"A heart that loves is always young."

Not. Before I find a perfect girl for me, I'll have to be with several girls. It's not like in the movies, especially in my country.
 
Just the sight of a man would never be enough for me to know what he's really all about.
 
A girl could be te sexiest girl I ever seen but how can I say I'm in love without knowing anything about her. That pretty much sums up my answer.
 
Honestly I believe "Love at First Sight" does exist, but it's extremely rare, and it only happens if you happen to look at someone who happens to be your soulmate right in their eyes. When that happens, you just know they're the one for you. But eye contact is essential, and it doesn't always happen the moment your eyes meet. Sometimes you have to hold eye contact for a while for that spark to happen, and even then, just because you fall in love at first sight...it doesn't mean that you have to be with that person forever. Just like any relationship, a "Love at First Sight" relationship can fail.

So yeah, I know it exists...but it's not something anyone should use to definitively choose their mate, based upon whether or not they fall in love with that person at first sight.
 
Yes. I have experienced it. Love at first sight that goes both ways is something I have never seen, though.
 
It depends on what your definition of love is. It's a loose term. Personally, some people might have lust at first sight, others might fall in their idea of love at first sight, but I don't think anybody could really fall in love at first sight. I couldn't.
 
No. I don't believe in it. It takes time to build a relationship, and its strange to just "fall for someone" when you barely even know them, let alone first come in contact with them. I'm not saying that its impossible, its just unrealistic imo.

^ Off topic, but I find that ironic for someone like me would say that, lol.
 
I've seen this question many times,but it can be a yes or no depending on the situation,however currently I have this current love interest he turns out to be shy and I am aswell,It wont get no where if I don't be brave and actually talk :P.
 
They should change it to lust at first sight, really. You don't fall in 'love' with them. You don't even know them. But you're attracted to them, that's it. There is a difference.
 
I believe in lust at first sight, or attraction at first sight.

Love isn't based on first glance. I believe in soulmates, though!
 
depends on said person's definition of love
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love is easy to define, it's just a word to describe feelings of affection. its the depth and intensity that varies and makes it so complex. romance is the mysterious aspect of love, and i believe that is where individual definitions come in.

i assume we're talking romantically here, and a feeling so deep and powerful must be built. i feel the same about platonic love, though i think both types comprise different feelings and levels of devotion, but can be as strong as romantic love.

i guess im talking simplistically because love is so complicated and i want to go back and elaborate/refurbish what ive stated above because there are so many grey areas but this is ovp so i should ~keep it short~ what im saying is, no, i don't believe in love at first sight.
 
poopnoodle said:
love is easy to define, it's just a word to describe feelings of affection. its the depth and intensity that varies and makes it so complex. romance is the mysterious aspect of love, and i believe that is where individual definitions come in.

i assume we're talking romantically here, and a feeling so deep and powerful must be built. i feel the same about platonic love, though i think both types comprise different feelings and levels of devotion, but can be as strong as romantic love.

i guess im talking simplistically because love is so complicated and i want to go back and elaborate/refurbish what ive stated above because there are so many grey areas but this is ovp so i should ~keep it short~ what im saying is, no, i don't believe in love at first sight.
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so you said all that just to agree with me in the end. nice :P

i think you summed things up very nicely
 
I doubt it's possible. In order for any relationship to succeed, I feel that you have to really know the other person beforehand to ensure that both personalities match.
 
Infatuation/lust at first sight are valid theories, but love? I don't think think it's possible.
 
Utter infatuation within a day or two (or less than a day) of meeting a person is something I have had happen more than once, but love and infatuation aren't the same, and the feeling wasn't reciprocated.

Even if two people do feel the same in a situation like that I don't think you can call it 'love' until their bond develops into such, so no, I don't believe love just forms instantaneously like that and thus I don't believe in 'love at first sight'.
 
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