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Would you give him/her another chance?

Would you give him/her another chance?

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Lover's Kite

[b]the age of empathy[/b]
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    So if you had a boyfriend/girlfriend, and you found out that they were cheating on you; would you give them a second chance with a relationship?
     
    That would be a flat out no. Because then they've proven to me that they can't be trusted to stay committed to our relationship, and it's a discrepancy that will always be at the back of my mind whenever I think about them. So even if you may try to give them another chance, the bond has already been broken and likeliness is you can't even begin to trust that person the way you used to, in fact it may plant paranoia into your head that they might just do the same crime again, thus it will hurt you further.
     
    I agree with Siggy. If I found out they were cheating, no matter what the excuse, that would pretty much be the end of any relationship I had with them. Giving them a second chance would just be setting yourself up to be hurt again, and you'd never think of them the way you used to. I guess I would just try to move on from them, and forget it all.
     
    Most probably not, but maybe... Depends on the situation and the reasoning from their excuses. But this only applies once... A second time I'll never forgive...
     
    Probably not, since I have a little more self respect than to give a cheating girlfriend a second chance...but it would really depend on the situation. Often, you probably still have feelings for the person that did it to you, so breaking up with them would be hard. But it would have to be done I suppose.
     
    ~ The Womanizer ~ said:
    So if you had a boyfriend/girlfriend, and you found out that they were cheating on you; would you give them a second chance with a relationship?
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    Sweety if that's what happened to you , then I say NO, don't start with him again, that's a sign of weakness, move on there are plenty of other people out there that wont treat you like dirt, you can do better, you can find someone that won't cheat on you and will show you some respect, you don't deserve being cheated on so NEVER take the cheater back.
     
    if that ever happened to me, No I wouldn't give her another chance. I've seen what it does to a person. My older brother had his wife cheat on him. He is a mess now. And they are getting divorced.
     
    I'd prefer that my hypothetical partner asks my consent before they do stuff with someone else, and vice versa. I'm not opposed to the notion of sex outside a relationship.

    If they go around without my consent though, I'd at least get them checked for STDs before I have sex with them again. ¦<
    If they continue to do this, I'll send them on their way.

    Angela said:
    Sweety if that's what happened to you , then I say NO, don't start with him again, that's a sign of weakness, move on there are plenty of other people out there that wont treat you like dirt, you can do better, you can find someone that won't cheat on you and will show you some respect, you don't deserve being cheated on so NEVER take the cheater back.
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    You speak as though to a female — Womanizer is male.
     
    Cassino said:
    I'd prefer that my hypothetical partner asks my consent before they do stuff with someone else, and vice versa. I'm not opposed to the notion of sex outside a relationship.

    If they go around without my consent though, I'd at least get them checked for STDs before I have sex with them again. ¦<
    If they continue to do this, I'll send them on their way.


    You speak as though to a female — Womanizer is male.
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    I wasn't sure lol;),, And in most cases it is the male that cheats, just ask my best friend, her boyfriend cheated her she forgave him, then he did it again, then I told her that he was not worth it, they have not been back together since then.
     
    No.
    I have very low self-esteem anyway, and my boyfriend is absolutely perfect and loves me to death and would never ever cheat on me and I'm still paranoid. Too much, I'm sure.

    Anyway, definitely not. They would not be worth my time.
     
    Aorio said:
    I have very low self-esteem anyway, and my boyfriend is absolutely perfect and loves me to death and would never ever cheat on me and I'm still paranoid. Too much, I'm sure.
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    I feel the same way. D:

    And.. Absolutely no. :\

    I have trust issues and once you break them, there's no way you can repair the damage.
     
    I think giving the person another chance after having being cheated on is a bad idea, even if you're mature and can look past it. See, if you do give them another chance, they might think you're easy and too forgiving, and take you for granted. Also, if they do actually love you enough not to cheat on you a second time, chances are you'd be constantly worried about whether or not they're cheating on you again. So, it would make for a messy and unstable relationship.

    I probably wouldn't give them another chance, but not out of spite. Just because it's probably best for the both of us.
     
    You know, I think it just depends on the circumstances. If it was an ongoing thing, I'd say no, but if it was just like once, I think I could find it in my heart to forgive him.
    I'm more of a trusting person, so I would be more likely to forgive. I think everyone deserves a second chance - it's the fair thing to do imo. If he's really sorry, he won't do it again, so I think I'd give him another chance.
     
    a second chance, yes, but anything after that would be no, everyone falters at least once, and anyone who tells you they haven't just did. so a second chance is acceptable, but thirds are out of the question.
     
    It really depends for me. If a really like this chick maybe, OR if I'm allowed to cheat once. But yea, those are the only true exceptions in my book, not to mention the latter is highly unusual.

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    Uh, no. I wouldn't give him another chance and I wouldn't care why he did it or not. I probably sound harsh but it's honestly how I feel about the whole cheating thing. I don't tolerate BS like that at all. :/

    I don't wanna take the risk of forgiving this person that "loves" me or so he says, and then goes and cheats again. ._.
     
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