Like a virgin

Nope, not at all. I lost it to my second girlfriend around midnight on August 6, 2010. I was 18, going on 19. I don't regret it.

Now, with my current girlfriend, we are quite active in that part of our relationship.
 
Razor Leaf said:
Also, I'm seeing a lot of people in this thread concerned about social status and virginity. I don't understand why it matters... If you've lost it, fine, if you haven't lost it, fine. I don't see where the issue is. If it wasn't such a taboo topic I don't think there'd be any issue anyway.
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Things like this don't really help matters, in all honesty:

[PokeCommunity.com] Like a virgin


(That's not a knock on the film, which I do like...)

Anyhoo, yes I am. Lack of opportunity rather than anything else. To be honest, I don't tend to think about it a lot... it really doesn't concern me for the time being.

And this is sooooooo going to be the most viewed poll, like, ever or something.
 
I am not a Virgin, I lost it at 14 years old to a old friend of mines (we knew each other since we were 5, he was 6) and we just wanted to know how it felt and we had sex. I am sexually active with my boyfriend of 16 months, I wish it went to him instead of an old friend of mines.


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Never been ashamed of admitting that I'm still a virgin, and that won't change. Anyone asks me, I just honestly reply.

In the relationships I've had, sex is just something I don't aim for, or really don't mind not having it, as long as the other person and I get along in the other aspects of the relationship. I do enjoy hugging a lot (and I mean a LOT!), and well... I've had quite the times I could've lost my virginity; recent one with my ex-gf, a few months ago. Something was telling me to just not do it... and now that she's an ex, I'm glad I didn't.

Point: sex is something special, wonderful that in my case, I'm saving for that one I truly love.. so we can both enjoy it on a higher level... no regrets...​
 
Drew Barrymore played me in Never Been Kissed, so it stands to reason that I haven't even gotten close to losing my virginity yet. Although I'd like to lose it, I'm not simply going to give away my virginity to just anyone. Sex before marriage is a-ok with me, but I don't want to have sex with anyone apart from the person I love. I want it to mean something, instead of a hot, passionate time on the bed.
 
Nah. I'm only 15. I'm not in any rush either. Definitely not gonna just screw around with guy or gal I pull off the street. =/.
 
What a touchy subject, especially considering that this is a pokemon forum.

That being said, I still got my virginity, but I'll probably lose it within a year or two, to my current gf, most likely.

P.S. - I feel like some of you are lying/trolling about this. Losing virginity at 14? 13??? What countries do you live in?????
 
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Unfortunately yes.

I'm well aware I don't want the implied permanent physical tie that comes with sexual bonding with somebody, so I'm not too keen about losing it.

A lonely life sucks. :P But I feel there's nothing I can do but accept my loveless reality. I'm just unlucky.

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Luke you are DISGUSTING and you should be ashamed of yourself /spit

I still have it but I wouldn't really mind losing it lol, idk I don't really *want* to take it very serious, sex just seems fun to me and I want to hold on to that thought or it can get very complicated. But I wouldn't mind either to keep it for a while still, I mean it will come when it will come right?
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loool @ your reaction to Luke
 
2Cool4Mewtwo said:
What a touchy subject, especially considering that this is a pokemon forum.

That being said, I still got my virginity, but I'll probably lose it within a year or two, to my current gf, most likely.

P.S. - I feel like some of you are lying/trolling about this. Losing virginity at 14? 13??? What countries do you live in?????
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Oh, how you'd be surprised about the statistics over here in mexico, my friend... ​
 
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Oh, how you'd be surprised about the statistics over here in mexico, my friend... ​
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Or in any laddish society, at that.

Honestly, I've been ridiculed for about a year now because I've desperately been trying and failing to lose it. It's actually hilarious now, I often laugh at myself for it.
 
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Or in any laddish society, at that.

Honestly, I've been ridiculed for about a year now because I've desperately been trying and failing to lose it. It's actually hilarious now, I often laugh at myself for it.
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Don't lose your virginity just because people mock you for it. Wait until you've found someone you love and been with for a reasonable amount of time. Don't just grab a girl and jump into bed because you'll regret it. And those people who are ridiculing you are probably people who lost it and regret it, they just want you to end up like them.

