Do you get picked on by bullies?

[22sa]

(Lol, what's a Biggot?)

I don't go to a public school, and so it's not often that I am around a lot of other kids. But, even when I was in public school, I don't remember ever being bullied. I was kind of in the middle category; I wasn't considered a mega dork, but I didn't hang around the most popular people. I could talk with them, but I wasn't interested in being buddies, mostly because they were always so rude to anyone who wasn't as rich, pretty, smart, etc. as them. But, I still tried to be nice to everyone, and so I had several friends that would back me up if anyone happened to insult me, and I would do the same for them. ^_^;
Now, I don't think that anyone would want to mess with me, mostly because I'm a bit taller than most girls my age. (And I'm only 5'6! I feel short when I read how tall most of the other girls here are, lol.)
I still run into a mean person every now and then, but since I almost always try to be polite to people, they're not usually rude back. And even if I do get insulted, I tend to just ignore them... I am just not capable of thinking of a witty comment to respond with. -_- Maybe, after I think about what happened for a while, I can. But not instantly. I guess that's my only problem when dealing with bullies. Though, I wouldn't want to start a fight or anything. It would be nice to know some sort of self-defense whenever I need to defend myself. I'm going to take maybe a karate class or something. =D Muahaha, so you won't want to mess with me after that!

I... typed a lot. I'm in a typing mood. Wee! *goes off to post more long messages*

That's good, personally I don't think wit in girls is very good, if any good at all.

*gets weird stares*

About my expriences with bullying... I don't remember getting bullied in High School, some in Jr. High, but a lot in elementary school and before that. I was pretty disliked as a kid. >=p Not that I'm happy about that... ya. Does girls punching you on the leg during class time consider to be bullying? lol, jk, I don't find it offensive. x_x

 

[Teara]

I'm never bullied and I feel really obnoxiouz to zay it but I'm pretty popular zo I've never had to deel with that kind of thing before. But juzt becauze I'm not bullied or teazed dozn't mean my life iz perfect...far from it actually. I'm harrazed...alot! I'm getting ready to go to high zchool and even though my friendz don't know it I'm terrified! There alwayz zeemz to be zome dirty little creep zneaking up behind me and touching me...I'm not a violent perzon uzually but that juzt getz on my nervez to no extent. I've had to zlap more guyz then I can keep track of and it'z not in the leazt bit flattering. Of courze thiz iz an everyday thing zo I've learned to lean againzt zomething when I zee certain people coming. I alwayz get zick when I think about highzchool and all the creepz there. And it dozn't help at all that I've had a terrible experience, every day and every time it happenz iz like a reminder of that and the uncomfertablenezz I felt. I'm zo overjoyed now that I have a new boyfriend that iz alwayz watching my back, I ztill get poked and grabbed but not nearly az much any more, and never when he'z around. I don't think thiz can be called bullieing but rather harrazment and I think it iz juzt az degrading. No one haz the right to pick on other people or touch them, or anything elze that will make them feel degraded. Not only that but I don't like being like all the other popular people in my zchool (I'd call them prepz but Prep haz a differant meaning in my zchool, it referz to a znobby, popular, brat/jerk)zo I alwayz try to be nice to everyone, dezpite their zocial ranking. But of courze, zome people that arn't az well known az me think I'm juzt acting nice to improve my image. I try talking to everyone, even ztudentz I don't know, but thiz juzt givez me more of a fake image to them.

*knockz head againzt the wall*
Doh! I juzt rambled! *zniff zniff* I've gone againzt my code of anti-ramblenezz 8.8
Meh bad... x,X

 

[100marios]

