The Post Your Problems Thread

[Alex]

Hey guysss;

I just wanted an opinion over something:

I told my gf that i was going to skip school today because theres a athletics carnival... (told her yesterday) and she didnt get the sms, so i sent one to her friend telling her to tell her that to check her fone.

It seems i told the wrong friend, (who hates my gf) and now, my gf in turn, is pissed off at me.

Is that reasonable grounds to get pissed off on? over a mistake?

..she got mad at you because of the person you texted to let her know something? Well that hardly makes sense. It doesn't matter who you tell to pass the message on, as long as she gets it. You couldn't do it yourself in the first place, so she has no right to be mad.

Tell that ...girl off.

 

[beauty. proletariat]

no she got mad because i accidentally sent it to one of her ex friends who HATES her and our relo should be a secret for a few more months

 

[BHwolfgang]

Hey guysss;

I just wanted an opinion over something:

I told my gf that i was going to skip school today because theres a athletics carnival... (told her yesterday) and she didnt get the sms, so i sent one to her friend telling her to tell her that to check her fone.

It seems i told the wrong friend, (who hates my gf) and now, my gf in turn, is pissed off at me.

Is that reasonable grounds to get pissed off on? over a mistake?

no she got mad because i accidentally sent it to one of her ex friends who HATES her and our relo should be a secret for a few more months

You should just tell her what happened and that you made a mistake. Well, that's exactly what you did so I can't see how she would still be mad after it.

… Why are you two keeping a secret relationship? I'm just wondering, no need to answer.

 

[beauty. proletariat]

You should just tell her what happened and that you made a mistake. Well, that's exactly what you did so I can't see how she would still be mad after it.

… Why are you two keeping a secret relationship? I'm just wondering, no need to answer.

We have complications in family matters... Mainly, hers. Secret because our relationship means too much to break up, or go on a break.

anyway, thanks for the advice... seems I just got worried too much... we're sorting it out. Thank you.

 

[2A4Rulez]

I am way too shy.Too shy to even ask girls out and stuff, what do you think I should do?

 

[processr]

my sites don't have many members please go to my page to check them out

Advertising much?

I am way too shy.Too shy to even ask girls out and stuff, what do you think I should do?

Drink alcohol for courage.

There's no surefire way to suddenly change a person's character, and to attempt to do so is somewhat disturbing, in my opinion. It's no use trying to be someone you're not, and besides, at your age you really don't need to be worrying about 'asking girls out' and the like. Confidence around members of the opposite sex comes with time, and until you're comfortable around them and until you can 'ask them out' then you aren't ready to enter into a relationship.

 

[bewbs]

I've been pretty happy but I feel that there's something really missing. Something important. I have a feeling I need to have a serious talk with this guy. I wanna talk to this person who used to be really close with me. But he never replies to anything I say. He enjoyed controling me and playing with me. But since getting more independance and a bit of a backbone, all I can get out of him is a dirty convo and a reminder of NSFW requests. Anything else he just dosen't reply.

Some friends have said I should avoid him after what he did, but I just want to have a serious talk with him. I don't think we've had a serious talk in a while. He said that he was jelous of a few of my male friends. We had a good relationship, but right now it feels like he justs wants me for a ride. I don't feel that strong friendship.

He looks really unhappy too. Cause he's mentioned horrible things happening to him. I wanna make sure he's okay. Feel like it's all my fault though, my school friend's accused him of being a peadophile and one of them tried to spread it on the web. He said that he highly doubts I would ever visit him at florida, cause I'm in the UK.

 

[The Scientist]

Well, I spend most of my time in Pokemon General, and can usually be found debating various things and/or trying to answer questions. However, I've noticed that around 50% of the time, an argument, counter-argument, or theory I pose will go unnoticed. Sucks because I actually try to make reasonable, logical statements (and I also try to make it obvious when I'm joking/trollan, but in the case of my "Why Don't I Have A Fanclub" thread, it seems that those attempts have failed. Hrm.).

I think it's a matter of reputation: that even with my posting style, awesome hat, and stories of adventures to faraway places, I haven't yet reached the point of acknowledgment where people see my name/avatar and associate it with "hey, this guy must have something important/relevant to say".

I'm sure you all have noticed and/or experienced it: some posters' posts have more weight than others. You'll be skimming through a thread and find a familiar avatar/sig, and just have to scroll back up and read what they put.

