I didn't actually read the threads or anything so I don't know what went on, I do just want to say that something being "personal" is very subjective. Also, if someone asks a genuine question (especially in an AMA) with no intent of harm or anything negative like that, then I don't see there being any issue. If it's something that's too personal, the question can simply be skipped over and that'll be the end of that.
Just figured I'd throw my two-cents in, despite not actually knowing the context of what is being said above. (Being ignorant of the context might actually be a good thing for my post, actually!)
And I guess while I'm in the mood to shove my shitty opinions everywhere, I'll respond with my own opinions on what Enpatsu said in the post directly above mine.
I've always kind of lived under the philosophy that if one person is allowed to say or ask something, then everyone should be allowed to. However, on the flipside, I also understand that it's my philosophy on that, and obviously there are going to be people who disagree with it. As a result, despite my own feelings on the matter, I do what I can to respect other people's philosophies and feelings on that stuff. If I think someone is uncomfortable with a certain term or question, despite how I feel about it, I just simply won't use said term or ask said question.
anyways this has been jake's shitty opinion on stuff.
sorry for the serious post i will resume being an obnoxious shitposter now