Like a virgin

I am a born again virgin. >…> <…< *coughs*
I was 14. And I didn't choose it.
 
I'm a virgin. I haven't even been kissed yet, let alone on a date or in a serious relationship. Definitely haven't had sex. Figure once I'm in a serious enough relationship I'll try it. Until then, no use stressing about it. *shrugs*

At this rate I'll lose it at 40 but I don't care. :p
 
Still a virgin here, and might be for life... I'm not really pursuing a significant other right now... more focused with finding a job... once that happens, THEN I might start getting active on the dating scene.
 
I'm a virgin, and a want for anything other than that isn't really there. I think I'm too asexual to really care about sex, let alone care about sex enough to go out and seriously try to lose my virginity. That's odd, considering that I love to flirt with people, but it's always light-hearted. There are plenty of other things that occupy my days, and my mind, and I rarely think about sex. When it's brought up it almost makes me sick to stomach. No idea why, so don't ask me. >__> I'll lose my virginity once I actually meet the right person, and it'll probably only happen if my feelings for them are strong enough, other wise I probably won't be interested.
 
I lost mine at three days before turning 18, AND I WANT IT BACK. >_>

It wasn't by pressure, though. I lost it by choice, because I thought I'd be staying longer with the person, but that never happened. I gratefully regret losing it even to this day.
 
I never thought this kind of topic would be discussed here. As for the question... I still have mine and I'll most likely keep it for a very long time. Let's just leave it at that.
 
Never had sex, been on a date or kissed someone and I am proud of it, IMO sex should be saved for marriage. I don't want to loose my virginity and regret it and by only having sex with your spouse you seriously reduce the chances of getting an STD.
 
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I'll be 20 in about a week, and I'm still a virgin. Honestly, like someone else said earlier, I'd much rather just cuddle. Not to say that I don't ever want to, but there's no way I could ever be comfortable doing it with anyone that I didn't know extremely well, and truly love... which is no one atm.
 
Luke you are DISGUSTING and you should be ashamed of yourself /spit

I still have it but I wouldn't really mind losing it lol, idk I don't really *want* to take it very serious, sex just seems fun to me and I want to hold on to that thought or it can get very complicated. But I wouldn't mind either to keep it for a while still, I mean it will come when it will come right?
 
Nah I'm not one. Lost it about a month before my 18th birthday, with the guy I'm still with today. No regrets (:
 
I'm 13, so I think still having it is in order ...
Plus it's against my religion :)
 
I'm 15, so yeah I'm not even of legal age here yet (which is 16) but I've seen people who've lost their virginity before 16 and very much regreted it.

I seriously would jut want to lose it to someone special I suppose, when that might be? Who knows..?
 
I'm sixteen (going on seventeen) so I've legally been able to lose it for nearly a year. Not that I have, and not that I want to. I don't see it happening in the foreseeable future. Not just because I'm wildly unpopular with the ladies (I am) but because it just isn't the kind of thing I want to do. Ever, most likely.

Part of me thinks that sixteen is far too young to be considered a consenting adult, and no good can come of it, but another part of me says it's up to individuals whether they're going to be responsible or not. The sensible part of me just says 'Hey, none of it's going to affect you either way, so who gives a damn? Let them do what they like.'

What really does annoy me about the whole thing, though, is the perceived social stigma associated with virginity. It seems to be something that people feel the need to ask about, for whatever stupid reason, and still having your V-card is something of an instant downgrade in terms of interpersonal relations. Of course, I don't really attach myself to that scene, so it doesn't really affect me, but . . . there's always the possibility that it might come up.

A further step, however, tells me simply that anybody who cares whether I'm a virgin or not isn't worth the time spent talking to them. *shrug*
 
Nope, haven't been since 15. But that was somewhat of a 'drunk mistake' after a carnival with a friend I'd been getting a lot closer to over that time... That was hugely regretted since she wanted a relationship and I... well yeah. Since then it's only happened with my ex-girlfriend whom I was with for just under 2 years, and due to the way we broke up I don't want to get that close to someone again for a long time yet. And if that means not having sex with them, so be it.
 
I haven't been a virgin since I was 13. Some of you who know me might be surprised to hear that I wasn't even drunk at the time, haha. It was legitimately something we both decided on rather than it just happening randomly, which would have been cool too and much less awkward I guess. Not that it was too awkward, but yeah, you get the idea!!

Tbh, although by social standards I know that 13 is too early, on a personal level, I think it's fine. I was ready, she was ready, we're kids wanting a bit of fun, so why not?

Also, I'm seeing a lot of people in this thread concerned about social status and virginity. I don't understand why it matters... If you've lost it, fine, if you haven't lost it, fine. I don't see where the issue is. If it wasn't such a taboo topic I don't think there'd be any issue anyway.
 
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