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I don't feel like talking right now, sorry. :/

Nick

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    Sometimes I get into really funky moods, where I don't want to talk to anyone - no matter who it is. I just want to roll around in my own solitude. I end up ignoring people, though I don't mean to purposely ignore them. I think asking them to leave me alone could be taken really badly by that person. It's a little rude, to me. But lord forbid if that happens to anyone else I talk to. I start asking myself so many questions. Why aren't they talking to me? Did I do anything wrong? You know, things like that.

    Do you ever get into these moods?
    Do you end up ignoring people, or do you ask to be left alone?
    How do you react when someone is ignoring you?
     
    I'm getting into those much more often these days, at school especially. And because normally I'm hyper etc. people come to me and ask why I'm being quiet which is kind of counterproductive.

    Generally when I'm asked what's wrong, I'll say "nothing is." It's a blatant lie but it's a way of saying go away, none of your business or whatever.
     
    That's how I normally am... my funky moods are the ones that make me want to talk to people. lol
     
    Yeah, I get into these moods often. Most of the time I really do not have the patience to listen to (most) people, and if I'm already in a bad mood then I'll just straight up ignore everyone because otherwise I'd probably end up snapping at them. I just ignore people unless they actually ask what's wrong, I find most people are only interested in talking about themselves and even if I make it really obvious something is wrong they either are too dense to notice or just don't care. The people that do show they care will get some sort of response from me though.

    There are some people that are an exception for this; I'll never ignore my favourite people, I'll either be glad to talk to them and it will just brighten my mood anyway, or I will be open and talk to them about what's wrong.

    If a close friend is ignoring me, then I'll ask what's wrong. I'm usually pretty pushy in getting them to tell me and I might go on a huge speech about how much I care and why they should tell me because I can help etc. if it's someone I'm not really close to I'll just get the message that they want to be left alone and do just that.
     
    Do you ever get into these moods?
    Definitely, but there's always at least one person I'd like to talk to.

    Do you end up ignoring people, or do you ask to be left alone?
    I usually ignore first, but if they're not getting the hint, I'll just reply with short things to hint even more. And if THAT isn't a hint enough, then I'll just say "look, I don't feel like talking right now." As for irl, I just don't reply. lol

    How do you react when someone is ignoring you?
    Pretty badly. I assume I did something wrong or they don't like me anymore. I have a bad fear of being ignored or forgotten, so yeah. I can't remember who it was, but someone respected that fear so well. They would always tell me if they were busy or had to leave or something, and if they forgot, they'd feel horrible. I wish I could remember who that was.
     
    Do you ever get into these moods?
    Yup. And it tends to get worse due to my guilt from ignoring people, even if I know I need alone time.
    Do you end up ignoring people, or do you ask to be left alone?
    Both. I just kind of put up a bubble and ignore them. If I really wanna be alone and I'm just not getting the time, I will ask (and tell/yell if I have to) to be left alone.
    How do you react when someone is ignoring you?
    I wonder what's up, or if I have something to do with it. And I inadvertently get guilty because something in me blames everything on me, or maybe because I don't feel like I can assist. But in the end I just do my best to let them be.
     
    I have these moods from time to time. I try to be alone and listen to sad songs to make me feel better. :3

    When I'm ignored, I feel really bad because I think I've deeply hurt the person ignoring me.
     
    Do you ever get into these moods?
    Yeah, really often. More than what I was thinking.

    Do you end up ignoring people, or do you ask to be left alone?
    I do ask to be alone, but more often I ignore people.

    How do you react when someone is ignoring you?
    Well, if it's a friend, I ask him/her what's wrong to try to be helpful. If he/she really doesn't want to talk about it because he/she thinks it's not important or anything else, I let him/her in peace.
    I can seem persistent sometimes, it depends on the situation.

    If it's somebody I don't really know, I let it down and leave. I've been ignored a lot, since my youngest age, so...It's not a problem anymore, I live with it, it became a habit.
    And if this was important for that person, well, never mind.
     
    Do you ever get into these moods?
    Yes, I do sometimes.

    Do you end up ignoring people, or do you ask to be left alone?
    Depending on the situation... But I usually would just tell them to leave me alone.

    How do you react when someone is ignoring you?
    I honestly don't care if they're ignoring me. It's their business so I just leave them alone.
     
    Do you ever get into these moods?
    This typically happens when I'm in a really bad mood. Although on a regular day I ignore all my calls and nearly all my texts. I mean I get back to everyone eventually, but people tend to contact me when I'm not in the mood, too tired, or listening to music so I don't want to cancel out. :D

    Do you end up ignoring people, or do you ask to be left alone?
    I just ignore them. If I ask to be left alone then they're going to ask why and annoy me so I just end up getting back to them later without giving reasons.

    How do you react when someone is ignoring you?
    I'll just ask them what's wrong or why they aren't very talkative. If I sense something is wrong or if they tell me something is wrong I'll offer to help and I also mention that if they want to be left alone I'll leave them alone. I don't want someone to feel like they have to tell me and I know what it's like when you just want to keep to yourself so I rather not keep asking them and in turn just make it worse.
     
