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Nihilego

Nihilego

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    Have you ever wanted someone to just leave you alone for a while? It may be because they've done something wrong, or maybe you're just sick of talking to them. If so, when, and did you do anything to try to stop them talking to you so much? If not, do you think it's something that could ever annoy you?
     
    There have been certain times when I wanted everyone to leave me alone, so I avoided them, usually when I was depressed or something.
     
    Indeed.. A few times in fact. I never really do anything about it though, I don't want to upset them because I'm normally close to the person! Well at least I never tell them to go away or anything, I might block them if it's online though or try and avoid them if it's offline.

    To be honest though I don't really get this often because I'm the sort of person that (in my opinion) people would get sick of talking to [because I go on and on and on] so yeahhh..
     
    I don't remember a time when I actually wanted to be left alone. Usually, for me, I prefer the company when I'm stressed out - I only have a few people I'd consider good friends and they know how to get my mind off of bad things.

    There are things that annoy me to the point where I'd stop replying for a while, though. For example, when the person I talk to keeps going on about something they're a big fan of when I'm not remotely into it. I mean, yeah... I'm the wrong person to talk to about that ):
     
    For the most part, my body language is the best way for people to get the message that I don't want to speak to them... which is uncommonly often, to put it mildly. I'll keep talking to them and won't say anything directly, but I might start glancing at other people, look bored, fold my arms: enough so that people get the message without me having to actualize it. Some may say it's passive-aggressive, but it works.
     
    lately everything annoys me..and also everybody keep getting on my nervous and when i stay a way they keep coming after me..actually don't know but i hate hurting people in a ponit i won't tolrate more than that...i even hurt someone that was out of all that..sigh,it's just too much more than i can handle...
     
    Yup, there are plenty of times when I want to be left alone for me to do other things, like on weekends when I can just do whatever I want.
     
    Yes... oh god yes. There is a user on here who won't leave me alone and continues to insult me. NON STOP. It's childish and kind of makes me laugh, but you know, I'd love it if it would stop.
    And whenever I'm mad, I like to be left alone, so I don't say anything hurtful.
     
    There's honestly plenty of people who will walk up to me multiple times a day and give me a hug. Which is nice... once a day, not you know... multiple times.

    Then there's other times when I wish someone would come talk to me. Like PLEASE LISTEN TO WHAT I HAVE TO COMPLAIN ABOUT TODAY.


    It's very complicated
     
    I try to treat no one like that, just because I wouldn't want to be treated like that. That being said, I can usually tell if someone wants to be left alone. Especially if it might be my own fault. I can't recall at the moment if I've felt that way recently, but I'm sure I've wanted to tell someone to just back the eff away in the past.
     
    This happens everyday, lol. I just give them one word answers and not really look at them when we're talking so they get that I don't want to talk. SOME PEOPLE THOUGH either are completely oblivious or just don't care otherwise because they continue to talk to me which at that point I'll either get up and go someplace else or find someone else to talk to if I'm just annoyed of them and not annoyed of everyone.
     
    At times...yeah. Usually it's when annoying people try to scrape in, I just tell them to leave (plain and simple). It never really happens with friends, though.
     
    Headphones on...if it is louder than that (and I used sound closing headphones) I am genuinely annoyed if it is within my own household. I will not turn my headphones up to a level which is potentially damaging to my hearing, and I should have decent quiet in my own house. However; such is life, sometimes it is just loud :/.
     
    When I want someone to leave me alone, I don't say anything. I don't do anything. I simply stay away from them/ cut off all contact. It only happens when someone, maybe a friend of mine or boyfriend does something that really upsets me. And that's...meh, pretty rare. But if they keep nagging me and nagging me...it's like a secret switch gets flip...and I start going out of control. Sometimes saying or even doing things that I wouldn't normally do. But again that's rare. Only happened once with an off and on boyfriend (pretty much mouthed him off until I couldn't breathe lol.) If they come off as an stuck up piece of trash, I simply don't pay any attention to them. I come off as cold, distance even. But other than that, I'm pretty much a sweetheart lol.
     
    It's mostly when I'm depressed about something. I try to ignore people, but my friends end up making me laugh, and then I'm no longer depressed. But in my head, I'm like, "Excuse me! I'm trying to be emo. Go away, please. >:("
     
    I often feel like that, but I try not to be rude about it. I just ask everybody around me to leave me alone.
     
    If I want people to leave me alone, I just put headphones in my ears. Problem solved instantly! They can talk to me all they want, I won't be responding 'cause I can't hear them! :)
     
    Usually when I do this, it's my roommate bugging me. I tell him to get out and then shut the door. He goes away after that... usually. Pretty much, if one of our doors is shut we don't want to be bothered.

    For family members, usually I just tell them to go away or remove myself from the situation. Strangers, I'm too shy to say anything. Friends? What friends? :p
     
    There will be countless times where I wouldn't want to be bothered by anyone so what I would do is lock myself in my room and watch television. When I am in college, I would do the same exact thing (since I don't have a roommate this is not a problem).


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