So what do you recommend I do about this?

inb4 "it's just a forum, you're taking this too seriously".

 

[True Reign]

Of course you'll always have those 'people' who are always going to post and everyone's going to read what that said person posted. So your question is one simple word - Why? These people actually take their time to socialize. When you do this thing called 'socializing' you make friends. You make friends you make more friends from your friends and so forth.

Exactly what these people do. Or they just have an amazing personality like me.

 

[Ninja Caterpie]

with "hey, this guy must have something important/relevant to say".

Generally, I do, actually.


I've got this small little problem. Game Development.

Or well, more precisely, why a lot of the sensitive ones think I hate it. I mean, I'm not trying to purposely put it down, it's just it comes out that way.


And another thing...my parents (my mum, mainly) get really annoyed when I get under-average marks for maths (being Chinese and all...) and they're all "stupid ever" and "so easy" when I get stuff wrong and I get really annoyed. I don't want to get annoyed but I do, and then my mum starts ranting about "oh, you're trying to scare me?" and stuff and I get more annoyed. :\

 

[Anxiety.]

Oh wow, Aren't I problematic latley?

I like a Boy, who has a girlfriend, I like a Girl, who has a boyfriend.

I know the girl liked me, but I don't know when, and her BFF told me that she still might have a crush on me.

But I have been out with the boy I like, and me and him are really close. What do I do guys?

 

[Penguin13]

Oh wow, Aren't I problematic latley?

I like a Boy, who has a girlfriend, I like a Girl, who has a boyfriend.

I know the girl liked me, but I don't know when, and her BFF told me that she still might have a crush on me.

But I have been out with the boy I like, and me and him are really close. What do I do guys?

Hmm.. first off, homosexuality is wrong. So how with the guy you like that doesn't have a girlfriend.

 

[Sweet Jasmine]

I've got a problem with my friend..
She is so a spoiled brat.. She wont accept her parents apology
Then What should i do to help her parents?

 

[I Laugh at your Misfortune!]

Oh wow, Aren't I problematic latley?

I like a Boy, who has a girlfriend, I like a Girl, who has a boyfriend.

I know the girl liked me, but I don't know when, and her BFF told me that she still might have a crush on me.

But I have been out with the boy I like, and me and him are really close. What do I do guys?

first of all, if they're both in relationships, I suggest you keep away. Remember, you're going to have to deal with splitting up a couple and then you're going to be punished by your conscience...and probably by the girlfriend/boyfriend.

 

[Zet]

Oh wow, Aren't I problematic latley?

I like a Boy, who has a girlfriend, I like a Girl, who has a boyfriend.

I know the girl liked me, but I don't know when, and her BFF told me that she still might have a crush on me.

But I have been out with the boy I like, and me and him are really close. What do I do guys?

I'm afraid all you really can do is just go on in life, not much you can do there, unless you want to destroy a relationship and probably end up with nothing if that happens

 

[processr]

I like a Boy, who has a girlfriend, I like a Girl, who has a boyfriend.

I stopped reading right there. Don't pursue either - both of these people are presumably very happy in their current relationships, so don't go and ruin four other people's lives just for your own selfish needs.

 

[Anxiety.]

Hm. Thanks guys.

You made me sound like a right prick. But whatever.

You only told me what I already knew. Not very helpful.

@Penguin13 - I didn't ask if homosexuality was right or wrong did I? I didn't ask for your opinion on that so keep it to yourself. In fact, I found that offensive. Really offensive. Homophobe.

 

[Weatherman Kiyoshi]

Hm. Thanks guys.

You made me sound like a right prick. But whatever.

You only told me what I already knew. Not very helpful.

@Penguin13 - I didn't ask if homosexuality was right or wrong did I? I didn't ask for your opinion on that so keep it to yourself. In fact, I found that offensive. Really offensive. Homophobe.

Well, I suggest that you keep with that boy you've been out with.
See if that works.

If not, you might as well pursue someone else you like.
Atleast, not anyone already in a couple, that is. ^^

That help?

 

[Alex]

Oh wow, Aren't I problematic latley?

I like a Boy, who has a girlfriend, I like a Girl, who has a boyfriend.

I know the girl liked me, but I don't know when, and her BFF told me that she still might have a crush on me.

But I have been out with the boy I like, and me and him are really close. What do I do guys?

Do 'em both.

 

[Anxiety.]

Do 'em both.

Best. Reply. EVER

That has made my day.