    Do you ever get into these moods?
    On occasion I do.

    Do you end up ignoring people, or do you ask to be left alone?
    Depends on how bad my mood is. If I feel like responding, I'll ask to be left alone. But I don't even feel like talking, then I just ignore them & fall into my happy place.

    How do you react when someone is ignoring you?
    I become a tad annoyed with them, but I'll leave them be. I know what it's like so there's no point in me becoming obsessive over it.
     
    Do you ever get into these moods?
    Occassionally. Tbh I like to talk to people, even if i'm in a really crappy mood. I find it can sometimes help.

    Do you end up ignoring people, or do you ask to be left alone?
    I just don't sign into MSN if I don't want to talk. Simples. IRL I shut myself in my room or if I can't I just give really short, blunt answers to people and hope they get the hint.

    How do you react when someone is ignoring you?
    Not very well olol. I'd much rather somebody just said "Look, I don't want to talk right now" rather than just outright ignoring me.
     
    Do you ever get into these moods?
    Sure, some days are worsier than other's. But I don't get them often. ^^;

    Do you end up ignoring people, or do you ask to be left alone?
    Depend on how moody I get. If I really am moody I might ignore, but if I am just moody but not so bad I don't ignore them, I just talk as if I am not moody.

    How do you react when someone is ignoring you?
    If someone is ignoring me? At first I take it maybe they didn't hear me but if I repeat what I said and they still don't have a respond I just get a tad irratated and forget about it.
     
    Do you ever get into these moods?
    yes i do alot i get super depressed and dont want to talk to no one no matter how close i am to them.
    Do you end up ignoring people, or do you ask to be left alone?
    i ignore people unless they are in my house then i just hide downstairs or in my room.
    How do you react when someone is ignoring you?
    i figure they have a good reason not to talk and will talk to me when the feel better. they are kind enough to give me space when i need it i give it to them
     
    Do you ever get into these moods? Yeah, when I get really tired in school.
    Do you end up ignoring people, or do you ask to be left alone? I just grumble short responses when people talk to me, or pretend I don't hear them as I'm supposedly "zoned out".
    How do you react when someone is ignoring you? I get physical and poke until I get an answer. Call me hyopcritical.
     
    Do you ever get into these moods?: I don't remember, but I don't think so.
    Do you end up ignoring people, or do you ask to be left alone?: I ask to be left alone.
    How do you react when someone is ignoring you?: I act annoyed. I sometimes ask the person why they're ignoring me, or ignore them as well.
     
    Yeah, I get into those moods and i'm sure everyone does at one point or another. but I make it quite simple, if I'm not in the mood to talk I don't even bother signing on msn. no need to bring down people with my mood yknow? it doesn't make sense.

    and irl, I just flat out tell people I can't hang out.
    when people ignore me? I take it pretty bad, because I like to not take my crappy days out on other people, so it stings when it happens to me. usually if it's bad though, my friends will straight up tell me they had a horrible day and apologize for not wanting to hang out/returning messages.
     
    Do you ever get into these moods?
    Absolutely, daily. I used to beat myself up about being an introvert until I realized it was ok to draw strength from solitude.

    Do you end up ignoring people, or do you ask to be left alone?
    I usually appear standoffish anyway so when I don't want to talk to people, most understand my body language and don't bother. If not, then I 'kindly' request they exit my range of sight

    How do you react when someone is ignoring you?
    Most of my friends are in their thirties so those kind of games are long gone. When I was younger, I'd just brush them off and wait for them to grow up & get over whatever they were on about.
     
    Heck yeah. I do, all the time. I'm definitely (and always have been) a rather introverted person but I think for different reasons than most. It's usually pretty difficult to get me upset or angry over something. I get into moods and stuff usually because I'm focused or thinking about stuff and people are bugging me while I'm trying to do something and I don't want to be distracted. :] Sometimes I really am upset or something, but...

    I usually ignore people. I don't mean to be rude, but asking people generally provokes more response from them and when I don't want to respond to them in the first place and they just keep trying to talk... it just doesn't work. XD

    I'll give them their space if they want it. We can always talk later.
     
    Do you ever get into these moods?
    Yeah, quite a lot. Sometimes I just want to be by myself and have a clear head, and escape from all the crap that surrounds me (or at least what I feel is crap). I can't stand life's pressure sometimes and having a moment to just calm the hell down does wonders.

    Do you end up ignoring people, or do you ask to be left alone?
    I used to only let my (ex) boyfriend talk to me, but now I prefer to just keep it in and only talk to people when I really need to let it out. It's just easier for everyone if I ignored them and keep silent while I'm like this.

    How do you react when someone is ignoring you?
    Usually I'm understandable, because usually I know if they just are like this occasionally or if something is wrong. But if I don't know, then being the assuming person I am, get a bit angry and think they're being rude.
     
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