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i have a problem.

my ex has a gf and i have a bf. my ex and i broke up about [lets say] a month ago. hes been pestering me to sleep with me and its on going and its getting really annoying. my bf tells me to tell him off. i told him off before but he doesnt stop.what do i do?
 
AuraAshley said:
i have a problem.

my ex has a gf and i have a bf. my ex and i broke up about [lets say] a month ago. hes been pestering me to sleep with me and its on going and its getting really annoying. my bf tells me to tell him off. i told him off before but he doesnt stop.what do i do?
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Well, if this gets worse, you can probably contact the police about harassment.
 
AuraAshley said:
i have a problem.

my ex has a gf and i have a bf. my ex and i broke up about [lets say] a month ago. hes been pestering me to sleep with me and its on going and its getting really annoying. my bf tells me to tell him off. i told him off before but he doesnt stop.what do i do?
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I think that you need to call the police and either file charges for sexual harassment or get a restraining order. Things like this tend to escalate.

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Mi pensas vi bezonas voki la policoj kaj fajlas kulpigoj por gxenado de seksumo aux prenas ordo de brido. Ajxoj kiel tiu cxi havas dispozicio eskaladi.
 
The hardest task for me in this world is to fall asleep. I stay away from the computer (except for right now lol) a lot of the time, meaning I'm left to just stare at the ceiling and enjoy the breeze the fan blows. When I do end up falling asleep, I get less than two hours maximum.

Normally I wouldn't call my inability to sleep a problem, but it is. For one thing and one crappy thing only: school. I'll wake up after, lets say 90mins of sleep (average) to get on with my school day. I'm drowsy as hell, and my body truly doesn't wake up till around noon. I get in trouble if I sleep during school, so I can't do that. It takes a toll on my grades, like hardcore. Mainly because I get cranky and angry as hell and I start running my mouth.

There is one thing I noticed though: on nights I smoke weed (or take any downer, actually) I'll fall asleep way early, and wake up happy, bright, and full of life the next day. Meaning my grades go up, and I don't get yelled at for cursing at the school staff.

I would smoke more weed, but I really don't have 24 hour access. I need to find a way to sleep on nights I don't smoke.
 
Lash said:
The hardest task for me in this world is to fall asleep. I stay away from the computer (except for right now lol) a lot of the time, meaning I'm left to just stare at the ceiling and enjoy the breeze the fan blows. When I do end up falling asleep, I get less than two hours maximum.

Normally I wouldn't call my inability to sleep a problem, but it is. For one thing and one crappy thing only: school. I'll wake up after, lets say 90mins of sleep (average) to get on with my school day. I'm drowsy as hell, and my body truly doesn't wake up till around noon. I get in trouble if I sleep during school, so I can't do that. It takes a toll on my grades, like hardcore. Mainly because I get cranky and angry as hell and I start running my mouth.

There is one thing I noticed though: on nights I smoke weed (or take any downer, actually) I'll fall asleep way early, and wake up happy, bright, and full of life the next day. Meaning my grades go up, and I don't get yelled at for cursing at the school staff.

I would smoke more weed, but I really don't have 24 hour access. I need to find a way to sleep on nights I don't smoke.
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I think you have sleep insomnia, either caused physically, in which case you will need sleeping medication or caused psychologically, by the fact that you think you need to get a good nights sleep with weed. Either way, go talk to a doctor about it and mention the weed thing because you cant get in trouble unless they find the weed on you. You can go into a police station and scream, "I JUST SNORTED A BUNCH OF CRACK!" and not get in trouble for drugs. But you would get in trouble for disturbing the peace. : 3

Mi pensas tiu vi havas sendomerco de dormo, kauxzas fizika tiom vi bezonos medikamento aux kauxzas psikoligia tiom vi bezonos medikamento ankaux. Iru al la doktoro.
 
