That girl makes me nervous

Anyone that shares my interest. If they like anime I worry that they've seen more than me and remember the shows better so they won't like me. If they play games I worry that they're better than me at the games I play so they won't like me, or they play games that I don't play and hate the games I do play so they won't like me. It goes on and on; at least if I'm rejected by people that aren't "my kind of people", I can attribute it to that. Can't do that if they reject me because I'm not nerdy enough. ;_;
 
There's this one girl that I like and we are good friends so I'm usually not nervous, but if I haven't talked to her in like a week and it's my first time talking to her in a while I initially get a little nervous, but I get over it pretty quickly.
Also, older people that I don't know. I'm fine with people my age. Or with older people I know, but if they are older than me and I haven't met them before I get nervous.
 
My ex. She's unreadable so I'm really nervous around her because I can never predict how she'll react. It's a bit attracting, to be honest.
 
Nope. Never really got nervous around people; male or female, crush or not. I might have been a bit shy at one point, but I never try to show it.​
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Nervousness stems out from the fear of embarrassing yourself.
I don't waste time being embarrassed, as such, I don't get nervous around anyone.
 
Wait, no one's said crush's/girlfriend's/boyfriend's family? I swear it's the most nerve-wracking thing! You've not only got the pressure of making yourself likable to a group of people, but the added pressure of the influence of the family on the relationship. In any other situation, I'm not nervous at all because there's nothing really at stake for me. If I add that pressure to myself, that takes away from the social experience and my overall enjoyment. But when you're dealing with THAT person's family... boy, pressure's on no matter what you say!

Rococo said:
I don't waste time being embarrassed, as such, I don't get nervous around anyone.
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With what I said above, I feel you there on nervousness not being very helpful in most situations. But maybe embarrassment isn't such a "waste of time"! Why Do We Wear Clothes?
 
To be completely honest, I'm nervous around people who I haven't really met or chatted to before. It's a natural reaction for me, I feel my palms getting a little sweaty and it's a rather awkward conversation, they're kind and great people most of the time but a little tinge inside me says something about them makes me feel uncomfortable. I guess it's probably the way they look at me, with this intensive stare as if they were attempting the phrase "looks could kill". I often fret about things as well, thinking that my friends might not enjoy hanging around me but they've told me numerous times that I'm great to be around, yet something inside me still makes me feel uncomfortable. :x
 
I'm nervous around pretty much anyone I don't know unless I get a certain air about them that makes me feel otherwise. I just feel like I'm being judged all the time and while I don't put too much importance into what others think of me, the thought of someone laughing at me behind my back is quite disconcerting. I blame being constantly teased as a child.
 
Pretty much me in a nutshell, both online and off. I tend to hide away from crowds and people who go near me, and when the person wants to strike a conversation with me, I'll try to warm up, and that will make me want to come out of that shell. Overall, I'm not that talkative, or at least that's what I think :S
 
I'm rarely nervous, i'm not that nervous tbh. I already were nervous once cos....uhh i can't tell lol.
 
I used to be the most anti-social person back then but I got over it. I don't talk to many people though because I can't start a conversation for the life of me. (It's OK if they start a conversation though.)

Anywho, I only get nervous around people that look bigger and stronger than me in the boxing club or the gym. Don't wanna mess with those people, they can be scary as hell. It's a damn good feeling when you're the bigger and stronger one though.
 
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I can sometimes get really nervous around British people because I think they're really cool and have a desperate urge to make them like me. I'd be a nervous wreck if I ever moved to London.
 
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