Let's not let this devolve into personal attacks, thanks. Infractions are something I'd prefer to avoid doling out.
Basically, the point I'm gathering from this is that calling something the "spirit of men" is basically a way to say "these dudes are close enough that they would totally go gay for each other" without actually saying that they would go gay for each other? (half-sarcastic here, FYI, though everyone needs to have that one friend they're close enough with that they'd seriously contemplate going gay for) In all seriousness, "spirit of men" is some vague concept bullshit labeling when you really mean camaraderie but want to intentionally exclude women.
RE: Mecha: I find robots cool, but I find them cool independently of what I identify as and what exists (or doesn't) between my legs. And I don't find all robots cool.
Yes, which happens to be the genre of cute girls doing cute things.
??? That's more of a you thing where you personally don't really get it. I see you rail on CGDCT as a "thing ruining anime" pretty regularly. I know plenty of dudes who get CGDCT.
And this is just as outlandish of a notion as in the OP. Though I do think that was your intent.
Sure. Anything that involves yaoi hands.
Not the yaoi genre itself but those proportions. Only girls like that and I don't think men will ever understand it.
I mean, there are plenty of gay dudes who are probably into it. And yaoi hands are one of the equivalents to things like exaggerated boob proportions in stuff that panders to people into females. There are some people for whom their kinks are a thing that they can never have enough of, and for some that includes hands.
like straight dudes and their obsession with their own toolkit and the toolkits of other males, for instance
Also specifically regarding the idol anime mention in the OP, legitimately 90% of the idol anime fans I've met offline were female, most of whom were into females. Women definitely understand idol anime on a level on par with men. Hikikomori NEETs don't count, as they're using idol anime as a substitute for any human contact.