Aksyel said:
I think you have sleep insomnia, either caused physically, in which case you will need sleeping medication or caused psychologically, by the fact that you think you need to get a good nights sleep with weed. Either way, go talk to a doctor about it and mention the weed thing because you cant get in trouble unless they find the weed on you. You can go into a police station and scream, "I JUST SNORTED A BUNCH OF CRACK!" and not get in trouble for drugs. But you would get in trouble for disturbing the peace. : 3

Mi pensas tiu vi havas sendomerco de dormo, kauxzas fizika tiom vi bezonos medikamento aux kauxzas psikoligia tiom vi bezonos medikamento ankaux. Iru al la doktoro.
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Alright, thank you. I shall try to get a doctor appointment by the weekend.
 
Yeah dude, ambien or ambien CR can really help you out. S'what I'm on.

Or you could've just found an otc sleep aid in target/walmart...
 
Problem:

I have no self control.

Once the first drink passes my lips, I'm gone.

I'll wake up a day later in a cell/hospital.

I'm really weak but I can't stand seeing people being pushed around which often gets me into un-winnable fights. (One time some kid held a knife at my neck at school 'cuz I told him and his friends to leave my friend alone).

I need to learn to control myself in every sence, but I really just can't.

Not to sound emo, but I'm worried I won't make it to my thirties.
 
Operator3 said:
Problem:

I have no self control.

Once the first drink passes my lips, I'm gone.

I'll wake up a day later in a cell/hospital.

I'm really weak but I can't stand seeing people being pushed around which often gets me into un-winnable fights. (One time some kid held a knife at my neck at school 'cuz I told him and his friends to leave my friend alone).

I need to learn to control myself in every sence, but I really just can't.

Not to sound emo, but I'm worried I won't make it to my thirties.
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If the first drink is the problem, don't have the first drink.
 
Operator3 said:
My problem is that I have no self control. This is with alcohol too.
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Everyone has self control, or else they would be fat, dirty, poor, etc. It's whether or not you believe in yourself.
 
I have a crush on my best friend. And I have a strong feeling that she likes me back.
Now, she's sleeping over saturday, but i'm not a very confident person, so I can't make the first move. Plus, it could make things awkward, especially if it doesn't work out.

I don't know what to do. Help?

Conversation:
Her: Ever had that feeling when you like someone, but when you see them in person you're like 'nah' and then when you're not around them, they're all you can think about?
Me: Yeah
Her: About who?
Me: You
Her: Mines is about this Kid called Dave. I'm kidding, it's about you.

Does this mean she likes me? Iunno if it does, and I don't want to look like an idiot.
 
Problem. Yaaayyy. *sarcasm*

Well, there's this girl i really like, and we're really good friends. Im probably one of her best frinds. But, she's lets say 'going out' with my friend, . But, they don't talk much, always split up, and most of my friends tell me that we should be together.

So, i thought why not, and asked her. It was a no, but a yes if she wasn't going out with my friend. my friend, needless to say, was really annoyed at me. He keeps saying that he hates me, and he's gonna smack me in the face.

We're still good friends, but now everytime i make her laugh, my friend, and everyone else, say i'm flirting with her. When i'm not. I try to act like i don't like her, but i do.

And there's rumours going around that she likes me. But i don't know if its true.

Ugh. Any help. I know about the age, but please.
 
>> Quilava Blaze << said:
Problem. Yaaayyy. *sarcasm*

Well, there's this girl I really like, and we're really good friends. I'm probably one of her best friends. But, she's lets say 'going out' with my friend, . But, they don't talk much, always split up, and most of my friends tell me that we should be together.

So, I thought why not, and asked her. It was a no, but a yes if she wasn't going out with my friend. My friend, needless to say, was really annoyed at me. He keeps saying that he hates me, and he's gonna smack me in the face.

We're still good friends, but now every time I make her laugh, my friend, and everyone else, say I'm flirting with her. When I'm not. I try to act like i don't like her, but I do.

And there's rumors going around that she likes me. But i don't know if its true.

