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[Juno]

Prolonged jealousy is usually a good sign that relationships aren't getting better.

Yeah, the stupid thing is he really had nothing to worry about/no reason to be jealous, but he just wouldn't let it go. And I'm not going to stop being friends with someone just because you don't like them so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[Her]

yeah. any time your significant other tries to control you & who you choose to be friends with, you should be very wary of them. them making their feelings known is expected (i encourage it) and communication is key to fixing or understanding the negative aspects of a relationship, but moving from communication to attempting to exert control over you is a huge no-no. back away each time they try to do that, if not entirely.

 

[gimmepie]

Real talk here. My tooth is still chipped because my ex managed to slam her teeth into mine. That is not how kissing is meant to work.

 

[Bidoof FTW]

Text logs op

Spoiler:

Luckily I made it out of this train wreck alive :P

 

[Hiidoran]

No Lemonade-esque stories from me.

Yeah, same, really. No super harsh ex stories here... maybe a few disgruntled people in my past over coming to terms with my sexuality, but hey, that's more their problem than mine.

 

[dad]

dated a coworker for a while (would not recommend) and i broke up with him because i stopped liking him in a romantic way but i still cared about/had feelings for him. i think a day after we broke up he started posting stuff on snap of him hanging out with some girl or w/e which was odd for him bc he never posted on snap but w/e. two days after we broke up my friend told me he was dating this other girl, who was a coworker of mine that had been flirting with him maybe two months before we broke up. it really hurt me and made it seem like he was talking to her while we were still together so i blocked him on all social media. when he noticed i blocked him he started bringing her on dates on the days i worked (i worked at a movie theater) to try and make me jealous.

it hurt but i gained some really amazing friends i didn't know i had that helped me through it.

 

[EthanoicAcid]

A while back, there was a girl who liked me, and when I told her I wasn't interested, she let it go for a few months before developing an unhealthy obsession with me disguised as love and ended up treating me like complete crap. That sure was a wild ride.
I also once had this boyfriend who was just a general douche. He got jealous all the time for no reason, tried to control me, kept trying to make me do things I didn't want to, etc etc etc. Now whenever he tries to talk to me, I only humor him because he lets me borrow video games and buys me food sometimes (I don't like it when people spend money on me, but hey, free food). He's not as bad as he was when we were dating, but he's still kind of a jerk and pretty annoying. I tolerate him at this point.

 

[User19sq]

I'm not the type to seek out relationships, so I'm good being single. The extreme few relationships I were in, while worthwhile, were quite toxic at the end. And I've grown happier without dem girls!

Should I go gay, or go man-whore? Either suggestion: WHOOT!

 

[Bellsprout]

ive had some shitty experiences but I recognize I also tolerated these things. Idk what any of my exes or flings are up to now. I'd like it to stay that way lol

 

[Controversial?]

that awkward moment when you are the crazy ex