I'm never bullied and I feel really obnoxiouz to zay it but I'm pretty popular zo I've never had to deel with that kind of thing before. But juzt becauze I'm not bullied or teazed dozn't mean my life iz perfect...far from it actually. I'm harrazed...alot! I'm getting ready to go to high zchool and even though my friendz don't know it I'm terrified! There alwayz zeemz to be zome dirty little creep zneaking up behind me and touching me...I'm not a violent perzon uzually but that juzt getz on my nervez to no extent. I've had to zlap more guyz then I can keep track of and it'z not in the leazt bit flattering. Of courze thiz iz an everyday thing zo I've learned to lean againzt zomething when I zee certain people coming. I alwayz get zick when I think about highzchool and all the creepz there. And it dozn't help at all that I've had a terrible experience, every day and every time it happenz iz like a reminder of that and the uncomfertablenezz I felt. I'm zo overjoyed now that I have a new boyfriend that iz alwayz watching my back, I ztill get poked and grabbed but not nearly az much any more, and never when he'z around. I don't think thiz can be called bullieing but rather harrazment and I think it iz juzt az degrading. No one haz the right to pick on other people or touch them, or anything elze that will make them feel degraded. Not only that but I don't like being like all the other popular people in my zchool (I'd call them prepz but Prep haz a differant meaning in my zchool, it referz to a znobby, popular, brat/jerk)zo I alwayz try to be nice to everyone, dezpite their zocial ranking. But of courze, zome people that arn't az well known az me think I'm juzt acting nice to improve my image. I try talking to everyone, even ztudentz I don't know, but thiz juzt givez me more of a fake image to them.

*knockz head againzt the wall*
Doh! I juzt rambled! *zniff zniff* I've gone againzt my code of anti-ramblenezz 8.8
Meh bad... x,X

Don't worry Teara! Actually, people are a lot more mature in high school! Middle school was the rough time...
All the kids are trying to find out who they are, so they do so many stupid things. That's just plain disrespectful though. You don't even know the person very well? I wish I can show people like that who's who, but that's quite impossible for me hehe...

Rambling? It's okay, coconut head forgives you!
Hehe....

 

[oni flygon]

I don't get picked up by the bullies... maybe because I can beat up the bully... O_o ... well, I can beat up anyone if I'm really angry... XD

 

[Teara]

Don't worry Teara! Actually, people are a lot more mature in high school! Middle school was the rough time...
All the kids are trying to find out who they are, so they do so many stupid things. That's just plain disrespectful though. You don't even know the person very well? I wish I can show people like that who's who, but that's quite impossible for me hehe...

Rambling? It's okay, coconut head forgives you!
Hehe....

Heh, I guezz, I do know alot of people in high zchool but I ztill get nervouz @.@;;;

Alot of timez it'z juzt zome little creep I don't know that thinkz he going to be cool by mezzing with the back pocket of the ztuco prezz...grrrr...

Meh, my boyfriend haz helpz alot though^__^ Although he'z gotten into a fight about it once *,* (but he one...hahaha!)

Thankz though :)

 

[Cherrim]

I'm only picked on by a few kids in school because I got them suspended from the bus back in September or October. =\ There's kind of a long story behind that, but it's very annoying when I see them because they'll either deliberately bump into me or they'll just insult me. Nothing big enough that I'll report them, but it does unnerve me. ><; Most people tend not to bother with me since I'm almost always surrounded by people... and if they do insult me for whatever reason, they have nothing to back it up with because I'm probably better than them in every aspect, lol. ;p[/egotistical]

 

[Dizzy]

Kid's seriously need to grow up these days. Even though I'm not bullied or anything, I still think that kids(aka bullies) should have respect for other people.

 

[Reptar]

I get picked on sometimes. People at school always say I never talk, and if I say that's not true, they just copy me in a high, mocking voice...And sometimes the mexicans in my class make fun of my because I'm white, or because I usually wear sweatshirts, or very large, baggy t-shirts, and jeans instead of belly shirts and tight pants..Blech...

 

[Varied Deoxys]

I've never been bullied before, other than a few insults now and then. I sometimes overhear people whispering about me, saying stuff like "He needs to quit playing Pokeman and Deroxys or whatever it's called and get a life.", but I don't mind. They just assume that if I play the games that I'm obsessed with everything else about Pokemon (Which I'm not). I usually come up with some sort of witty retort anyway. Like one time, someone came to school with a Pikachu doll with a leash on it, came up to me and said "I just bought this cute little pokeman! But it's pathetic, on crack, and it's head look like it's about to ooze into it's tail." said the kid. Then I say "Must run in the family.". He's been speechless near me ever since. other than the Pokehaters, I have quite a few friends, and they're loyal enough to stick up for me in any situation. That goes ditto for me too.

