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Are you/Have You Ever Been in Love?

Yeah, you're really right. I would rather wait until I'm older to start a serious relationship. I mean, while you're young you can't get married anyway, so just make friends with someone that you like and wait. Once you're older that's when you should be looking for your soulmate. And if you have tons of boyfriends/girlfriends now, you'll never be able to take back anything that you did once you're older, so I'd rather wait and be with one special person instead.
 
i think im in love with this girl at school.
i mean tell me this isnt love...
every night i dream about her and think about how shes too popular to date...
ive cried once about her and think about her all day.
when i look at her i blush and turn away.
when we talk it seems theres noting to say, im speachless...

now tell me that isnt love, and the worst part is im too much of a coward to ask her out, cuz im afriad ill get turned down...
 
Me and My girlfriend are Engaged lol.. we're not legally married... :) Lol
 
No, I have never experienced this feeling that you people call "love". I am a very hateful person >=) =P j/k

Well...I really wasn't kidding of never really feeling in love, just about the hateful part. =P I have had a lot of crushes in the past, and actually thought that they may be love, but you know us teen aged guys; you think you like this one girl, and the next day you get the same feeling for another girl! I guess it may just be hormones acting up occasionally. oO' I remember when I was a kid I used to be like a 'protector'. Me and my friend would always go around helping out girls that we liked if they were being bothered by bullies ( hehe ^^; ). We watched too many super hero shows. >.> But I was a kid, and never really kept those feelings. =\ Heck, I don't keep them now!
 
=P You can't hate something before you love it anyway. =P Hate follows love.

I've not fallen in love before. I grew up in a life full of indfference, not that I can do a thing about about, but... I am trying to bring love in my life now. Let's see... I did have crushes though. They never failed to be centered around the girl's looks. Once when I was 6/7 yrs old in China. Another in grade 6, and that girl's actually in psychology class this year in High school lol. And other crushes... I think another one in Junior High, though I kinda refused to do anything about my crush this time. And no crushes in High School... My interests began shifting to online thingz by the Spring of 2003 then, that's probably why, but mainly because... I don't know, I guess I'm just indifferent, but this time for reasons.
Kayleigh said:
Yeah, you're really right. I would rather wait until I'm older to start a serious relationship. I mean, while you're young you can't get married anyway, so just make friends with someone that you like and wait. Once you're older that's when you should be looking for your soulmate. And if you have tons of boyfriends/girlfriends now, you'll never be able to take back anything that you did once you're older, so I'd rather wait and be with one special person instead.
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Yeah, and also I think education should be the focus while young. I know this might sound a bit weird coming from me though, lol, I'm sure education can only make future relationships better and safer anyway.
Batesy said:
Love is basically a race! It's the first one to ask her/him out and then if their relationship isn't going good then you suddenly get faster.
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I guess it is built in man to race. ^^ I think love is why man lives this thing called life. Love is chemistry, with a touch of divinity. And the simple mystery is life itself.
 
Kayleigh said:
*high fives back* And yeah, I know. Plus it would just feel so weird asking a boy out... It's always been their job. So yeah, I can just wait around patiently and see if my crush asks me out. o_o; Aha, though he'll probably have to hunt me down because I'll walk off to keep from blushing too much or something. Lol.
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whoa that is sooo sexist lol...sometimes im too embaressed to do things and im a guy, thats just my nature...i would feel better if the girl i felt i loved asked ME because would feel like a fool being denied...
 
No it isn't. It's just usually the guy who asks the girl out, but... Some people prefer it vice versa. ^_^; I guess whoever is the most outgoing should be the one who asks the other out. If they're both shy then it might turn into a slight problem. One of them will have to gain more confidence.
 
I'm too shy to ask anyone out...I've never asked someone to dance with me (they always ask me) ... I was even asked to homecoming by a girl (and she's pretty much the shyest person I know) ...after homecoming we were too shy to talk to each other and that sort of became problematic and I think we're a bit uneasy around each other now -_- But my paralyzing fear of rejection keeps me from ever asking anyone out...and besides, everyone who I care about for now already has a boyfriend...>____<
 
but thats the problem my fear prevents me from trying...i cant even dance to stupid rap because i mean theres noting to dasnce to, so i just sit there embarassed...
pluse, its easy to say yea i can overcome that fear, but in reality its much harder and i just cant...mabey this will prevent me from going out for a while...unless they ask me out...
 