Anyway, I'm 15 and I'm still a virgin, which I'm not really bothered about. I don't plan on acting on love until college.

lmfao @luke's post.
 
I'm still a virgin. I don't neccesarily want to wait for the right person, but I do want to wait for someone that I like to share that experience with. I don't want to be some sleazy guy who hooks up with random strangers lol
 
Ugh, no I'm afraid I'm not. I was pretty...intoxicated when I lost it and competely regret it.

Moral of the story: be careful with substances and tramps, kids.
 
I, am a virgin. But I know exactly who I'm giving it to; my girlfriend, who I know is the only girl for me. It's sort of a long story. I'm 17 at the moment, (well, 17 and a half, but nonetheless) and our 4-month anniversary is coming up in a few days here. We've talked for years before we were together, because we both loved the other but didn't know (we are both very oblivious, obviously) and one day, August 21st, 2011, we were together. This is now our anniversary day. She ended up telling me that she loved me, and upon that, I told her I loved her too. Since then, we have been completely inseparable, and we always will be. I can't live without her, so my virginity is definitely hers. But, that being said, we are going to wait until take our relationship slowly until we think we're ready.
 
No. 18 which is pretty common where I live. For me, sex is not something magical, it is something that is fun to do and feels good. That said I wouldn't have sex with any woman. I had opportunities to have sex before I was 18 but I felt no attraction towards those women (physical attraction isn't everything).
 
Nope, can't say I am. Lost it when I was still 20.

Although it taught me a lesson I'll never forget, I can't say it wasn't enjoyable. I really liked the person I was with and it's a moment I won't forget. That being said, I'm kinda with Luke. Sex is sex. It's a lot nicer when you're having it with someone you have feelings for, but I don't limit myself to that. I used to think otherwise, but... opinions change I guess. :]
 
Still one over here. Kinda wanting to save it for when I'm ready and wouldn't have any regrets. I've had opportunities before, too, but I had no inclination. I've been with the guy I love for almost 3 years now. It's a long distance relationship and we both agreed that we wanted our physical meeting-ups to be about each other and not just the opportunity to have sex. I think just jumping at it just because we have the chance is kind of irrational. Although I know I'm in a loving relationship right now, but I'm not in any rush to give it up. I want to feel at a time and place that I'm comfortable with it, and I want to make sure we'll be together. I wouldn't particularly like the idea of going into a new relationship not being a virgin, to be honest; My reasons are pretty personal, but essentially I just want to be able to give myself to that one person, and penetration is a big trust and intimacy thing to me.. and it's something I value and take pride in with myself.

I guess a lot of people would think I was crazy for it, if it's not for religious reasons. I'm 22, yes, so people would probably ask "how can you fight the urges? You have someone who's willing! etc etc" but.. whatever. It's my choice. Perhaps this is a bit more TMI than I was intending, but I'm trying to be mature and honest here, since other people are putting themselves up on the table.. I figure.. why not? Everyone here is an adult.
 
Yes I am; I simply don't like people enough to want to **** them, and I'm quite happy about it.

Really though, there's been a few people, but I pretty much personify the term "opposites attract" and they either don't like me, they're crazy, we never last long, or never pass out of the "more than friends but not a relationship" stage. I'm glad I didn't give it up to one of them. I'm just not good at finding people right for me in any sense.
 
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Like a surgeon

Although intercourse is interesting to me, I have yet to lose it.

Although I've had a few thoughts that have been Holden-Caufieldy in the past (KEEP ON YOUR GREEN DRESS), I'm pretty comfortable with the thought of sex with another person. I sometimes wonder how I will eventually lose it.

I do want to give it to someone I care about, so even if I and the person I give it to break up, I won't regret losing it to them on the fact that I cared about them at the time.

I will lose it before marriage, I can tell you that. Drive the car before you buy it. Because sweetie, if it's not working out in the bedroom, don't expect for it to work out anywhere else. Not that you love each other less, but sexual frustration is no laughing matter and could threaten your relationship. Like financial pressure. Except it has a sexier solution.

._."
 
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