I could PM you what I know, though I don't know if what I have to show you is completely the reason.
And actually, I'm being stupid by being so negative about this. One of the xXxHolic episodes I watched SHOWED how words could make a difference. If I think positively, that everything will end well and that certain someone will learn his lesson and Letty will be out of danger, then it WILL. I've said this a trillion times, but our minds are greater than we think they are.