Kayleigh said:
No it isn't. It's just usually the guy who asks the girl out, but... Some people prefer it vice versa. ^_^; I guess whoever is the most outgoing should be the one who asks the other out. If they're both shy then it might turn into a slight problem. One of them will have to gain more confidence.
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All confidence comes from thinking of yourself as having a purpose. lol, no, don't actually know, I guess over time one builds it.
Chairman Kaga said:
I'm too shy to ask anyone out...I've never asked someone to dance with me (they always ask me) ... I was even asked to homecoming by a girl (and she's pretty much the shyest person I know) ...after homecoming we were too shy to talk to each other and that sort of became problematic and I think we're a bit uneasy around each other now -_- But my paralyzing fear of rejection keeps me from ever asking anyone out...and besides, everyone who I care about for now already has a boyfriend...>____<
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Same here, but I get too stupified when someone asks me
Wing Zero said:
but thats the problem my fear prevents me from trying...i cant even dance to stupid rap because i mean theres noting to dasnce to, so i just sit there embarassed...
pluse, its easy to say yea i can overcome that fear, but in reality its much harder and i just cant...mabey this will prevent me from going out for a while...unless they ask me out...
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But do you like to dance? The last time I tried that was in grade 7 lol, but I wasn't embrassed, not like anyone cares what I was doing anyways... w00piee. The dance floor (the gym) was dark, crowded... and I just went somewhere where the air was okay and yet still be in the energy, by the stage where the DJ and the big speakers are.
 
well our dj sucked and was cheap, and there werent many people there, i dont feel comfortable dancing to rap,... it has nothing to dance to and alot of the songs were slow boaring songs...
 
lol. I've only heard from that one DJ. ^_^ He sure costed our school a lot to hire though, $400 a hour. O.o
Kayleigh said:
I think boys worry too much about rejection. =P But you know, if they say no, then oh well. Maybe that means that she/he wasn't the right person, so you need to go find someone else. You won't succeed unless you try.
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I think I would x_x, it depends on how approachable the girl is too
 
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Kayleigh said:
I think boys worry too much about rejection. =P But you know, if they say no, then oh well. Maybe that means that she/he wasn't the right person, so you need to go find someone else. You won't succeed unless you try.
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What if there's no one else... What if no one else likes you? What if no one cares... Right person... I'm worried about rejection, and I dont know what to do... Maybe it's a weight problem... that everyone ignores me... or avoids me...
 
bna_li said:
What if there's no one else... What if no one else likes you? What if no one cares... Right person... I'm worried about rejection, and I dont know what to do... Maybe it's a weight problem... that everyone ignores me... or avoids me...
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That's a scary thought..... *borrows Miyu-chan's pillow and hides under it*

Ack, whatever... :P
 
Our Prom was pretty cool, I went with my ex-girlfriend (blech I wanna throw up), There were three rooms with three seperate Djs. One Played all Club Music (The room me and my friends were in), A Room that played Hip-Hop (we went here afterwards, all the kids that wanted to fight me were here) and the last room was just a request room playing gay music from the losers :P.

It was pretty cool, we stayed out til two, we went to the mall, to a resturant and then to a few after parties... Mad bangin night.
 
life is not that cruel. Even for it's standers it could not do that to us. There are different people in this world. Here look at it this way. If chanchs are that we are the only planet with life there must be someone to spend there life with you. There is not just one. You just have to find the person with the personality that conplaments yours.
 
jokestr2004 said:
I was in love with someone back since 4th grade (basically a year ago..) ... except last October she moved a few towns away... we were good friends and stuff... but uhh yes..
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Thats awful jokestr2004... Well, dont you have any contact?

...Me? No ive never been in love... Well, never. But here...
 
Castrainer said:
Thats awful jokestr2004... Well, dont you have any contact?

...Me? No ive never been in love... Well, never. But here...
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Well... all i know is the town she moved to, its not very big... but she's not in any address books or nothin so.. i dunno. yeah it suxx.
 
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