 

[jokestr2004]

Yes that kinda thing happens on a daily basis for me... just about things other than Pokemon... and uhh my friends at school... they dont stick up for me.. its vice-versa... but all my neighborhood friends would kill for me.

Unrelated to me, one of my friends and 2 of his brothers beat up a whole gang of bullies... broke their nose, gave them a scar where their eyebrows used to be... crap if anyone wanted to bully me, I could just sit back and watch... ^^;;

 

[Jirachi]

I never get bullyed on and I never was.

 

[Chairman Kaga]

I remember getting picked on because I liked pokemon more than any other reason I was picked on my sixth grade year...I loved the TCG and the games, and I made some of my first friends because of pokemon, but there were people who taunted me mercilessly...I remember getting so angry at a kid in gym class that I went after him with a hockey stick...I'm not violent so imagine how much I would have had to been provoked for me to do that...so in the seventh grade I just quit talking about it, and people forgot that I liked it...

I've only ever been picked on for liking a certain TCG once since then...some losers at an academic tournament were making fun of me and my team because we all played Yu-Gi-Oh instead of Magic. It didn't hurt me because I knew how incredibly arrogant they all were, and on top of it all we had just knocked them (the #1-seed) into the losers' bracket and went on to destroy them again in the finals :P Now THAT'S justice...

 

[Intuition]

Never... Only nerds get picked on at our school.. not me, there scared for me.. hhahaha jk :P

 

[Fox_Die]

Never... Only nerds get picked on at our school.. not me, there scared for me.. hhahaha jk :P

Yeah, same here, the only people who get picked on in my school are the nerds, and the shorts people

 

[22sa]

Heh, I guezz, I do know alot of people in high zchool but I ztill get nervouz @.@;;;

Alot of timez it'z juzt zome little creep I don't know that thinkz he going to be cool by mezzing with the back pocket of the ztuco prezz...grrrr...

Meh, my boyfriend haz helpz alot though^__^ Although he'z gotten into a fight about it once *,* (but he one...hahaha!)

Thankz though :)

Ya, I agree with 100marios, less people going through puberty in High School then Jr. High. >_>

 

[swordkirby537]

I always used to get picked on. People used to say the meanest things about me and i never did any thing to them. The always talked about ways they were gonna torcher me to death. Untill one day i beat him to a bloody pulp and sent him to the hospital. I was rarely picked on after that because alot of them know how strong I am.

 

[^^NICK^^ v.2.0]

You people who get picked on should defend yourself. Teach people not mess with you, even if they beat you up, at least you can say you tried defending yourself.

 

[bna_li]

No, because I'm pretty big. Another reason, I don't go to school.

 

[swordkirby537]

You people who get picked on should defend yourself. Teach people not mess with you, even if they beat you up, at least you can say you tried defending yourself.

Yeah, thats what I did, and it worked!

 

[John Denver]

I have the same exact problem...I have an absolute inability to make comebacks on the spot if anyone says anything insulting to me...and therefore I'm worried that I'll never have the important skill of being able to tell someone off to their face (I hope I never have to though...) I suppose since I haven't been exposed to some of the insults and things that other, more antagonistic people have been exposed to, I don't have any material to work with...which is good in a sense, it forces me to walk away from a fight.

Also... bigot (noun): A prejudiced person who is intolerant of any opinions differing from his own.

Wow...I don't think that's ever happened to me...freaky...I usually just analyze what they just said, find something that insults them deeply, and find a way to realte to the insult they gave me...science rulez!

Well anywho, I really think the worst thing you can say to a bully is either, "Stop, Shutup, Knock it off," and the like, because that is the sign for KEEP GOING!

If you're being picked on by a bully, just smack em down any way you can with any words you can. And if at any point they hesitate on insulting you, then you've won, so just smirk and walk away...

and having friends with you and having them LAUGH at your insults WITH you always get's em...unbreakable...

dang I should write a book...EVERYTHING YOU KNOW IS WRONG!

BOO ya!