Ugh. Any help? I know about the age, but please.
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Making her laugh is flirting. Also, 11 is way too young to start dating. You found your problem. Rumors are just that, rumors. Not lies, not truth. I'm 14 and I've tried to "date" with a friend or two (different times), and it doesn't work out, even at my age. You should really wait until you can drive to start dating. I can't stress that enough. Any "feelings" for a classmate/friend/etc at age 11 are nothing more than kids trying to look older/more mature. People do start to enter puberty around that age, but it's nothing more than hormones. They don't really feel true affection yet. I "liked" girls at that age, but I never showed it, and that is why people called me mature at that age.

Of course, it sounds as if I'm bragging, but it's true. Even if you think you "love" a classmate, it's nothing more than puberty hormones taking over your mind. Stay focused on your education, not your friends.
 
Anxiety. said:
I have a crush on my best friend. And I have a strong feeling that she likes me back.
Now, she's sleeping over saturday, but i'm not a very confident person, so I can't make the first move. Plus, it could make things awkward, especially if it doesn't work out.

I don't know what to do. Help?

Conversation:
Her: Ever had that feeling when you like someone, but when you see them in person you're like 'nah' and then when you're not around them, they're all you can think about?
Me: Yeah
Her: About who?
Me: You
Her: Mines is about this Kid called Dave. I'm kidding, it's about you.

Does this mean she likes me? Iunno if it does, and I don't want to look like an idiot.
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It sounds like she's unsure about her feelings for you. It could be one of those things where liking someone as a friend has started to blur with liking someone in a romantic way, but not knowing what kind of person she is I couldn't make any definitive statements based on such a small piece of conversation. For her, finding out that you like her might give her more reason to like you, or it could do just the opposite.

If your feelings are making it hard to be around her then you might want to get it off your chest however you can if for nothing else than your peace of mind. If you can't just spit it out then work up to it with some of that hypothetical what-would-you-do-if-someone-liked-you chat.

Looking like an idiot is not really so bad. You have to ask yourself if you'd risk looking foolish if it meant finding out how she feels (assuming she knows how she feels). Just look at your choices and pick whichever one feels best.
 
.Seth said:


Making her laugh is flirting. Also, 11 is way too young to start dating. You found your problem. Rumors are just that, rumors. Not lies, not truth. I'm 14 and I've tried to "date" with a friend or two (different times), and it doesn't work out, even at my age. You should really wait until you can drive to start dating. I can't stress that enough. Any "feelings" for a classmate/friend/etc at age 11 are nothing more than kids trying to look older/more mature. People do start to enter puberty around that age, but it's nothing more than hormones. They don't really feel true affection yet. I "liked" girls at that age, but I never showed it, and that is why people called me mature at that age.

Of course, it sounds as if I'm bragging, but it's true. Even if you think you "love" a classmate, it's nothing more than puberty hormones taking over your mind. Stay focused on your education, not your friends.
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So comedy = flirting now? that's pretty messed up, since I love comedy, but I'm just not that interested in guys. Sure it's fine if it's a girl but I'm not 100% sure if I want to take it from a guy :(

And just wait till high school, you'll probably find better girls, not just ones who get with some guy, split up and then get back together again etc
 
Hey guys , ive got a probelm. Im supposed to be studying more then I should be and every time I try and study I just randomly go on my computer, play on my console and even when I dont go on them , I just day dream whenever im trying to do my work. Can anyone give me some tips? I've lost my motivation.
 
pkmnmaster69 said:
Hey guys , ive got a probelm. Im supposed to be studying more then I should be and every time I try and study I just randomly go on my computer, play on my console and even when I dont go on them , I just day dream whenever im trying to do my work. Can anyone give me some tips? I've lost my motivation.
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Same thing here. It might help to get someone to study with you, so you stay focused. Try asking around in class.
 
Possible to edit these?

Is there a way to add a pokedex entry for the ?'s in RSE? I really added Munchlax into a Pokemon Ruby hack im making but i want it to be catchable.

So is there a way to add a pokedex entry for the ?'s?
 
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