believe me Figure isn't the most important thing to the right guy. I know what its like to be in love, and how hard it is when that goes away. you should really try to find the positive things when you look in the mirror, and I can guarantee that the moment you become more confidant in yourself more guys will look your way.
 
Gerri Shin® said:
~Koneko, Love takes time. and believe me Figure isn't the most important thing to the right guy. I know what its like to be in love, and how hard it is when that goes away. you should really try to find the positive things when you look in the mirror, and I can guarantee that the moment you become more confidant in yourself more guys will look your way.
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Thank you for the advice. But I don't understand... how would being confident make me more attractive? People have said that. I never really got it >:
 
~Koneko said:
Thank you for the advice. But I don't understand... how would being confident make me more attractive? People have said that. I never really got it >:
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When your confident most poeple will notice because the atmosphere changes around you.
(how do I explian this without getting into advanced biology) when you're more confident more endorphins are released in your brain, thus putting you in a better mood, and the result is a happier mood around you. that happier mood will attract guys. (I think, it been a while since my Neuralbiology classes)
 
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