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    Are you a submissive person? Are you okay with (or even like) taking orders from people such as your boss, your older brother, your parent, etc.? Or do you prefer being the one giving the orders? Why or why not?
     
    I take orders all the time from my brother due to intimidation. I don't really want to get whacked by someone who's double my age, so I guess I'm pretty submissive because I don't want to be injured or something. I could never give orders because I'm not somebody who would be able to take such power. The power to tell someone what to do could be rather great, and I don't think I'm worthy of stuff like that...
     
    I am at the height of submissiveness at work. It's hard to explain but I really enjoy working under someone and doing everything that they say. I feel like this is the thing that everyone hates but somehow I get some kind of gratification out of it. Outside of work I am also submissive, but I feel like a lot of what I do is misinterperted. I generally do things or agree to things because I don't care or see a real point in saying anything back. I just find myself annoyed when people assume it's some kind of weakness when I generally don't give a flying ♥♥♥♥.
     
    Virgo said:
    I generally do things or agree to things because I don't care or see a real point in saying anything back. I just find myself annoyed when people assume it's some kind of weakness when I generally don't give a flying ♥♥♥♥.
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    Ha, I'm the same way, except people assume not weakness, but overwhelming kindness. Like I have strong opinions on where to go to dinner, and I'm just pushing them down for the sake of everyone else. I can never convince them that I just don't care.

    I'm fine with being submissive. I'm also fine with being dominant. To be successful in this world, you have to know when giving orders is necessary and when someone else is more fit to lead your group.
     
    I'm not a great leader and people don't really listen to me, so I usually let other people take charge and support them on the way by pointing out things they could miss.
     
    I want domination
    I want your submission
    I see you're not resisting
    To this temptation
    I've got one confession
    I love deprivation
    I've got a jet black heart
    It's all ♥♥♥♥ed up and it's falling apart    ​

    So, anyway, I'm a dominant person. I take orders from no one. It's always the other way around, and I like it.
     
    I am not submissive at all.

    It gets me into SO MUCH TROUBLE!

    I have a tendency to stand my ground, when shutting up and moving on are more advisable, usually. I fight to make my point not only heard, but understood, even if it's wrong. The thing I want someone to understand is what I think and feel, because it's something I work on and it's something I've struggled with; making myself understood.
     
    It depends. I don't mind taking orders from my parents. I am to respect and listen to what they want me to do. If I'm in a group setting- I'm the leader. I'm naturally a good leader, and I enjoy being one. I'm usually the man with the plan. However, my patience runs out quick often. If someone doesn't listen, or do what they are supposed to do, I get frustrated. I like have a "right hand man" in this scenario. I can trust them with whatever assignment I need them to do.

    In the case of my best friend and I, we are both leaders. We have a mutual relationship where neither of us is the leader. We are always Co-owner, Co-caption, etc. it works pretty well and we get stuff done fast.

    If I have to be submissive, I can be. I'll follow orders.
     
    If it's an order from someone higher-up than me, absolutely. However I do also take "orders" from the other work study students with me at my job as well, because we all work together. However, from someone like my older brother, I may occasionally dismiss him if he wants me to do something for him that he could easily do.
     
    KNEEL BEFORE ME. I SAID KNEEEEEEEEL. - Loki (Sorry, I couldn't resist. XD)

    Anyway, I do tend to take orders from people. The only time I do is if it's like my parents or if they are of higher authority than me. If it's someone younger or something, then I most likely won't take orders from them. It just depends on the situation. I've never been the type to really give them, but then, it also depends, again, on the situation. I don't really know why, I guess it's just the way I am.
     
    I'd say I'm a nice mix. Almost all the time, I'm happy to go the other way on something, and to go along with someone else's plans etc. When I do set my mind on something and I really want it though... stubbornness will get the best of me. But generally, I'm a calm passive person these days~ (I was slightly more stubborn in general a couple or so years back... not sure if it was a matter of being more prideful or what, then.)
     
    Before it's been belayed to me that I had submissive tendencies. Nowadays, I hope that has changed. In matters of principle, I won't relent, even if I'm wrong. But it's rare for me to step out of line...solely because I wouldn't know what to do if given the chance to lead.
     
    I'd rather be the one giving orders. But sadly, sometimes life requires you to be submissive to others. Ughhh.
     
    I'm usually a leader/order-giver, not an order taker, haha. People tend to listen when I ask them to do something. It's not like I wantonly disobey authority whenever I feel like it, but if I can tell that the person giving me orders/telling me what to do is an idiot or unqualified to do so, then I judge them for it.

    If I respect you, though, I'll do whatever you want, usually.
     
    Usually I don't really care about something enough and I'm usually pretty accepting to requests and things like that, which a lot of people seem to confuse for submissiveness when it's really just indifference. Do you know what I mean?

    When it comes to something I actually care about, or something that I need to care about, I'm often the one giving directions and telling people what to do or how to do it. That's how I work at school and what I was like at work, and with things around the house.

    If I don't want to do something or feel like something is pointless, I will say something and refuse to do it.
     
    I give orders when I need something done. I don't like it, I'm not very natural, it's like I'm a different person.
     
    I've always been the submissive type simply because I've never seen myself as an aggressive individual, and would prefer to be passive. Especially with people who I respect, and have an authoritative position, I take their instructions seriously. Simple example would be professors. I listen to every word, and their words are basically of utmost importance.
     
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