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"I'm just not comfortable with that."

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    What do you consider to be your biggest insecurity and why?
     

    Bounsweet

    Fruit Pokémon
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    My forehead, it's pretty big. It isn't Tyra Banks big but it's still a little bigger than average, which is why I wear full straight-across bangs.
     

    Sableye~

    Back to PC~
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    Everything

    Too many things to pick from. >_> My hands bother me, so I'll go with that, as for a visible thing.

    Myself as a person probably would be it, as for something that isn't visible. I really get on my own nerves.
     
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    Sydian

    fake your death.
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  • My forehead, my eyebrows, my chin, my teeth, and my ankles. I think that's all. I'm not going into detail lol. I mean, I don't look horrible, but those are my worst features and I wish I could change them. I mean, I can cover my forehead, fix the eyebrows, but I can't change my chin, I can't do anything about my teeth, and ankles are stuck being what they are as well.
     

    Letham

    Pokemon Training Specialist
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  • My hair. Have never been able to really get it to how I felt comfortable with it. I've tried a lot of different styles and nothing seems to work.
     
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  • My mistakes. When I mess up I am really hard on myself. I'm not a perfectionist per se, but I have standards for myself and when I don't meet them, particularly when it comes to other people and how I interact with them, I usually feel dumb and incompetent. Like if I'm absentminded and I forget to do something and someone else ends up having to do it for me I feel like such a jerk even if it's something small. Actually, it's the small things that make me feel worst because they ought to be the things that I should do without any trouble.
     

    Sweets Witch

    I just love ham jerky.
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  • I'm paranoid about how much people know about me and I constantly think they know more than they actually do, so my biggest insecurity definitely deals with how I haven't come to terms with some of the more complicated things that I like.
     

    Mark Kamill

    I like kitties
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    The fact that I'm 19, everyone has a proper beard, and I'm the guy with crap genes, having to grow it out slowly but surely.
     
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    Having to function as a normal person within First World society.
    "Both the right —and the burden— of self-determination."
     
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    pikakitten

    You met with a terrible fate
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  • I'm just completely out of the normal, I just don't belong in this generation, I need a more sophisticated society where men's biggest issue isn't getting laid, teenagers aren't abusing everything they can get their hands on, grammar is an international rule, people don't judge you for liking something oriented toward a different audience (Pokemon, MLP, cat obsessist, etc xD)
     

    Shining Raichu

    Expect me like you expect Jesus.
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  • My face. I still get acne and I'm turning 23 this year. I hate my genetics sometimes. I'm not unattractive, but I do get self-conscious about that.
     

    Hannah

    beep bop boop
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    I often feel insecure of those girls on Facebook who gets more photo likes than I do. It's stupid, I know.
     

    curiousnathan

    Starry-eyed
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  • My confidence in my ability to achieve. I always doubt my abilities and while I've proven I can aim and achieve high, I... never feel I can. My fear of failure is probably the biggest cause of this. I'm a perfectionist at heart so when things are out of place, I get stressed, and when I get stressed that adds to my self-doubt and then the mix of those two leads me to failure. Haha.
     

    Honest

    Hi!
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  • I'll be one hundred percent honest, but I can't really think of an insecurity that I haven't overcome. Granted, in the past I was insecure about several things, but nowadays, whenever I think about them, I just laugh it off. I think I have the "I don't care what other people think" mindset. I dunno if that's a good or bad thing, to be honest.
     

    KriegStein

    Nuclear Reactor
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  • I have a twin problem. Or rather dual personality problem. At timea I can be all dandy and cream and sugar. Or just plain happu go-lucky... And then next thing I can be a real ****. Not mean but just realy crumpy. Or just too sophisticated and arrogant. I dont know how to explain this. I cant realy be with people the right way. Im either controlling myself too much or too little. And yeah... It realy makes things sometimes hard for me when I think about how others feel about me and how I should act and be.
     
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