Yusshin
♪ Yggdrasil ♪
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- Seen May 13, 2013
This is why differences bring folks together, as well as similarities. Too much similarity and the relationship dosn't have these little quirks that make it special. Not enough similarity and you don't have a relationship do you? Like most things in life, it's all about finding an equilibrium.
Yup. It's just when the differences are for really, really important things that it becomes bad. Like, if you want to run around in short skirts and your partner is modest and doesn't approve. You do it anyway, piss your partner off because he doesn't want people looking at you, doesn't want his family looking at you as "low", and is hurt you did something behind his back, becomes embarrassed and angry, and cause a potential fight about it which could lead to bad results, pending how mature the guy is and how well he handles frustration.
^ That happens often enough in serious relationships lol Maybe not that specific example, but doing sneaky stuff because you think they won't find out. They'll always find out at some point.
When there's differences, you should try to make it have a positive outcome. That brings ya closer :] It's when you fight over 'em that problems happen. Much like wars. Only in a relationship.